I think guys these days don’t give a damn about women problems especially their girlfriends?

[Anonymous]

My ex expected me to be exactly like a porn star, he insists that he wants me to do certain acts that are considered extremely degrading, he didn’t give a damn about how I felt but expect me to listen to his problems about his dick size LOL how pathetic. He should marry a porn star rather than get a girlfriend on the internet he’s so stupid, now I know why he’s in a class where almost all the students have not much intelligence that explains why. I feel like guys like him are much more common compared to good men. Good men will listen to their girlfriends problems like how they’re pressured to shave almost everywhere, how hard it’s like having the perfect body, how they suffered during pregnancies and menstruation. To be honest good men and women are rare. It’s kinda hilarious when shallow jerks and bitches want a very good partner who will be a slave to them.

[LiamSawyer]

He obviously has a porn addiction, I quit watching porn in my late teens as it was so fake and unrealistic. Why would a guy want to cum on his girls face there doesn't seem to be any pleasure for either partner by doing this, it's done in porn simply because they feel the need to show the money shot. Why any guy would want to make the woman he loves gag on his dick is beyond me, hopefully he makes her puke on him and maybe he'll think twice about doing that again. There's many more things but in general you can see that I agree with you.

[Asker]

He doesn’t have common sense. He thinks deepthroat is beneficial to the woman but it’s not. They even show a guy shoving her head down when she’s giving him a blowjob. Having sore throats and vomiting are something porn doesn’t tell you/display. Which respectful guy will demand giving facial to a woman or worse giving her facial as a surprise without warning will make her very angry or get blinded by it, luckily he broke up with me I’m so happy because I’m free

[LiamSawyer]

I'm glad to hear that, you certainly didn't have to put up with that behavior. Most guys like that are also selfish lovers and don't worry about giving you the pleasure you want and deserve.

[LiamSawyer]

I'm sure you'll find a good guy, we're not all like him. Good communicatiion is key to a good relationship both sexually and emotionally. If you ever want to just chat feel free to follow me or PM me.

[AlexDeLarge]

I'm sorry that guy was such a dick to you. Not trying to sound like one of those old timers saying "back in my day" but I think a major problem for him and the younger generations is that porn is so easily available and it's hit an all time low. Many women are mistreated and put into scenes with guys who have way above average size dicks. Its lost a lot of the fun now. If younger guys are watching this then they're probably thinking that's what every girl wants which isn't true. There are lots of good guys around but its almost like they say "chivalry is dead". Just keep being you and the right guy will appreciate you one day

[Asker]

Are there any mature guys who can tell porn is just acting?

[AlexDeLarge]

Most mature guys can tell but not many immature guys can

[Asker]

Porn is usually unrealistic but sadly some guys can’t tell that women are not into it. They should know the porn industry is usually messed up fantasy. Even erotic novels for women is also messed up. Porn is only focus on male pleasure and that sex according to porn should be selfish and degrading

[AlexDeLarge]

It's become an insane freak show and you know all the depraved ideas for what these girls have to do came from men

[Asker]

The women in porn are forced to pretend to enjoy it but in reality they don’t. They’re either paid or they are sex trafficking victims. Quite a lot of women are tricked into doing porn because they’re not careful. Most guys don’t know victims like them existed. Porn does support human trafficking. Even those willing to become porn stars had to deal with the hardships

[AlexDeLarge]

I agree. It's sad that it's happening

[Asker]

Even now more women are watching porn and never think that there are some of those women who were victims of sex exploitation and human trafficking. They think they had to do all those sex acts in order to keep a man faithful to them

[AlexDeLarge]

Yep. I wish society was more educated about these things. I'm glad you know what's going on

[Asker]

They should teach about sex education in schools but not all do that

[AlexDeLarge]

They should teach about all the horrible things going on to prepare everyone when they leave school

[Berethor]

What acts you consider extremely degrading?

[Asker]

Deepthroat and facial

[Berethor]

Make sense, and personally I don't care about those acts, in sense of not needing them.

[AndyOh]

There are a lot of really shallow people out there.
What I see are a lot of couples where one of the partners is a shallow selfish self centered jerk, and the other is a nice, easy going, good person who puts up with the other partner. Why?
Dump his or her ass and find someone who will treat you right. And listen!
I am still looking...

[Natehunter199]

Trust me, there are good guys out there. I tried my hardest to help my wife through her problems. 8 years worth of trying. It got to the point where she couldnt handel it anymore that she kept pushing me away. 17 years of being together since we were 17. 12 years married. 2 kids together and she just walked out. Guess there is no changing of help some people no matter how hard you try. But dont ever settle for some that wants you to degrade your self and dosen't care about your feelings.

[bowenw]

Hold out for a decent guy that treats you like a princess. One will come along when your least expect it if you just be yourself.

[Juxtapose]

Find another guy, I run into shitty people all the time too.

[Twalli]

Good men and women find each other and keep each other, because they know how rare it is.

[IStoleYourHoe]

i care unless it gets to the point of complaining every second about everything, i hate complaining from anyone. not sure why he wants you to be a porn star, most porn is faked anyway.
from the moans to the aftermath.
i guess maybe you live in America, men there are rude as fuck.
i don't like men who are like that either, im bisexual myself.
my advice? date a bi guy, they're more equal.

[iFarted]

"To be honest good men and women are rare."

Because you said both genders I applaud you. "Good" is subjective, we all looks for different things.

[Valnac]

The problem is guys your age, they only think of themselves.
Older, more mature guys would never do anything like that.
They are more attentive to women.

[REDHOTLINE]

Its your opinion you know only one guy and think all the guys are same

[Asker]

Is it true that majority of guys are like that? Or only some? Because I only had one ex

[REDHOTLINE]

Yes you had only had onr and rhink about all guys the same

[CharlieDMX]

We are not rare, you just don't mix up with the nice guys group

[DarKNesSRenger]

Damn this reminded me of time i got ghosted after 2 year relationship... Fak

[Anonymous]

Put out or get out.

[Anonymous]

Good women don't whine and complain and play the victim constantly on the internet. Guess what that makes you.

[Asker]

But it’s ok to at least tell your problems to your partner rather than keeping quiet

[Asker]

I don’t play the victim he’s manipulative, loves to lie and is unrealistic

[Opinion Owner]

Oh yes, you're definitely playing the victim here. Go back and reread your question...

[Asker]

But he’s the bad guy I met him here on GAG and he lied to me by showing a picture of his “friend” but in real life that “friend” is him. He at first lied to me about his age saying his 24 years old but 3 weeks later he said he’s 17. I admit last time I was a little sadistic when him and me got into a fight and i taught him a lesson by scolding him and threatening him. But now I changed because it’s not good being someone who is sadistic and cruel.

[Opinion Owner]

"I think guys these days don’t give a damn about women problems especially their girlfriends?" You're definitely a "victim".

[Asker]

Did you agree he’s bad?

[Opinion Owner]

Based on your side of the story, he sounds like a jerk. But your question here was not just about him. You're a "victim".

[Anonymous]

Sounds like an idiot guy I hope you find someone better for you soon. Hopefully it is not too difficult