The sex in my relationship is not good, is this a valid reason to end things?
Overall I am emotionally happy and do have pretty strong feelings, but the sexual aspect of the relationship is just missing for me. I am constantly thinking about having sex with other people, and I feel really bad for it. I feel petty for considering ending the relationship over bad sex, but I feel like I’m going crazy without it. I am only 20, he’s 24, so maybe I am just hornier than he is. But I just feel like now is my prime young time, I wanna be having mind-blowing sex. But the other part of me also really wants this relationship to work, because I’ve now invested time and feelings. I feel like I am leaning more towards breaking up with him, but I also feel like I’m gonna break up with him, then get my sex fix from someone else, then regret breaking up. He really is a great guy who treats me incredible, he checks off all of the boxes except sexually, but I’m feeling like this may have to be a deal breaker.
What would you do? Is bad sex a valid reason to breakup? If I do decide to break up with him, do I tell him it’s because of the sex?
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