Well obviously I'm not informed enough to answer but how does someone implement BDSM into their everyday life? I thought it was just a bedroom kink.
It's honestly a level of power exchange. Whether you have a male Dom or a female Domme, the submissive gives some level of control over their everyday life. The amount is certainly to the submissive and there are typically rules and structure and tasks given to the submissive. A good Dom (me) will always make sure that it is something that will fit within their lives, including taking into account family, work, college, etc. If rules are broken, or a task isn't completed, the structure of the power exchange dynamic comes into play... a system of punishment and rewards. By the way, any sub that reads this... never get involved with a Dom (me) who only has punishments but no rewards. Of course punishments can tend to be sexual in nature, such as spanking or withholding orgasms and stuff. Or it can be something related to the actual offense. Like maybe you have a Dom who has a sub in college and one of her rules is to make sure she completes her coursework in a timely manner and never late. If the sub is late on something, maybe its something as simple as a punishment of writing lines... you write 100 lines of "I will do turn in my homework or projects on time" or if the cause of the work being late was because she was allowed to go out with friends and she partied to much or something, she is left with a punishment of no socializing after a certain time or a curfew. Now all rules should be negotiable for the most part. When I had a sub I always had the daily journal entry that would be my one non-negotiable rule. But nothing sexual or harming to any side should ever be mandatory until it is agreed upon. I could go on but I digress. Lol
ik im too young but what else did u expect from a teenager lol
ik myself pretty well when it comes to power play. i like to feel the power over me. i guess you could say im a sub. i like the feeling that my dom or whatever can do whatever they want to me xd that like gets me real good ig. sry im posting anonymously its juts that im a little embarrassed lol
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