How long do you go down on guy during foreplay?

[Anonymous]

How long do you go down on the guy during foreplay or like to be gone down on? I’m stroking for a while with my hand while our hands are rubbing each other and making out and then I probably go down on him for maybe a minute or two? It feels kinda short but he’s hard by the time I start undoing his pants so it’s not like he needs it in order to get ready. When he goes down on me it feels like it’s a lot longer... maybe 4-5 minutes? Should I go down on him for longer when the end goal is sex or is 1-2 minutes sufficient before sex?

I also feel like it’s too dry when I’m stroking him with my hands and I don’t know if that bothers him. Do you guys mind? I’ve heard lube doesn’t taste great which is why I don’t use it when I know I’m going to be going down on him. Suggestions?

[Tyrael]

In my opinion 1-2 minutes of oral is kind of pointless unless you're just getting him wet to get straight into sex.

If I go down on a girl, I aim to make sure she has an orgasm before we have sex. The reason I do that is because most girls don't orgasm during penetration, it's just a fact.

That can take a while, or it can go quickly. I think the longest I've went down on a girl was about 30 minutes, but that's because it was very easy to give this girl orgasms so why waste the opportunity.

[Asker]

Do you as the guy want more oral even if the plan is to have sex? Or does it make sex go too fast if you are too aroused? I get going down on a girl for longer because she may not come during sex but a guy who is already super hard I would think wouldn’t need or expect as much?

[Tyrael]

You can still enjoy oral even if the goal is sex. Not all guys are the same unfortunately, some guys will struggle to hold it in if they're too stimulated before sex. Others can enjoy oral for longer and still have sex for a decent amount of time.

[TheorionMage]

1.) ALL manner of non-injurious slippery substances that taste good can be used as lube.
2.) As to time to service... as a male, I would say "How long do YOU wish him to last when he enters you?"
If you orally / manually work him til he cums the FIRST time, and then get him erect again...
you're in for a FAR LONGER 'ride' before he can cum again. So... YOU decide~

[Asker]

I would like him to last at least 5-10 minutes during sex. I have a hard time orgasming from anything other than my toy so I usually just get loosened up with him doing oral on me and then use my vibrator on me while he does slow strokes inside me. I would love to be able to finish him off and then have him go again though so maybe I’ll try that out.

[AustinMan]

A great blow job lasts for awhile, much longer than seconds of a couple of minutes. For lube, use your saliva.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

On girls i go down as much they want, i all the time try to make them cum and they are the one who stop me if they don't want to cum and keep it for later at the sex/f**k

[MysticDevice]

I probably wouldn't use lube to stroke him if you're going to do a blowjob in a moment anyway. If the end goal is sex I'd say a 5 minute blowjob. Maybe 10 if you want to tease some more. If the end goal is the blowjob then as long as it takes to finish obviously. If the end goal is the handjob then lube would help. Sometimes people like foreplay for the end goal just to mix it up. I know I do.

[Asker]

I would like to finish him off sometimes and then have him ready for round 2. He is more of a friends with benefits/hookup so we aren’t together that often or for that long so it’s not like I can wait until he’s ready again later. It would need to all be done within 1-3 hours sadly.

[MysticDevice]

In that case I suppose being quick is better.

[Valnac]

What you said is exactly what I like.

[REDHOTLINE]

I like long fore plays and orals.

[UrBrotherCain]

ehhh like 30 seconds to a minute, I wanna last as long as possible.

[gandolph3]

i have never used lube to stroke, it is okay to cum from oral, you can always cum more than once