Ladies, for those of you who are anti submission, why don't you like being submissive as that makes women appear very sexy and attractive to us men?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

[Anonymous]

If more masculine males attract more feminine females and vice versa. then why does feminism teach girls to act like boys and boys to act like girls.
seems kind of the opposite of how natural intended the difference between the genders to work out in the long run.
the original feminist movement as been going on since the 1850's. which fought for equal rights for the genders.
but over the generations children have been indoctrinated by public schools, collages and by legacy media. to believe that the majority of traditional male and/or masculine behavior is toxic.
however it wasn't until roughly the 1960's when the movement went main stream. which gave rise to the modern feminist movement. that now teaches boys to behave more like girls and girls to behave more like boys.
could also explain to some degree why there has been. a steady rise in the LGBTQ+ community since shortly after the rise of modern feminism.
since relationships between 2 fully dominant people or 2 fully submissive people don't tend to work long term. so you either need 1 of each or both have to share each role in different parts of the relationship.

[magiusX26]

infortunately thats a blanket statement OP, and does not hold true for every guy. there are some guys out there that are sub and find dominant women sexy. i am a dom and get your point though.

[Odr9dur]

Submissive men are boys and effeminate disgusting.

[FocusOfSuspicion]

This question, as it is stated (I think unintentionally) assumes that the purpose of sex is exclusively male gratification. If a woman doesn’t prefer submission then why would she care to appeal to men whose preferences are incompatible with hers? Concession would perhaps attract those men, but they’d leave her ultimately unfulfilled. Better for a non submissive woman to hold out for a man she’s sexually compatible with. Right?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Not at all. I don't believe in being selfish sexually, but that doesn't mean I support man in being in a submmisive role sexually like bending over or a man putting him in hand cuffs or doing something to his butt. As for outside the bedroom, I believe women should submit to their man if he is a good man to her. It just makes women so dang beautiful when they act submmisive.

[FocusOfSuspicion]

That’s definitely a legitimate preference to have, but there are people who have perfectly healthy sex lives without the bounds of a dominant/submissive framework. Is there no neutral position?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I don't believe in a neutral position. Women, submit. Period.

[FocusOfSuspicion]

So, just to play devil’s advocate here, if a man commanded his wife to dominate him, what would be the appropriate response?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Lol.. you're clever huh?

[FocusOfSuspicion]

Not in this case, just a contrarian at heart. Lol That said, I don’t think you have a well reasoned position. I think the weakness lies not in women’s lack of compliance to your preferences because it’s within the bounds of your comfort to simply insist they accept the roll you want them to fill. The flaw lies in the preferences of other men. If a man doesn’t wish to be a dominant figure then there’s nothing you can do about. If you bully or intimidate him into aligning his behavior with your preferences then he will only have submitted to you, making him still a submissive individual. If a man exists who doesn’t wish to dominate, why can’t there be a woman to fit into his preferences? Should HE go unfulfilled? It’s not that we necessarily disagree, just that you see an imperative where I see none.

[nerdybutlazy]

I'm not necessarily anti submissive I just won't submit to a random man if a guy proves he's worth it then maybe at even at that it's only in bed cuz in a relationship I still prefer a partner but besides all that not all women are into to men not do they care about pleasing men. It kinda goes with the saying, "only a boy is scared by a confident woman. Real men are attracted to that".

[chrissykerdock]

most guys call the shots i find it hot when a man asks for a blowjob but says it like he really means it and needs it rather than just pushing his weight around... and if i'm in a mini skirt i'd very likely give him one since i probably gave him a boner anyway.

[thegirlfromthething]

I would say that in a relationship I want us to be equal and sexually I’m submissive but not a hardcore sub. Even if guys wanted me to be more submissive I wouldn’t do it because I won’t pretend to be someone I’m not to make them like me.

[ColHathi]

Great comment.

[DizzyDesii]

Things happened to me in the past that traumatized me. So no i won't be submissive for long and i def won't bow down. Hell i even suck dick layin down just because i refuse to bow down 😂 lmao tmi but anyways yea. Like i’ll be a bit submissive in the bedroom but i just can't be submissive outside the bedroom

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Submit sweetie, don't be that way.

[DizzyDesii]

You dont know what i went through. So like i said, no.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I hope you change my little Desi. 😘

[mistixs]

I don't know, most guys who've been attracted to me have expressed a desire for me to dominate them

[thatgirlinlove]

ya,, agreed. but some men may like to be dominated during sex but not all the time. If a man gets dominated by his girl all the time, i feel he misses a pair of those cute little balls.

[Odr9dur]

Love you hispanic cool guy.

[Ally247]

It's just not me. I don't have submissive bone in my body and I never have.

[Ally247]

and we don't really care about what makes us attractive to men.

[tae_ie]

I personally don’t like being submissive all the time, I like to have control and that doesn’t mean i’m a control freak, i just rather like it take the lead but i don’t mind being submissive time to time.

[thatgirlinlove]

i think i dont understand your question. but i would never like to be with a sissy. the other way round is him being dominant nd i am ok as long as i am not subjected to physical abuse.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Of course. Never let a person abuse nor disrespect you hon.

[thatgirlinlove]

I suppose being disrespected and abused on the bed is ok. As long as other don't get to hear it

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Lol.. not into disrespecting during sex or name calling, but a firm spanking for being a bit rebellious is always fun.

[jgirl99]

I like being submissive in the bedroom. Anywhere else, good luck tryna control me lol

[KatherineJ]

I’m going to annoy a lot of people with what I am going to say. I choose to submit to my husband. But that’s because he is worthy of the gift of my submission. And that has nothing to do with sex. It works for us, it may not work for someone else.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Lovely.

[Odr9dur]

he's worthy because he's yor husband perod