Why do guys want to cum inside a female/ why do guys do odd things during sex?

[Anonymous]

Everytime me and my boyfriend have sex, when he's inside of me he and he's stroking in and out he always says he's gonna nut inside of me and I'm like no your not and he'll be like yes I am and I always ask him why he wants to get me pregnant he never answers but he never nuts inside me he always pulls out but he won't ever let me touch his thing when he's cumming and I don't know why like I want to jerk his thing off while he cums but he always moves my hand away from his thing and I have no idea why he does that and yes we have sex without a condom which I know is a dumb desicion cause I could really end up pregnant but yeah and he also will put his hand on the back of my neck as If were hugging and when he does that I can't see his face and he would be breathing hard and saying f*ck or sh*t and I want to be able to see his face and but he won't let me he would also kiss me so maybe he felt like he knew he was going to moan but wanted to stop it so he kissed me I don't exactly know but I wonder why he does that

[Berethor]

You said in the comments that once he let you touch cock and you got the cum off of his cock, and that it motivated him to put his cock back in your pussy, and go for round two, and that he wanted you to ride him after that, so basically your boyfriend is acting like he want you to make him cum only with your pussy, not with your hand, note how in a one time when he allowed you to make him cum with your hand, he was telling you to ride you right after that to "fix" that, with the indication that he want you to make him cum a second time by riding him. Your boyfriend don't have problem with you touching/jerking his thing, but he want you to do it with your thing, basically, also you admitted in one of your comments that when he says that he gonna nut inside you and ask you if you ready to have his kids it turns you on.

You said that it's a dumb decision, but looks like you having sex without a condom both because it allow him to enjoy your pussy more and because you both like the "risk" that he might impregnate you and you would become a mom to his kids. He also like teasing you and/or display his control, both by reminding you each time that he could nut inside of you, and by making it clear that he only your pussy is worthy of touching his cock. You want to make him cum? then make him cum by riding him and/or telling him that you want him to nut inside of you, you want to see his face while he cum? then tell him that you want him to nut inside of you while he is inside of in a position in which you can see him face. Your boyfriend is quite clear that if you want to fully enjoying his cumming then you need to tell him that you want him to nut inside of you.

[Cyfris]

There's a few things going on there. lets break it down some, So guys want to cum inside because thats the whole point of baby batter its what its in there for and what we are biologically programmed for hundreds of thousands of years to do with it. as for the moving your hand away don't take it personal. the build up to the point of release is intense and when your that close those seconds it take for you to get into position or one wrong move can ruin that release and what happens when you get that close and don't release is much less then enjoyable and can even be down right painful. as for the face looking and eye contact that sounds like a self esteem thing.
what do you do about this.. the cumming inside thing as long as he doesn't do it don't make a big deal about and just continue to be clear that your not ok with it. no harm no foul. the jerking him off to cum just tell him how you feel not in the moment but just be like hey when you pull out i want to be the one to make you cum can i please try and i'm sure with open honest conversation you can figure something out that works for both of your needs. the looking at you i think dirty talk during sex could help. i love when you look me like that baby. i love when knowing i make your face do that. you know encourage him gently and build his confidence.

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t want to get you pregnant. That’s why he pulls out. He’s just fantasizing about it. Be careful though. You already seem to understand pulling out is risky. There’s always the possibility he gets lost in the moment and doesn’t get his thing out in time.

[SarahP080102]

It is a natural instinct to want to finish inside and possibly breed a woman. Sex is really about reproduction

[Asker]

That's interesting like he always is like are you ready to have my kids and I'm not gonna lie it turns me on a lot when he says that

[Scoliosis-Smith]

He probably has an impregnation risk fantasy. I have one too. I think it would be very hot to get my woman pregnant. From actually cumming inside her to watching the progress of my baby growing inside her and the changes with her body.

[Asker]

Maybe but when he says we gonna nut inside me or are you ready to have my kids it turns me on Soo much

[Scoliosis-Smith]

It does for me too

[Scoliosis-Smith]

What about being impregnated turns you on?

[Asker]

Something about having cum inside me turns me on along with like the aggressiveness makes me soo wet and thinking about having his baby makes me horny too and felling him throb inside me

[Scoliosis-Smith]

I agree. Hearing her beg for my cum to make her pregnant is something that turns me on so much.

[bowenw]

It seems like odd behavior. A good guy wouldn't play mind games with you about cumming inside you when you've clearly made it known you don't want that. Also, most guys would be happy to have their partner jerk him to orgasm. Does he only stop you from touching his dick after pulling out, or does he not let you give him a hand job or BJ either? I suggest having a conversation about why he behaves the way he does and letting him know what you want. In a solid relationship partners like to please each other. If he's not willing to discuss it or change, some couple's counselling may help.

[Asker]

After he pulls out and starts cumming he doesn't let me touch it to help and he always wants me to put his thing inside of me at the start of us having sex and I don't know why he wants me to put it in

[bowenw]

He could be ultra embarrassed about sex and about having your hands touch his semen. What would happen if you were on top in a cowgirl position so he couldn't hide?

[Asker]

I don’t know cause he kissed me a lot when I can tell he’s about to moan and I don’t know why he’s doing that

[bowenw]

This certainly is a mystery. Could he be worried the neighbors will hear him? If you're brave and he cooperates, you could tie him up so he can't kiss you or can't push your hand away while you jerk him off.

[Asker]

The windows were closed their was a movie playing and we were just doing it and it felt good I would try to say a sentence but he would stroke and I would moan and it was like he liked that cause he asked me to talk again looked at me smiled and stroked again and he watch me moan so he didn’t seem worried he would like sometimes say fuck or shit and when I would ride him and it slipped out I would slide back on it and he would make an uhh sound but then stopped

[bowenw]

This could all just be his personality and there's nothing you can do about it. After you've known him for several years he may become more comfortable with you and change.

[Asker]

I mean maybe we don’t really talk anymore but my other guy that I’m currently with we do phone sex and I know he jerks odd every day and we’re long distance one day when we did something it was going good and he knows I told like moaning by myself because I get shy so he moans with me but when we were doing something at first he was moaning with me then he told me to cum for him so we were still moaning then he just stopped and said he’s about to cum ( I didn’t cum yet) and I think he wanted to calm down so that I could cum first but I told him to cum for me and he did and then after he said I’m sorry and I said for what and he said for cumming before me and I said it’s okay I told you too but he hung up So I texted him like are you OK and he said yeah… And I’m like no baby what’s up just tell me and he said I feel bad for cumming before you and I told him it’s no biggie and I’ll live and he put the palm face emojis and I asked him why he came so fast and he said it’s been a min

[bowenw]

I suppose it's the gentlemanly thing to do to be sure the girls cums first during in-person sex because once the guy does his dick is usually useless to her, but it shouldn't matter who cums first during phone sex. I suggest continuing to reassure him that he did nothing wrong and that sex is supposed to be fun.

[1amcurious]

"He always pulls out" he is teasing you ig and while he is in the verge you grabbing/touching his dick will make him go crazy and may ends up cumming in you. So I think he doesn't wants that yet, and thats lovely isn't it? Also kissing while about to moan as you said is true, he prolly likes kissing you every now and then as well so intimate. I dont know why he is not willing to face you while in tension, you ask him. Other than that I like your intimacy.

[Asker]

When he pulls out and starts jerking off a little bit to cum and I try to touch his thing to help get the cum out of him he always holds my hand away so I can't but once he let me touch it and I got the cum off of his thing and then he put it back inside of me and he wanted me to ride so I did and when I put it inside he was say f*ck and like put his head back and I was like does that feel good and he said yeah it feels hella good but that was the only time he let me touch it

[1amcurious]

Maybe at that moment he is too sensitive to your touch, so ot allowing you? I dont know you gotta ask him ig

[TheFlak38]

because it feels good

[dudeinohio]

Cumming inside a woman is the natural finish of sex. Depriving a guy of that is just wrong. Start using condoms or get on the pill or some other method.

[CubaPirate]

Well I don't have STDs and I've had a vasectomy so why not

[Anonymous]

For me, it's because it feels a lot more intimate to cum inside her. My girlfriend is on the pill, so I cum inside her every time.

[Anonymous]

That’s odd, I mean it does feel better to cum inside but when pulling out I want her to jerk it off instead of me doing it

[Anonymous]

SEX FEELS GOOD

[Asker]

It does but I can never cum unfortunately

[Anonymous]

The ultimate feeling is orgasming inside you, nothing feels better than that and from what I understand, it's the same for women. But as far as the other things, like him not letting you touch him, that is very odd and unfortunately only he can answer that. I have no idea why he'd do that?

[Asker]

He also doesn't moan he just breathes hard and says f*ck and sh*t and holds my head up so I can't see his face and I don't know why he does that and when he pulls out and starts cumming he moves my hand away so I can't help him cum