Girlfriend wants to be able to hook up with other women, but doesn't want me to?
Basically, we have talked about open relationships, I have turned it down cause I don't want her sleeping with other men, women don't really bother me. But from our conversations, she has basically said she wants to be with a guy that will at least allow her to hook up with women. She says she would allow me to hook up with guys if I wanted, but not other women. I am a straight man, and I have no interest in other men. So basically she wants to be able to hook up with other women, but because I am straight, I am not allowed the same freedom.
The way I see it, I really like this girl, on the way to love. I only want to be with her, but obviously I would like to sleep with other women, and I understand her desire for other women, and even men. But in a relationship I am monogomous. Her sleeping with women doesn't really bother me, but it doesn't seem fair. She gets to go fuck other people, but I'm not allowed to unless it's someone I find disgusting lol. I don't know if that is me being childish, and tit for tat. I'm sure a lot of guys would say they love this, but I have dated bi women before. I don't want her sleeping with other men, so I understand her feelings, but it's not my fault I don't like dudes lol.
How do I handle this situation? I would like to make this work. I would be fine with it if I got to join in here and there, but I also don't ever want another dude involved, so I don't want the "you fucked another girl, so I get to fuck a guy." Do you think I'm just being selfish, if it doesn't bother me that much? Or is she being selfish and I am right to question this a bit?
Prefer answers from older people that have actually had experience with relationships.
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