Small penis issues?

[vulletsxn]

I'm 23, I've had countless girlfriends in the last few years. They never last. I usually break it off as soon as it becomes sexual. I don't enjoy sex due to my penis size. It's 5.5 inches. It's no one's ideal size, I don't care for the pity parties some use to try to reassure smaller men they're not useless. "motion of the ocean" "do oral" now my ex I left 2 weeks ago is pretty upset and I am too honestly I liked her a lot but I don't want to have sex, and she grabs my crotch area a lot and tries to initiate it a lot, which makes me extremely uncomfortable. Cause I have no desire to have sex ever again, I obsessed over this so badly years ago that I just decided I'm done, if I need to relieve myself I will, but that's the extent of it. No woman desires 5.5 inches, they'll secretly wish It was bigger even if they dont admit it, they will. And when I do have sex that's all I think about honestly. I don't like to even look at it or touch it really. Just reminds me how small and useless it is, average, small, useless, however you want to word it. I'm content with the idea of not having sex. I just masturbate when I'm horny. But a few weeks ago I was at my ex's house and I ordered her dinner and planned on just chilling I was wrecked from work so I kinda just wanted to eat and chill, and after we ate we laid on the couch and she started grabbing my crotch and that's like the ultimate way to make me uncomfortable, so I laughed and she asked if we could have sex and I was kinda caught off guard and couldn't think of an excuse fast enough so I was like sure, and she went to the bedroom put on these see through panties and told me to come in, so I walked up to the door and told her I gotta use the bathroom, then I just left, after that I told her it's not working out and she's been calling me crying and begging to know why and I can't think of a logical explanation to give her, someone help?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

You suffer from strong insecurities regarding your penis size. Your insecurities are extremely severe to where you end relationships based on a fear that your partners will not accept your size. The problem with your decision making is that you end relationships too abruptly based on this fear without a clear reason for having this fear. Based on your details, the women actually wanted sex with you, but you broke up with them instead of vice-versa. Albeit penis size does commonly matter to many women and small penises are often the butt of jokes in our society, many women still exist that don't care much about penis size. The possibility existed that the women you ended relationships with could have been women that didn't care about your penis size. Thus, I advise you to only end relationships with women that actually provide you with a good reason to believe that your penis size might be a problem. In addition, many women might consider your penis size average. Although I personally doubt the results for various reasons, many studies conclude that the average erect penis size is 5.5 inches long. Based on my experiences, women believing this statistic isn't uncommon. Thus, the more logical decision would be to focus on women that consider 5.5 inches average and acceptable rather than "ideal" and form relationships with them. What's "ideal" doesn't always matter when you're with someone that can accept you regardless. If this advice doesn't help, then I don't know what to tell you. You might suffer from some form of anxiety. You might also suffer from an ego problem as well, where you're bothered by not being ideal and simply wanting to be among the biggest that she experienced rather than loved and accepted by her. For both of these possible issues, I would recommend therapy.

[SueShe]

You make the situation only worse for yourself because you actually believe what you are insinuating.

Do you really think the the 1.5+ billion women worldwide that are married to men have chosen them for their monstrous 6'' penis size? Wake up and be realistic. You are a victim of the porn industry that makes you believe that everyone is endowed with gigantic 6'' penises. The industry apparently was successful at brain washing you.

What you are experiencing is nothing else than a psychologic issue that is self inflicted based on how you perceive the perfect penis size.

You probably just experienced the first symptoms of erectile dysfunction based on the stress you inflict yourself. Get professional help before it is too late and you fall into a real depression because of your assumptions.

[vulletsxn]

It's not the industry. I've seen probably all my friends dicks (oddly enough) any most of them are massive, but that isn't really my issue, Im not jealous or mad that I'm smaller or that I'm useless as a sexual partner, it's my experience with sex that's pretty much ruined my outlook on it. I've had sex 4 times, one girl called it "fun sized" like the candy, the mini candy, and another girl just downright called it small. And it humiliated me, I didn't watch porn and say man I'm different I'm smaller I'm inferior. That I can accept, I'm different from a lot of men in a lot of ways, none of which bother me very much, it's just really those 2 incidence that stuck with me and kinda ruined it forever.

[SueShe]

With your penis size, you are just slightly above average, even in the US. You are causing yourself this stress for nothing. You just chose the wrong types of girls that are nothing more than bimbos. Any decent girl that does not prioritize sex and penis size will be more than happy with your size as long as you know how to master your penile attachment.

[vulletsxn]

People use the term average a lot, like it's a good thing. It's not. It's small. I've accepted the fact that my dicks little and it doesn't bother me much anymore. What does bother me is that seems to be the only thing a relationship is centered around. No sex? Relationship can't work, it's sad. I could do just fine in a relationship without having sex, and without cheating too, but woman I've met can't seem to do the same. I don't see why I can't find a girl who is happy just being together and not having sex.

[vulletsxn]

The thread I made wasn't so much about my penis, it was more about my ex and how I can work around sex and be with her without having sex

[SueShe]

If you want any relation to work, you need to communicate. This is the base of any relation. Talk to your girlfriend about your views and perception about being intimate. Not everybody is the same when it comes to libido and the frequency to be intimate. To some, it matters more while to others it is not important. Prioritize the right things in life. Being intimate is an activity that is performed less than one single percent of an adult's life. Why does it take so much importance to some? It is because they don't set their life priorities right.

[vulletsxn]

kinda hard to say to her I don't wanna be intimate cause they always assume I think they're ugly or gross

[LingyRolls]

I think you're not giving yourself enough credit regarding size. However, if it's holding you back that much, consider finding a respectful hung guy to help you two out in the bedroom. She loves you, is loyal to you, cares for you, but she gets sexual relief from the friends with benefits. You can even watch and enjoy the show. Thoughts?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

Lol, you just suggested that he be a cuck. That might not go as planned. There is a good chance that she just might fall in love with the guy cucking him instead and forget about this dude.

[LingyRolls]

Anything is possible, that's why it's only a suggestion to consider. He knows her better than any of us. For my husband and I, this works very well...

[Stellaluna84]

Honestly I think you’re overthinking your penis size. I’ve slept with at least 20 men and I can tell you 5.5 in is definitely larger than average and you have absolutely nothing to feel ashamed about.

[vulletsxn]

Well, if you were my ex would you consider dating a guy and not having sex

[Stellaluna84]

Would you pleasure me in other ways? What if your ex actually enjoys having you inside of her?

[cjgsu]

It ain't ur dick size that's the problem. Itz ur mentality bout it.

U wanna pretend ur penis is all u got and that itz all we care bout no woman gonna wanna deal with a guy who is self conscious bout his penis and thinks we this shallow.

Also if u ain't pleasing ur girl.

Do something bout it.

Instead of saying boo hoo my penis is small and not satisfying my girl.

Try 2 improve ur skills from oral, toys and techniques that she likes.

[Brutallyhonestgal]

Love yourself :)

[louiseisaturtle]

Learn to love yourself buddy

[vulletsxn]

I love myself, I just don't want to have sex.

[louiseisaturtle]

That's good. You take your time. It's up to you when you're ready. No forcing just perfect timing. If you don’t want ever then it's your rights