Why is loving a girl very tall usally called a fetish, while loving very tall guys is thought as normal?

It's a mystery to me why there is a difference bin how we think of men and women when it comes to Preferences. When a guy admit he's mad about us very tall girls , he usally get told he have a fetish for tall women. But when a young immature girl open-hearted brag about how much she fantasize about a very tall guy, band that she love to be treated bad abscstandvin her tip toes to kiss and hug him , it's said to be normal. Why that hypothetical difference in the way men and girls are treated
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  • I suppose it's because most guys don't give a crap about whether a girl's height, but most women openly say they prefer a taller guy, and don't have a problem laughing at shorter guys, which explains partly why short women are so insecure about their height, I suppose, since they must imagine men are as judgmental

    • *about a girl's height

    • Liking tall girls is called a fetish? Really? I never heard that! Listen, the heart wants what it wants. You love who you love! If a tall girl rings a guy's chimes, that's fine if they're both happy! Who cares? Why do we have to express judgements or opinions about what kinds of traits attract us?

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  • Well a ton of girls like tall guys, and a lot if guys don't really care about height. Really it's just popularity that determines if something is a fetish or not.

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  • Sexual dimorphism, a guy being taller than a girl is normal, it's a masculine trait.

  • Cause men don't want to feel smaller than their girl? It's not a good feeling at all.

    • Real guy don't mind , it takes a great guy to be with a taller girlfriend

    • Well yeah not all guys care about that.

    • Wouldn't say only "real guys" don't care about it that's disrespectful would you date a guy who's 4"8?

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  • It is just a weird popular view of society. Society is weird.

  • A fetish is an attraction to something abnormal. So there ya go there is your asnwer.

  • girls prefer their guy to be taller than them

    it's about "protection", they feel from that.. as girls, on average, tend to be short

    • It must be a fetish , like my hubby were told by all , when he fell in love with me, he's 5'11,5 I'm 6'8 tall, and couldn't have gotte a more natural lover, I don't find it's a fetish to love a shorter guy, it's simply natural, wouldn't think the risk being beaten up by a taller guy than my self, were natural , and it's hard to understand why so many girls like to be treated bad and violent by a talk dude, usally we don't want to be treated bad, therefore most women like myself must be with shorter guys, and if I think if all them relationship I know well , most have a shorter guy , perhaps all my friends are simply brighter than avarage people I don't know, but admitted I find girls who have a taller boyfriend less intelligent and really never bother being friends with then anyway. And I do think to my self when I look over all them couples in the street , there's a good reason why we have all these women being abused at home, things could be way different if those girls in general choses guys shorter than them self

    • i prefer her to be shorter than me WITHOUT her heels on, but taller than me WITH here heels on. i'm 5'8"

    • Great if wish I could be like that, but being 6'8 barefeet and never will date a guy abovt 6' it will never be an option for my lovers they need to look into my boobs , and that's fine with me, if I want to look my guy into he's eyes I'd need him to step up a stole or bend over, can't find anything more trilling and it turns me on too

  • I don’t care what other people think, I just concentrate on my own relationship!

  • Well it’s the norm when a guy is taller than the woman so when guys are attracted to tall women it’s usual a fetish because it’s not usually what you see

    • Who decide what norm us, most girls love shorter guys and I'd yet to meet a guy who doesn't find my 6'8 body sexy, and no guys hesitate to ask me up for a dance, only some tall guys get annoyed I take the attention from them as the DNA in most tall people is others attention is a drug from them. I love the attention I get being tall, and wearing heels with my 8-9" shorter guy really make us bout feel like in heaven, a guy shorter is so hot and natural too. If I were to date a guy my own height it will feel awkward and as a fixed relationship , as women in general will seems as a horrible idiot if she chose a guy on height, and a horrible Heightist too

    • You are one of a rare few, when I say normal I’m going by what most do and on average, at least in most countries the taller guy is more desired because of a sense of protection for the shorter women

    • Sorry but even if I saw guy those 4-5" taller than me , so he will be 7'2+ tall I'd still would fell much more sexual attracted to guys way shorter, and ones again I know most of my girlfriend have the same Preference , ofcauce a few of my girlfriend's unfortunately are short and can't find guys Shorter than them, I'm lucky being 6,8 most guys are shorter, and it's ofcauce a great advantage that it easy to get a guy at least 7-10 " shorter as they are much more attractive. My age 35 years give me quite a good experience, I know that young girls have other Preferences as they are much more into the tall the highly acclaimed tall men who have always been featured in all the media, even though it goes against all logic and we women's real sexual desires, where I certainly think that the vast majority of women feel most attracted to men who are shorter than them. Far too long have we women suppressed our innermost desires to stand up and say that deep down we most want to date men who are not tall, we should start right now to change that

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