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Do you prefer being the dominant one or the submissive one in bed?

Do you prefer being the dominant one or the submissive one in bed?
I love to be dominated while still playing a very active role in sex, what are your preferences?
I prefer being dominant
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I prefer being submissive
Vote B
I like to be in both roles
Vote C
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You're attitude is what I prefer in a woman. I like to be dominant when it comes to taking control and fucking the hell out of her. But I want her to fuck me right back. And I don't mind giving her control at times if she wants to ride me and use me. Sex has to be for mutual pleasure.

  • I prefer being the dominant one in bed. However, I love the woman on top/cowgirl position because it provides a better view of, and access to, a woman’s breasts; plus it’s extra naughty to see a woman ride you—it’s like she’s using you & your c*ck to get off on... and that is so hot.

    • Thanks for the MHO

    • No problem ;)

Most Helpful Girls

  • I love it when my partner dominates me in the bedroom. He knows what I love and gets so turned on pleasuring me. It’s empowering to know that someone craves me.

  • There is nothing about being dominant that appeals to me. Him in control and losing control is what turns me on.

    • There is comes dominance. Control by him and not to allow cum.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I'm a dominant and that's the only thing I could be - I don't have it in me to be submissive.

  • I prefer being dominant, and a submissive girl that also plays an active role in sex is what turns me on the most

  • We just go with the flow and change around depending upon our mood. We love giving each other pleasure.

  • I’m almost always the dominant one in bed

  • Variety is the Spice Of Life! 😉

  • I prefer to be dominant but at times, I can be submissive when called for.

  • I tend to be more dominant during sexual encounters roughly 80/20. however have been known to let a girl take control once in a while. to spice things up and keep it interesting for both of us. really depends on my partner and the mood/setting.

  • I prefer to lead but not dominate. Think Tango dancing.

  • Submissive but can also be the dominant one in bed either if I'm really in the mood or just to express my enthusiasm for the moment

    • Yes both can be fun. Depends who's more horny and feeling adventurous. Depends on my mood really

  • Submissive. I just love her being the dom.

  • Dom for sure. Sub guys are life.😍😍😍

    • It's rare to see a purely dom girl.

    • Thanks?

    • I have to ask, what do you find so appealing in sub guys? Seems more and more girls like them.

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  • I like to mix it up, but some people prefer to be one or the other. Have an open discussion with your partner about each other's preferences.

  • I don't mind if she takes the lead every now and then.

  • Is it gives her an opportunity to do as she wishes and show that I'm willing to please her as well Can and helps keep the bedroom adventuress And exciting

  • Neither. However, I would be open to dominating my partner in the bedroom, if that is what they prefer.

    As for submission, I am not a submissive though I used to think I was, because I have a gentler personality instead of a aggressive one.

  • I am a switch but love being the submissive bitch more

    Love when my fiancée has her way with me hehe

  • pin me down and fuck me senseless

    • Hot damn PM me

  • It’s usually an equal dose of both. I star out submissive, then I take the reins.

  • I enjoy being the one in charge

  • Dominant in a romantic way... not in an agressive way

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