Is it true that Middle East countries, are very strict about girls virginity before marriage? And the family is the one who provide the partner?

[Anonymous]

I saw an article about middle east countries and their cultures, and its very interesting and also confusing. Correct me if its true or not about these please.
Guys in these regions take foreign girls as their sex toys. They will never take you seriously no matter how long you have been together, because they already have their woman back home that their families already rearrange the marriage for them. Those women are suppose to be virgin and virgin ONLY until they got married. Their religion and family have the most influence in deciding couples.
Love for the family
Family in here It includes his parents and your parents. When married He sees family as number one and loves his wife and children very much. He will teach children to have the utmost respect and obedience to their parents. Therefore, it is not surprising that some families provide a partner for their son Or, if the husband wishes to have a cause for additional wives, he must first seek the opinion of his parents and the wife. For example, the wife cannot have children. Or for health or other reasons.

So because of strict cultures and family, guys in the middle east tend to seek freedom in sex from outside the countries more.
There are 2 types of guys that are common known :
The first type will be the Playboy guys. Who only want sex with you Because he may be suppressed because of the culture to have sex only when married. When he easily gets you, it will see you as his only sexual response.

The second type is the good man type. Have a good and generous interpersonal relationship and he will make you trust him. Then to invite you to go on a date May look like a flirtatious flirt like a playboy But he will not be aggressive with you and very gentleman. Which, if combined with a sharp and dark face You may fall in love with him easily. Most of the young people of this type are classified into the modern head group.

So is it true?

[Boromir]

Yes, what you write is mainly true, but in every culture you’ll find good people and assholes, whatever gender they are.

It is true however that they are ‘formed’ to see their ‘own’ girls as wedding material and foreign girls as ‘easy targets for fun’.

It takes a more (emotionally) mature man to see the hypocrisy in this and are up to the plate towards a non-middle-eastern partner. People in the Middle East are like south Europeans, more emotional and thinner blood, and you’ll easier get in fights, but these fights are often superficial and 10 minutes later everyone drinks mint tea again.

Before anyone accuses me, I saw this attitude over the whole religious board, Muslim, Jews and Christians from the Middle East are all culturally Arabs with the above mentioned culture regarding morals and so on.

[Asker]

So does this mean foreign girls shouldn't take middle east men serious in a relationship then? If they are eventually gonna marry someone else anyway?

[Boromir]

No, it doesn’t mean that. I means that your chances are higher to be used as a girl toy then if you would have dated a person from your own culture. I’m living the other way round, my girlfriend is from that culture and her family is fine with me. She did the same by the way the other way here in Europe, have some fun before serious marriage :-) And then we met :-)

[Asker]

Aren't she suppose to be keeping her virginity?

[Boromir]

Yup, then again, they won’t go as far as sending her to a ‚fake doctor‘ certifying her virginity or not... The Middle East has many different countries, Afghanistan and Egypt are not the same.

[Berethor]

It's generally true, he is likely using you for easy sex, while he going to marry a virgin girl.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NatureAdoresAVirgin

[Sergian]

so it means every arab countries?

[Berethor]

Yea or at least vast majority of arab countries, and some non-arab countries as well. As for polygamy it's even more connected to islam, and that's why polygamy happen only in muslim countries.

[Sergian]

I know that they are very good with words and flirt. I have a friend who is dating a middle east guy to the point that they wanna get marry, but his fam won't let him marry a foreigner, they have a girl ready for him back home.

[Asker]

And he did dump her?

[Sergian]

Yeah, family come first

[Sergian]

im interested in this myself yet im not sure i know anyone from middle east, @vivant sorry love, but i got the feeling that you might be able to help.

[Sergian]

oh and you!! just found out that you are from the middle east! @zackban

[ZackBan]

While what you said is true it's not how it always plays out. For example my parents don't have a girl waiting for me back home but at the same time I don't tell them about my romantic adventures. As far as virginity goes there are some who care about that but they don't represent the majority of the culture. For example I don't and can name a hundred other guy like me who don't either.

[Asker]

But is it true that middle east guys and women dont only are ment to marry people from the same region

[ZackBan]

It's preferable but it's not written in stone. Although some religions are harder than others. For example a middle eastern Christian might marry a muslim girl but a muslim would be less likely to for a Christian girl (but sometimes they do) Of course that goes for all other religions but I think it's no more than anywhere else. I'm living in france now and even here it feels to me like people take religion into account before getting married. So if your guy wants you and you want him there are no rules strict enough to stop that. Parents might take a while to accept it but they will eventually once it's real

[Asker]

didn't mean to put it on updates, i was going to ask if most of the guys see sex from foreigners as for fun and release and will never take the girls serious?

[ZackBan]

That's not relevant. Some guys seek sex for fun foreigners or otherwise. Some guys want more than sex they want a relationship and again foreigner or otherwise works, affection is affection no matter what language it speaks

[Asker]

Thank you for explaining ur culture, last question, as some one from middle east, would you prefer foreign girls more or girls from the same bg.

[ZackBan]

Personally I like foreign girls a lot more. No real ethinic reason but I've had bad experiences with the locals back home 😅 Foreign girls are more fun to hang out with and bring less drama. Granted I'm not the marriage type anyway, not at the moment at least since I'm still getting my degree. Don't worry so much about it. A guy is a guy regardless where he comes from, some are good some are bad some are in between. Don't put it on his ethnicity or love/hate a whole race of people based on one person

[Asker]

Lmao, thank you, im less worried about my guy then. Good luck with those girls you are dating

[ZackBan]

Haha thanks. I'm not dating them though, in fact I'm no longer in contact with most of them 😅 guess I'll be riding solo for a while

[Leblebi]

As a girl from middle east, you are mainly wrong. However it also depends on the country. We dont have such things in turkey.
Having more than one wife is forbidden here. İ would be happy to answer if u have other questions.

[Asker]

Oh please i have tons

[Asker]

Does this study apply to any other countries in middle eastern region though?

[Leblebi]

İ am not sure but maybe in some arabic ones. Dont get it wrong but people really think that turkish people are like arabic people and we ride camels LoL. İ would ve glad to answer your questions. (:

[Asker]

So if a foreign girl dates a middle eastern man. Then its obvious that they gonna break up someday amd j right?

[Leblebi]

No you are not, there is no reason to think that way, why did you think so?

[Leblebi]

Like there is so less people who would do that in my country, however i am not going to lie we also have hidebound people like every country, however virginity is generally a important thing in middle east , Even in turkey. As a girl who lost it when she was 15, and so many people know that, it wasn't a problem in my turkish society, but in arabic countries it is much more important.

[Asker]

So arabic countries like Iran, Egypt, Sudan, Lebanon?

[Leblebi]

İran is not an arabic country, and i dont think we should generalize people but commonly yes.

[Berethor]

Erdogan is an Islamist so he would likely going bring back polygamy to Turkey.

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-38030182

[Leblebi]

@Berethor such thing is not going to happen. He just uses religion for vote

[Berethor]

@Leblebi we shall see, he already bring a lot of new islamic laws for Turkey.

[Leblebi]

@Berethor since our founder is Mustafa Kemal Atatürk, i can assure you that turkish nation won't let such thing to happen, Erdoğan doesn't have such intensions as well

[Miyasee_]

@Berethor It’s not marry your rapist law. It’s drop the charges because they are married with children happily law, It’s because of the consent age. The law is for limited number of cases. There is no real rape here.

[Miyasee_]

@Berethor He never bring new ANY laws for Turkey. Lawmaker in Turkey is the TURKISH PARLIEMENT.

[Berethor]

@Miyasee_ there is no real murder of woman in Turkey too, only a raise of 1,400%, nothing special.

[Miyasee_]

Exactly, This is important. Erdoğan doesn’t have such intentions.

[Berethor]

@Miyasee_ he does, and it comes naturally with islamism, rape, killing and all that ISIS stuff.

[Miyasee_]

@Berethor Erdoğan is a conservative democrat. Just like western conservatives party leaders but nooo it’s supposed to be like Isis. Erdoğan even suggests Egypt secularism. It’s been years lol you are still the same shit, western media is ridiculous. Nothing happens. egyptindependent.com/erdogan-calls-secular-egypt/

[Leblebi]

@Miyasee_ the turkish republic is the state that gave most harm to the ISIS, also ISIS is not müslim

[Leblebi]

Wrong tag sorry lol

[Leblebi]

@miyasee_ is sooo right

[REDHOTLINE]

Oha hatundaki ingilizcrye bak helal olsun valla sana. bir kere daha taktirimi kazandın cici kız

[AmeerX]

I think the misconception part is the taking a foreign girl as a sex toy which is not true

[pizzalovershouse]

wouldn't know

[Valnac]

You know more about it than I do!