What turns women on more? Is bigger really always better when it comes to sex? Or does good foreplay and sexy demeanor turn women on more than size?

I’ve heard some girls say they prefer bigger, and I’ll respect that. But I’ve also heard many girls say they’d still accept average.

I used to have my own set of insecurities when it came to the size department. Mainly when I was still very immature in my early teens. But then I realized what dominates the porn industry is not reflective of the general population at large.

The problem is there just aren’t a lot of studies to go off of, so many guys like to relate size to porn, even though it is not a good indicator of the general male populus.

I don't know. It just seems to me like a lot of the larger guys are more sexually frustrated from what I’ve been reading.

I’ve heard complaints lodged from them about how they can’t penetrate all the way and how frustrating it is when girls try to give them head.

And sometimes they’ll even complain about how they can’t get girls to orgasm, because a lot of them seem to believe that size is the only thing they need to play on.

From what I’ve been hearing it’s a guy’s demeanor that turns a girl on even more.
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  • I think good foreplay and sexy demeanor can go a long way. I can't remember the last time I knew a woman who was bragging about having sex with a guy who had a horse size penis who left her dry and unsatisfied. Guys with big dicks are capable of being selfish and unskilled lovers, and for that you might as well work with what you've got and be good at making a girl cum however you can.

  • If a guy is a good lover then the size doesn't matter. I've heard that guys that are big suck in bed cause they think the girl will be pleased just cause he has a big dick. Which obviously isn't true

    • Right... they don’t make it exciting enough

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  • Ideally all of those. You won't find somebody bragging about getting "fucked" by a micropenis either :/ but at least with a big dick, the woman can get on top and get a decent orgasm. A small dick will always be limited, no matter how sexy his demeanor

    • What about average size?

    • Anything under 7 is too small to bother with

    • Guess you won’t be having much sex then

  • Average is better, girls have told me I’m too thick. Foreplay can always be improved as it’s a skill.

    • Ah so your problem is width not length?

    • Yes, about half the girls I’ve been with got scared when they saw me and wouldn’t let me try to stretch them out

  • If you pay attention to what she likes and don’t bust in 30 seconds you’ll be fine

    • Problem is I can make myself cum within 2 minutes while watching porn videos

    • Not necessarily an indication, at least not for me

    • Ok. Just wanted to make sure that was normal 👍

  • Size, schmize.
    It's what he can DO with whatever he has. Demeanor, patience in foreplay, creativity (what are you doing for Halloween, for instance?)

  • I never see Love in any questions as a requirement. Relationships here are sex based or likes me. Sex will not always be good, but true love is forever.

    • But I’m saying sex is a good component to have in a relationship. Which of my options would be preffered?

  • Combination of both, but I must admit, I'm a size queen :P

    • Like you can handle big dicks?

    • Yeah, I can.

    • How big?

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