Am I a bad person if I I had sex with an escort and I lost my virginity to an escort?

so I had sex with an escort on 10/25/2020 and now I feel bad about it. I feel bad that I pay for it. and I feel bad that I did not wait till I married. what do I tell my future wife or girlfriend about this? am I a bad person for doing this? also the escort want me to go out on a date with a girl she know should I?
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Most Helpful Guys


  • No, you’re not a bad person... But 1. She’s a gifted con artist & you’re easy to manipulate cause you lack experience with con artists so doing what she suggests is most likely not in your best interest. 2. associating with people who probably have friends that will kill you if they even THINK you might be talking to the cops about any of the drug selling & other illegal stuff they’re into. I knew guys who got killed so I’m not just speculating. Dating a woman introduced to me by a hooker would not be on my list of good ideas.



    As far as telling future girlfriend/wife. You’re overthinking. Unless you get a STD it’s none of their business who you had sex with. And a lot of women might not care about a given fact... except that they know it bothers you & then they use that to mess with your head.


    What you should be focused on is finding out who YOU are. And the answer isn’t at the bottom of a woman’s vag. When you reallt know who you are, you will be certain where you want to go and focus on getting there.

  • I also lost my virginity to an escort and I have no regrets about it whatsoever. There's nothing wrong about paying for sex.

    • ok I think that is ok

Most Helpful Girl

  • Straight up; it is kinda lame to lost your virginity to an escort BUT overall its better that you at least lost your virginity since i know being a virgin absolutely will fuck with your psyche. The fact that you feel sort of guilty and lame about it is actually a good sign, it means you have self-awareness, like srs girls will look down at you but don't sweat it because now you can finally say you had sex. But would NOT tell your future girlfriend about it, women WILL judge you straight up.

    Overall its good that you finally know what sex is like and you can walk and talk knowing that, which is a subconscious thing that everyone around you will pick up on.

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  • You’re not a bad person

  • Sad not bad

  • i don't judge like that

  • I see nothing wrong

  • Shit no.
    That’s essentially what dating is, only you put less money and time into it and get what you are going into it for.
    No female bullshit, games, etc.

  • No you are not. Clear your mind.
    I rented a Corvette before I bought one. Same thing.
    Keep this to yourself.

  • Hope she’s not pregnant

    • we use condoms