Does it sound like she's jealous? Does it sound like my boyfriend likes her? Long post, but I really need advice?

[Anonymous]

So my man has a guy friend and this guy friend has a girlfriend. (I am a girl by the way) The first time I hung out with this group, this girl told me to paint with her. I've been doing my art my whole life, so I thought this was a great idea and so I sat down to do it with her. When my drawing was almost done, she kept looking over at it and suggesting what else I could do to make it better. She even ended up drawing her ideas on my project. I didn't let it show that I was annoyed, but it was sort of annoying, because I didn't touch her art. I let her do her own thing. This girl posts thousands of pictures of herself all over social media and while I was there that day, she kept wearing the fanciest outfits, almost as if she were trying to "one up" me. She even went out of her way to buy a brand new sparkly dress to wear in front of everyone while the whole group was hanging out. And a few months ago, I saw that she had been texting MY man about her sex life with his best friend. She was talking shit about her sex life to my boyfriend and he was saying that her boyfriend doesn't sound like he's good in bed.. She also told my boyfriend when she has sex and that gets horny during her period. She also told my boyfriend that she puts her man to sleep with sex. And my boyfriend let her talk that way to him. It wasn't very flirty or anything, but that can't be okay, right? I have never even thought about texting her man about my sex life, so why does she think it's okay to talk to my boyfriend like that? Is she jealous of me? Does it sound like my boyfriend might like his best friends girlfriend? It makes me anxious to hang out with these people, because I'm scared that this girl is trouble.. am I just being paranoid? Please help.

[Flower7]

Yes, it seems like your boyfriend is most likely interested in her because he participates in these conversations. And he really shouldn't have even given her his number in the first place. You and your boyfriend should stop hanging out with this other couple.

[Asker]

Is she jealous of me?

[Asker]

We can't stop hanging out. Her boyfriend is my boyfriends best friend for years.

[Flower7]

She's not necessarily jealous of you, but it does seem like she dresses to get your boyfriend's attention and also tries to get closer to him by talking about her relationship issues. Have you asked your boyfriend to not text with her anymore?

[Asker]

He didn't tell me that he talks to her. I saw it on his phone by accident.

[Flower7]

It's probably time to get a new boyfriend. It doesn't seem like the girl will be going anywhere since she's a part of his group of friends. This problem would most likely be very hard for you to fix.

[Asker]

That's his best friend's girlfriend. Does it sound like he's not really a true friend?

[Flower7]

Not really but it seems like the friend doesn't have a good girlfriend.

[Asker]

My boyfriend didn't give her his number, but they text on Facebook

[Asker]

Why am I not good enough for my boyfriend. I've been dating him for almost 5 years..

[Asker]

This feels so humiliating.

[Asker]

I guess that I'm just a girl that guys dont really like, because everytime I have a boyfriend, another girl is always a problem. So me getting a new boyfriend wknt help, because the new guy will treat me the same way. I'm just not good enough I think.. :(

[Flower7]

How long has his friend been dating the girl? How long has she been around?

[Asker]

she's been around for almost 2 or 3 years

[Flower7]

It seems like the best option for saving your relationship would be to talk to your boyfriend about the messages that you saw.

[Valnac]

I already answered this post.

[Asker]

Would this count as her sexting my boyfriend if she's talking about her sex life with his best friend? Nothing was really flirty or anything, but does it count as sexting?

[Valnac]

I can see that, I agree!