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If you’re single, what’s the first thing you look for in a potential partner (be honest)?

The first two things I look for are physical, and I’m not at all ashamed of it. A nice smile and nice hair are two things that I find really pretty about a person (male or female). I’m just naturally drawn to them. The lack of these things isn’t a dealbreaker, though.

After that, I try to get a sense of the person’s values and sense of humour. I also think the way they treat others (especially when they think no one is watching) is super important!

What about you?
thanks for sharing 💓
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Haha I meant to post this is dating but it got posted in sexuality. I’ll repost soon! thanks
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  • While I like breasts, they thing I focus most on is her face and body language. Without knowing more about the person that is what will give you more hints and information on her, and it helps to be keenly aware of it, so...

    Looking at what she does, says, looks, how she responds to you and others... Is always a sure thing.

    You can kind of gear into it, if you choose too, when you are out of a relationship. I'm not exactly one with a lot of relationships, but that's what I look for.

Most Helpful Guy

  • The ability to HOLD my sexual arousal... THAT is NOT necessary in a 'platonic' friendship.

    Most wedding vows include the phrase: "... forsaking ALL others" if there's a roving eye,
    you were just "Mister or Miss Right Now til Hotter Comes Along' a 'convenient' friend-with-benefits'.

    • Roving eyes can mean nothing and be shared with your loved ones... Now, roving hands, that is a hell of a lot more difficult to do with your life partner, male or female, it doesn't matter. Never tried it myself, but I am wasn't experienced enough to make it work without repercussions in the past. That was the main reason I never tried it to be honest. I digress, but it's the kind of thing that, without planning, thinking and dialogue can end your relationship on the spot, or so I have been told once. I am talking about a threesome, not cheating. It's completely different.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Physical attraction to the face and common interests/goals/beliefs

    • agreed :)

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  • Compassion and a sense of humor.

  • Sense of humor and face.

  • Personality- is she nice and is she fun to be around.

  • how compatible are were as a possible couple. what her relationship and family values are. how she composes herself in public/group setting vs private settings. if she maintains a generally healthy body and mind.

  • Very first thing is physical attraction. If she activates my eyes I know other parts can be activated once I get to know her.

  • I agree with all your points 100%. Communication it at the top of my list as well as playfulness, not being judgmental, not full of themselves, a sense of adventure, and having a willingness to try new things.

    • yessir

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  • First thing I look for is physical. A cute smile and the way her body curves are my go tos. Then I look for how comfortable they are talking and and how chill they are.

    Because a 2nd date isn't going to happen if they feel awkward around me. Then later dates are used for values, sexual compatibility, etc.

    • aw but some girls are really shy 🥺 like I don’t usually open up completely until the second date 😂

    • Shy is different. I'm going to pick a date that opens you up a bit. I'm not looking for the world date 1. I understand shy. But I've seen some girls be awkward to the point of mean.

    • Oh well then yeah, that isn’t the most desirable. I understand now

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  • i look for physical too but personality is just as important

  • All the things you said, A good face with nice hair may be blond would make me fall for her but respect, how she talks and the real values is much more important. Finally, I will avoid the girls who only want to plays with guys

  • Personality.

  • Values

  • Her smoking status. This is a complete deal-breaker for me.
    If she passes, then how does she look, how does she dress, what is her intelligence level.

  • Whatever you said is absolutely practical and even i would go the same way.
    I would want a shy girl preferably and too much feminine kind of,
    sharp facial features, soft voice, dense hair colour of hair doesn't matter except white... lol, decent figure not a zero model but we both should look good as a couple, all other things come later but yeah physical looks are the first impression and I would obviously give more importance to looks.

  • What you said, I agree. That’s what I feel too.

  • Comparability in and out of the br

  • Pretty much agree with everything you said

  • Friendly faces and personality.

  • Smile

  • Personality 1st. Looks 2nd and sexually kinky 3rd.

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