A message to girls feeling proud about their thick/chubby bodies, stop?

Question

From when I was a kid, my mom kept telling that when I grow older all the guys would want me because at that time (2008-2012) the ideal girl body type was tall sickly skinny girls. But as I grew older now at 17, 4'10 and 32kg, I've realized that my body type is the most unattractive ever to guys. No ass, no thighs, almost no tits, my waist is meh. And bones everywhere. 'Real woman have curves' 'I can't hug her she's gonna brake' 'thick thighs save lifes' 'I need something to grab on if not she's useless' 'I can't cuddle with a stick' and all that, has made me incredibly insecure. My desire to be the dominant one in relationships and in bed TRUST ME is the worst contrast ever.

'But the inside matters' well that's not good in me either. I'll save you the details. And besides, if you're not sexually appealing to a guy, and not have a gOoD hEaRt, are basically stuck in the friendzone forever. And many times not there too, have you heard the whole saying that 'girls aren't funny' but as soon as the girl is sexually appealing (not too much though) she's suddenly hilarious? Yeah.

On top of all that I have an overbite my teeth are fucked up and I wear glasses. Girls are ridiculously jealous of me and it makes me so angry because their so ungrateful. 'Oh no woahhh you're sexually attractive and can make a guy on top of feeling loved and safe incredibly happy and fulfilled because what's a guys favourite thing in all his life? Sex. Oh maannn what a poor victim you are'.

Sure, I can wear more fashionable clothes, but I'd give that over being able to make a guy almost completely happy anytime. Girls, please, if you're reading this, listen to me, feel grateful for your body even if it has cellulite and strechmarks, belly fat and arm fat, only low iqed pedos Indian and Nigerian scammers like the bodytype you so want. Even people who claim to like lolies basically want a short girl with a 9-10/10 face thick thighs and an ass.
Feel proud.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Oh man. I hate the body expectations that change every decade. It constantly changes from skinny to thick, boobs to ass and then vice versa. It's tiring. I've been a chubbier girl for my entire adolescence and I was never found attractive. So I lost weight. And I'm still not found attractive. Shit sucks ass. If you're not a perfect 10 you're undesirable and it doesn't help that the society standard change all the time.

Little_Bumblebee · Accepted Answer

Everybody likes different body types and I'm sure someone would love a petit woman like you.

There are pros and cons to everything and most want what they don't have.

There is so much judgement on women's bodies and all we should do is really appreciate all the different bodies we have.
I know it's hard, but try and start to love what you have and just try to focus on being happy and healthy.

Twalli · Accepted Answer

I don't know about sickly, but I do prefer girls on the slim side. As for boobs, I only likecsmalm ones. While I like asses, I don't have too much of a preference

Berethor · Accepted Answer

You sure that you are not a thick girl that want make skinny girls to feel bad? :)

JaneDoe377 · Answer

Guys like all types of bodies. Not all guys like all body types but there is many who love the type of figure you have. I guess you're maybe not meeting any right now but you will. It is true though. Im a big girl and believe me, there's lots of guys who don't like it. I understand what you're saying.

LoveSmallTits · Answer

I love skinny and slim girls with small tits and small ass.

Cellestial · Answer

I agree to a certain extent. I definitely prefer a thick girl over a skinny one yet it doesn't mean they need to be a walking barrel of fat though. There's a thin line between a thick or acceptable chubby body and a fat and unhealthy one.