My boyfriend always jokes around about how hot other girls are. Im really mad and pissed and he already knows hom insecure I am. Am I overreacting?

[badbitcg]

So , im with my boyfriend little over a year. He always made jokes about how hot or pretty or attractive are other girls. And i told him from the beginning that it is annoying. And he told me that it is hard for him to stop and that he will try. He literally told me he would fuck other girl or look how hot she is and is pissing me off so much. And at some point he stopped somewhat but he strated makinh jokes about my little sister. like i would fuck her or lets have a 3some and he even told me that in an another life they woulf have been soulmates. And i was like bitch tf and he was like im just joking there s no big deal. I told him to stop but he s telling me that it is hard for him. Anyways im really hurt by this jokes and also im becoming more and more insecure like im not good enough. what the fuck should i do?

[OlderAndWiser]

1. You can remind him that a joke is when he says something and somebody else laughs. What he is doing is not a joke.

2. Your boyfriend knows very well what he is doing and he is doing it intentionally. He uses "joke" as a pretense for being mean to you.

3. It is always a mistake to stay in a relationship with the hope that your partner will change. You have no right to expect him to change and he has no right to expect you to change.

4. Assuming that he will never change (good assumption,) would you be happy being with him for the rest of your life? Would you want your sons to grow up to be just like him? If you had children and then died while they were still young, would you have confidence that he would be a good single parent and do a good job raising your children?

5. I think you know what you need to do.

[ColHathi]

Dump his ass. "Just a joke", gimme a fucking break. It's not hard to stop saying shit like that either. He just doesn't want to stop. Probably because he doesn't see an issue with it and don't take your issue with it seriously because he thinks you shouldn't have a problem with it either.

[OldiebutaGoodie]

Doesn't value you. Definitely find a man.

[spartan55]

It has nothing to do with you being 'good enough', your boyfriend is total asshole. Your little sister? Are you fucking kidding me? He doesn't stop doing it which shows he has no respect for you. Dump his sorry ass TODAY.

[Yaaten]

Your "boyfriend" is being a complete jerk. The next time he does it, whack him over the back of the head!

[Fukaroo]

Guys always check out other women. I don't think it's a bad thing if he doesn't cheat on you. I know that my wife checks out other guys it's only human lol.

[Wise4myage]

If he's doing this when you are with him, then its wrong and he needs to stop.

[Pete671]

Break up from him, he's a bully and doesn't respect you,,,

[Twalli]

Chances are he's dating you because he sees you as attractive. Therefore if he was with someone else he would say the same thing about you that he's saying about other girls.

[Dave31989]

nope you're not overreacting

i think you should be able to tell him how you feel

however, you can't control what he does with his life

if you don't like it and you know he's still doing it. why are you with him still?

[badbitcg]

because i really love him and care about him

[Dave31989]

hahahahahahaha

[m2hard4sum1sbum]

No thats rude. He should be helping be helping you feel more attractive.

[REDHOTLINE]

Then you make jokes about other giy how hot and sexy they are how handsome they are how long penises they are how make great sex thay are etc...

[loggydogy]

No he doesn't respect you, at all, we all look at the other sex, some make more of an issue about it, you should be the same back and see how he likes it, I tease my Partner and she does it back, it just a bit of fun with us, it means nothing to us, we love and trust each other. Hope this helps you. X