Guys, if you just see a woman as someone to have sex with (early on) does that mean you don't really respect her regardless of what you say?
It was a wth moment because for
a) I don't act/dress provocatively so I gave no indication I'd even entertain the idea of sex with a relative stranger,
b) being a relatively confident woman I don't come across as someone who'd trade sex for don't know how to refer to it except "favours" (e. g. he puts in good word with a business owner he may know as a generic/basic example).
c) given a & b as I believe he's in a relation - and just looking for a casual hookup (seeing as he mentioned flings) - I'd be even less interested
I found it mildly offensive. So that when he tried winning favor it just didn't really hit any I don't know "key"/"interest".
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