Would you still date a guy/girl who didn't want to put out?

[Ninafrances3]

[Larson7]

Probably depend on how good the sex was. But what it would really depend on its how much I loved her there is a 5-year limit though this is one eye made up personally if there's no sex for 5 years then all bets are it's not cheating anymore but I'm in the 40 plus group you will deal with that when you get older you don't go out looking like you did when you were younger. It will happen you will grow old that time will pass and you will not stop that time. You got something to look forward to freedom from confusion, a hell of a lot more contentment you'll find in old age

[Jjpayne]

I would, I would just be interested in getting to know her. The affection part could come later

[Jjpayne]

Thank you for the mho 😊

[Ninafrances3]

No problem

[iCumLikeCrazy2]

Being a Lesbian, I have NEVER had another girl who didn't want to put out.
But If that were to ever happen, didn't want to or stopped putting out'
she would be packing her bags and out the door!!!

[DizzyDesii]

Yea long as they willing to putout nonstop once we’re married

[1Sophisticatedme]

Nope, sex is highly up there for me and extremely important in any of my relationships. Without it, I am out!! I got needs, and hope my guy has needs as well.

[hellionthesagereborn]

No, sex is important not just from a biological stand point (reproduction) but for a imtimacy perspective. So I would not date woman who doesn't have sex with me (its different if she is waiting to see if I'm the right guy or waiting for marriage, those things I can absolutely respect, but not no sex, that is just demanding that I suffer because she doesn't feel like fixing her situation (asexuality is not a sexual orientation, its a condition one that should be addressed).

[TheorionMage]

Does he/she seek a 'platonic' friend?
Pragmatically, 'dating' is at its least an interview audition, for potential sexual intimacy~

That old 'here after' limerick ~

[Berethor]

Maybe if she virgin and wait until marriage, otherwise I give it a hard pass.

[Berethor]

As for your update, many girls nowadays are not virgin, so you need to be more specific. :)

tvtropes.org/.../MadonnaWhoreComplex

[Tamera952]

Sure, especially if they are generous in other areas.

[Zealashton]

nope. i dump their ass / if they dont want sexual stuff.

sorry but i ain't going to continue with a gold dinging bitch

[Blerdsmith19]

I would still date the girl. Being in a relationship doesn't allows have to be about sex, contrary to popular belief. If she's the type of woman to wait until marriage, like myself, you should respect that. Surely you're dating that girl/guy other than to have sex.

[AndyOh]

Nope.
I want to know what I will get when we get married.
I won't do well with a prude in bed.
Or if she is crap in bed... not gonna be good for me.

[slatyb]

If she weren't interested after some weeks I would assume that she's just not that into sex, or not into me.

[Kaneki05]

yeah? sex isn't need to gain affection or love someone.

[Reaperbot666]

depends on her reason why she is withholding sexual interaction.

[Dargil]

A thriving relationship includes advancing sexual intimacy. Its not "putting out". It is "connecting". Otherwise, men make better friends and cost a hell of a lot less. Welcome to the real world.

[Larson7]

I can see you haven't bern with someone for at least a half-dozen years. That's the real world

[Dargil]

@Larson7 You could not be more wrong if you made a mission of it. I'm amazed!

[Larson7]

When you have been in a long relationship (no not 10 months, more like 10 years plus) then you can put on your guru cap.

[Dargil]

@Larson7 Married 8 years happily. Does that count?

[Larson7]

I doubt I'll be hearing from you after she cheats on you

[Dargil]

@Larson7 Why in the world would she want to do that? I'm open to a shot here. Go ahead. Methinks I smell a little jealousy. If I showed you a picture, you would feel even worse.

[Larson7]

i hope she doesn't. It happens. it happens a lot.

[Larson7]

No im not jealous. I've had enough relationship for this life and the next. Not everyone thinks like the 99%. And I'm set apart and different. People can mock that all they like but it's your damn truth I like to be alone I don't sit around and long for love that I don't have. I have a wife or whatever you want to call her in the Next Room but that's too painful to approach. I like being alone it's the way I've always been Of course conclusions are drawn and assumptions made about other people's lives. So be it.

[0112358]

If I were 15 again, yes.

somewhat older, no.

[DavidFox]

Sure

[bowenw]

It would depend why they don't put out. If they want to wait to get to know me better, that would be okay. If we've known each other for a long time and we are in a serious relationship, that would be a deal breaker unless there was a very good reason such as they are saving themselves for marriage.

[MathTeacher]

Nope. Sex is part of relationships

[pigoat]

I don't want to get married

[Ninafrances3]

What? Why?

[guesswhoseback]

At 15 you absolutely should not be pressured to do this. Never let a boy pressure you into doing something you don’t want.

Now as for older legally aged women. While I would never make a girl do something she doesn’t want to do, if she holding off on me it’s usually a very bad sign.

Unless she is a true Christian (Jew or Muslim) who wants to wait to marriage then she most likely isn’t attracted to me and plans to do friendzone bullshit. I’ve learned a few hard lessons on that in the past.

[ColHathi]

Absolutely. I'd just be sad :p

[winterfox10]

Depends on how long.