Ideally, how often should a healthy college male have sex?

I know it varies depending on relationship status etc.
None / should abstain
Vote A
Once a month
Vote B
Once a week
Vote C
2/3 Times a week
Vote D
Every Day
Vote E
Multiple Times a Day
Vote F
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  • Interestingly, I read @SueShe Opinion when I voted C, once a week.

    I like her reasoning a lot but after I read and think, I still insist on once a week as ideal.

    With 100% supporting the "getting his papers" argument, I like to add that "life is more than career and material pursuits".

    We all know that.

    But many are so good at climbing the social ladder or making big bucks yet a total failure when comes to love life and relationships.

    I think the reason is because too less focus is given to relationships and sex life during college days (not the common argument of spending more time getting good grades).

    I knew how to get straight 'A' on paper. But I was a total failure in sex and relationships at the time.

    And I regretted I kept telling myself "study is more important". This idea became my cognitive "cushion", my "anti-depressant", my self-deceiving motion that "I'm ok, I'm good".

    Frankly, if I could re-live my days, I would choose lesser grade, but learn how to date and have sex, not for a short-term burst of carnal satisfaction, but for a long-term knowledge of how to please a girl and win her heart.

    Hence my Opinion is, study hard, but balance with disciplined weekend sex that is made possible via a "proper" romantic relationship. Yes, enough 'A' s on paper, plus one more in life. This I think, leads to a more contented lifestyle after college.

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  • Ideally, how often should a healthy college male have sex?

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  • If the guy is healthy, then he thinks of his studies and prioritizes them over intimate relations.

    Therefore, as long as he is in college, he should refrain from diverting his attention with trivial things and concentrate on his papers. On the week-ends, he may have intercourse once but that is definitely not a standard or obligation.

    It is up to his discretion whether he wants to pass as a manwhore or be serious about his studies.

    To sum up, ideally would of course be zero (vote A) where vote B/C are acceptable but at the limit.

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  • Screw times a week at least, given the easy availability of hookups

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  • It depends on his masturbation and sex frequency

    • When I was in college I wanted sex 2-3 times a day and ever jerked it up to 5X/day sometimes. It depends on getting enough sleep and eating right. drinking could decrease it for some guys