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What does it mean when your boyfriend rejects a blow job?

To be more clear, boyfriend says girlfriend gives amazing head. One day boyfriend didn't eat all day, went to gym, comes home with his girlfriend, she attempts to give a BJ but he rejects with excuse that he has to pee and he needs to shower to go to dinner with friends.
Girlfriend waits for her boyfriend to pee and shower then attempts again a d He refuses again says he's not in the mood and needs to leave because he's late.
He legitimate didn't jack off that day or eat and did gym for 2 hours and legit met up with friends for dinner not a girl. What the heck does it mean when a guy turns down a blow jobs.
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  • I think in this case it doesn't "mean" anything other than he was distracted and not in the mood. He needed to get cleaned up to go out, so not only is time a factor, but also after a shower, I wouldn't want one because I'd feel like I have to take another shower after, and I wouldn't want to or maybe not have the time. I wouldn't over think this or worry. Simply not the best timing to be offering him one and nothing more. But you can ask him to know if this was the case or not. Offer it to him again after he gets back and he'll probably totally take you up on it? lol

Most Helpful Guy

  • Maybe he didn't want to go meet up with his friends with cum dripping out of his dick, and it was a long day, especially the not eating part, so he might've rejected a blowjob because of that. Don't think too much of it. If you're sure he legitimately met up with his friends and not someone else, then you have nothing to worry about. He wouldn't say you give amazing head if he didn't mean it

Most Helpful Girl

  • That means he don't want to have a bj. Why is it so hard to comprehend?
    Guys are also allowed to have those moments where they just don't feel like it.
    No need to overthink.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I have never turned one down, personally. I don't know what it means, but it isn't normal, for sure.

  • We're humans also and sometimes preoccupied or just not in the mood. Don't read into it.

    Would it bother your if he wanted it every hour from you? You would probably start not getting in the mood.

  • *Might be funky.
    *Maybe he's too tired to cum.

  • You’re reading too much into it he was just stressed and tired one time

  • He got other stuff to work on

  • He probably just isn't feeling great...

  • Maybe he just wasn't in the mood

  • There are few things that would make a bloke reject a blow job. The two most obvious would be:
    1. A sense that it was offered from some idea of duty, rather than desire.
    2. Wanting to keep himself capable for an anticipated sexual encounter with someone else.

    How confident are you in your "legit"?

  • It means he is probably stressed out about something.

  • Assuming he didn't have a chaffed dick from another girl at the gym or something, he may really have just had a lot of things on his mind that were causing anxiety or additional rumination. I know for me, In the past, I turned down sex with my fiancee a few times, simply because I was exhausted from the workday or not horny in the slightest; which typically was due to over-thinking something else in my life, work or family, whatever, that was causing me undue stress and/or worry. It's probably not a big deal. Try again tomorrow. If it persists, then confront the issue with concern.

  • he just didn't want one at that time

    why is it that whenever a girl wants it, guys are supposed to give it to her but whenever a guy wants it, she's like "oh, im too busy"

    • Umm... I don't know I don't turn down sex when I'm in a relationship

    • my ass

  • Cause he wasn't in the mood

  • Most of the answers are right. Sometimes we just don't feel like getting our dick suck totally normal. So its ok ull get it later 😊

    • Truly hope so!

    • Yes. it has happen to me. Rare but yes but if u trust him then its fine. Next time wear something sexy lol. Maybe it can help

  • The only reason I can think of is that he’s getting some action elsewhere.

  • Good question. You should ask him. I feel bad for you, he blew you off when you wanted his dick, without citing a reason.

  • Reverse roles and there'd be tonnes of people commenting calling the guy a piece of entitled shit

  • maybe he didn't want you to taste her pussy on his cock

    • 😂😬😲

  • I have no idea. I would never turn down a blowjob.

  • It's just not on mood, weren't robots.

  • nothing

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