No sex in a relationship means what?

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thecuriousone2020 · Accepted Answer

Have a look at this article:

Sex is great. The best, even. Sex is usually listed as an important—if not most important—element of a relationship. That’s why many relationship fizzle after the honeymoon phase ends. And just when shit gets real.

A true romantic relationship can survive the sexual ruts. Both partners can recognize that sometimes the sex will be bad. But when it’s good? it’s mind-blowing. When sex isn’t considered the most important factor in a relationship, it gets better and better.

1. It’s not your most cherished memory. When you look back on the best times you’ve had with someone you love, you don’t immediately think about that great sex you had that one time. Maybe you do, but it’s not the thing you value most.

2. You can have sex with anyone. You can’t love anyone. Se x with someone you love is amazing, but it’s not the most amazing thing about them. And it shouldn’t be.

3. Sex isn’t necessary for all relationships to be strong. You don’t sex with your friends, you don’t have sex with your guy friend, or anyone in your family—unless you’re a Lannister. Sex is great in romantic relationships, but they, like these other important relationships, can survive without it.

4. It’s kind of gross. Sure, it feels great. Amazing when done well. And actually pretty damn good when it’s terrible, too. But when you really think about it—genitals in genitals, exchanging genital juices and such? It’s gross. It’s so gross.

5. There are better (and less gross) things to do. Like, watch videos of cute baby animals. Netflix and literally chill. Eat a hamburger. Take a walk outside.

6. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. The less you have sex, especially in a relationship, the more you appreciate. And, in most cases, the better it gets.

7. It’s not the key to happiness. Many people equate their sex lives to their happiness. But the truth is, they’re not connected at all: it’s all in your mind. There are happy people who have a lot of sex, and there are happy people who don’t have a lot of sex, or don’t have it at all.

Marcuslrh · Accepted Answer

Nothing special really sex is not what makes a relationship sure in our society it has become such where your in a relationship everyone thinks sexual relationship but that's not the case on how it should be sure sex is great and can be a luxury part of a relationship but is not what defines a relationship so if your happy without sex in a relationship nothing wrong with that and am sure that will make your relationship even stronger and prove your ment to be if you do not require it to be happy in one. that's how all relationships should be not just living for the sex that's a narrow minded being who thinks like that

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I held off sex with my boyfriend for about 4 years. We started off making out, dry humping, touching, then i let him jerk off over my breasts or my butt, I started giving him handjobs and blowjobs. He was always horny and one creative way i found to stay a virgin was to get naked or semi naked except for a small thong and grind my pussy up against his naked penis until he cums, another way was to let him thrust between my thighs from behind or on top. We tried anal but it hurt and I couldn't take more than the tip fortunately he came quickly. One time I was on top grinding up against his hard cock, he was cumming and I was in the zone just about to cum for the first time, well some how my soaking wet thong parted to the side and his dick just slid in just as he was cumming, I came myself. It felt really good inside but I was terrified because I wasn't on any contraception. That's how I lost my virginity.

PBandJ_Nerd · Accepted Answer

It could mean many things honestly. Maybe the couple hasn't discussed it yet, maybe the person is saving themselves for the right time (when they're ready and want to or for marriage), the couple could just be enjoying what they have together and sex hasn't crossed them yet, etc. There's many reasons why. It doesn't always mean something bad or something is wrong.

Paris13 · Answer

Companionship. xx

katiesmuff · Answer

For me it would mean I'm gone!

LingyRolls · Answer

It means divorce.

ushagomez · Answer

It means time to move on.

JPrez · Answer

He’s either Beta, gay or getting it somewhere else.

Avicenna · Answer

It means the relationship is in big trouble.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

exclusive relationship without sex = friendship and/or roommates and also mean one/both are asexual.

Dargil · Answer

It is a friendship only.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

He’s not into you and he’s getting something somewhere else

MikeTheBartender · Answer

He's got a low libido or he's not that into you.

lil_a · Answer

The relationship is not gonna work out

bowenw · Answer

If neither want sex, than nothing. If you want sex and your partner doesn't it could be a problem. If that is the case it's time for conversation about it. Are they saving themselves for marriage or is there some other reason. You owe it to yourself to understand what's at the root of it.

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

For me it meen ther is no phizical atraction and the girl don't realy like me.  It make me feel used for my money and her mental confort that she have somebody around her to confort her.