Is it sexual assault/rape if your girlfriend/boyfriend force you on sexual acts without your consent during sex? Can you define sexual assault?

[Anonymous]

What i mean is when your girlfriend/boyfriend slap/choke/hit you without consent during sex although you said it before that you dont want. Another example would be when your partner use your anal instead of vagina during sex although you you said you dont want anal sex. Is this rape/sexual assault then? How would you feel when your girlfriend use strap-on dildo during sex although said that you dont want strap-on dildo?

"Sexual assault is an act in which a person intentionally sexually touches another person without that person's consent, or coerces or physically forces a person to engage in a sexual act against their will."
"Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration carried out against a person without that person's consent. The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority, or against a person who is incapable of giving valid consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an intellectual disability or is below the legal age of consent. The term rape is sometimes used interchangeably with the term sexual assault."

[broken_heart_at_48]

Yes it's definitely sexual assault to take it by force without their consent. Nonconsensual sex is completely different from consensual rough sex. Now if 2 people are having sex and you test the waters a little nothing extreme but just a little at a time to see how they react and taking it as far as you can. It can be exciting and fun for both to go a little taboo but once you see her or feel her get a little uncomfortable it's time to back off. Then communicate likes and dislikes. I prefer to have the limits and likes and dislikes conversation before hand but sometimes things don't play out that way. For me it's not fun if she's not enjoying what we're doing and I love rough sex and my limits are pretty high but getting off on knowing they don't like it and don't want it is no fun and a big turn off. I would hope any girl would know that they're not a good match and don't belong with that guy and don't let any guy bully you into staying with him because it's not going to get better he's just gonna get worse. Just because you're afraid of him doesn't mean everyone is there's someone that will help you get away from him or her for that matter

[Fatherhere901]

It is considered rape and sexual assault the moment after you have made your intentions clear that you no longer want to be intimate anymore to your partner. Sexual Assault is not valid, if you begin and restart having sex with her. Sexual assault is when they clearly understand you want to stop , and decide not to stop after you have made your intentions clear. (pounding on their chest, Saying "Stop" as loud as a scream, Kicking them off of you.)

You cannot call it sexual assault if the person was unable to hear you or you did not make your intentions clear where there was no doubt you wanted to stop.

[katiesmuff]

Anytime whatever the circumstances are it is sexual assault when you are forced to have sex when you do NOT want to do it.

[Agape93]

Yes absolutely is rape. Forcing someone to perform a sex act they didn’t consent to can only be rape.