Neither. Like I mentioned before, I tend too be a bit of a snob when ti comes too HJs, BJs, and simulated TFs or FFs. Pumping is for rank amateur's just beginning too learn male biology from boys willing too take a chance at risking injuries in the hopes of release at the hands (double entendre intended) or 👄 of eager too learnn young coeds and classmates of the opposite gender. I have a somewhat more refined palet, when it comes too fine dinning, as well as a moer refiined phalas, and a crude yank and thank just won't cut it anymore, anymore than rubbing a ladies clit raw, with no regard for the rest of her anatomically relevant appendages, would be the work of a gentleman providing oral release that should always exceed pleasure, to the point of ecstasy, as the standard male lips too female vaginal lips lip service, another great pun of double entendre caliber by yours truly.
No, I am no longer 😌 satisfied with even competent orchestration of my external, internal plumbing too the tune of explosive seminal eruptions of the Mt. St. Helen's class, or even Kracketoa, that only almost destroyed an iland community. Such orchestration may be on par with the 1812 overture, or even Mozart's Teuete' in E minor. I'll accept nothing less than truly inspired erotic compositional engagement too the lavasiose ejaculate release equivalent of Beethoven's 5th Symphony
Arizona-Nevada-Utah sized supervocano level ejaculation pending.
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Slow and steady we have the. Whole day and then it's my turn. Lol well all that is true to a point i might let her do it 10b20 min. I like it but I have never been one to relax and let it happen I would much rather be doing itbtobher I love the feeling I get When I can make someone want somethibgbso bad younger I every inch of there being wanting it craving it pushing pulling to get it and you take them RIGHT THERE THEY ARE READ TO JUST LET GO AND i stop just holding them so they can't move i have my body so locked in to there body so deep eith so muvh force and pressures then holding me so tight thst they can't even say WTF NOOOOO ,, it's just the HOTTEST MOST BEAUTIFUL MOMENT when I RELEASE and in slow deep motion START all over again
Its never a big deal to me whether I orgasm or not. If he cums before me (which happens often) I just have him rub my clit or use a vibrator. Sometimes I just don't feel like cumming or just can't get there. I find that the more and louder I moan even if I'm just not feeling it the more turned on he gets and the quicker he finishes (men are so easy), sometimes when I'm faking it and he's bucking harder i actually get more into it. If I want an orgasm I will have one or multiple, sometimes before he gets there, sometimes through sex or foreplay, after he's finished. Quite a few times I had diy orgasms after he left and went home just because why not, one time I couldn't get there and after a marathon sex succession he went home and lying in my bed still horny I pulled out my vibrating wand and got there really quick with it on full power.
Men are so easy to please even when we aren’t having sex because I don't feel like on my period or tired I just give my guy a blowjob, handjob, lapdance while while he jerks off, Tittyride, ass job, let him pump between my thighs (from behind, missionary, standing up), let him jerk off while I shower or work out (nude). A good one is to talk dirty while he jerks off, sometimes just topless or mimicking what he is doing on like a dildo or large vegetable. Works really well by video call if your apart.
I only had one guy fake it, he lost his erection and pretended he came, whiskey dick.
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Well I voted "Slow down baby" and was happy to see that's where the majority of the guys landed.
The girls seem a little clear clear on that. Take note, girls.
There's a time and place for both styles/methods, but in general, unless there's some sort of time deadline or appointment looming, people should slow down and savour it if it involves a partner. Unless they're helping out as 'maintenance' (which I hate - you do maintenance. I'll do the more lavish but less frequent ones.)
The best orgasms, and often experiences, are about being present in the moment and building it up. Where the mind goes, the body will follow.
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Lmfao. You're doing it wrong, Desi.
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I really did not think most people would put slow on this, so I absolutely learned something new.
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I think a little fast for a blowjob might help. Too slow and it might take awhile. Not that I'd complain if she stays there for hours, of course. I don't get what's the deal with the handjob: If I want a hand, I have my own, so I really don't care about handjobs, fast or slow. I want what I can't get by myself
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Its same like you driving a Car.. you start slow and steady and build up the speed once you get along... until the "oil pump" bursts...😁
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I like to make whomever I with lose control so I tease him as much as I can without touching it, before going in with the hand or mouth slow and keep it at a slow place before he begs or until I give mercy lol
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That's the perfect way to do it , that's what I do to myself mostly
It seriously depends on the mood... and possibly how horny.
I generally believe that sex should never be rushed and it should be enjoyed moment by moment instead of rushing forward as if the only thing that feels good is an orgasm.
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Right lol
No option for both Slow & Steady and Fast & Furious combined? 😂😂.
Not a BJ fan, but combination is better for the good old traditional HJ 😍☺
That would of been C another way 🙂😅
😀 You had me at Slow & Steady 😉😉
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finding a husband isn't necessary to experience it
Both... At different times... LOL
Lol right! Depends on if there's a"need" for speed 😅
Need... Or desire... 😉💦
Lol right again
Starting slow and finishing fast usually does the trick
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You always oral and THEN handjob, never either or reversed. You gotta get the dick as slippery as possible, rub it where your spit is thickest, get it nice and ready for the magic that is your soft womanly hands.
Best handjob: always cup the balls, squeeze lightly, like you have 2 eggs in your hand, you want to squeeze them together just enough so they dont crack, slowly and constantly. Grasp the cock firmly but dont let the spit slip through your fingers or squeegee it off.
Massage the head up and down your fingers with your fingertips on the frennum and your palm on the top of the shaft. Apply less pressure going in amd more pressure going out like you're milking it.
Say things like "look at how full these balls are. Are you gonna cum for me big boy?" If you're being submissive or "give me that cum. Close your eyes and dont open them until you cum" if you're being dominant
am used to it to be quick but jax taught me slow can be better
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Slow and steady. I speed up some when he’s close to orgasm.
Mix of both.😉
I'd prefer hand jobs... It feels more respectful... But if there is something she wants to do... It's up to her too
And I'm going say slow and steady. Just enjoy the moment
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I've done my share of hand jobs but oral sex is just so damned demeaning. I always start slow and squeeze on the upstroke. When he starts looking like he is about to blow, I go faster and faster.
Why are bjs demeaning?
You just ask what works for them
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mixture of both tbf
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Slow and steady and then when it gets close, speed up.
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