I have only experienced orgasm by myself. What are your thoughts on this?

[Anonymous]

I am 28. A man has never made me come. I masturbate frequently though and always make myself come easily.

[mistixs]

There was a study that showed that women are much more likely to orgasm with the "golden trio" of deep kissing, receiving oral sex, and receiving clitoral stimulation. OR if they stimulate their own clitorises during intercourse.

That could be helpful to try in the future.

[ohshee]

It could be because you no what you want ,, and masturbating you can take your self there ,, I've been told this same thing by girls and I've always said it's because most guys are selfish and when fucking or making love they do it to please themselves first and done and over, I believe they need to make it about you and beable to look in to ur eyes read the color of your cheeks the way you breath and moan if he can read all the above then he knows what you want or need in that Moment and can take you there ,, can I ask you when ur masturbating where is your mind what is it thinking of is it jumping from one story line to another or are you focussed on one thing ok 1 more question have you ever masturbated with someone if so did u have an orgasm

[TheorionMage]

The REAL question is... DO YOU WANT to allow a male to bring you to climax?

You obviously KNOW what literally 'floats your boat'
many women can 'rub one out' in about four minutes---
WHY are YOU not guiding your companion's erstwhile tactile efforts?

A question ONLY you, can answer with honest self-reflection~

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

You need to find a man that will take the proper time with foreplay hun... I suggest a slightly older guy 😜

[MAC1983]

You are not communicating well with your partners.

Tell they must go down on you and don't stop until they give you an orgasm, and put on a show when you reach the climax for real.

You only have to do it once

Train your girlfriend or boyfriend, kids, or they WILL treat you like a dog!

[Quackthulu]

That makes me sad, but not surprised. Who knows your body as well as you do? Although I would think in (presumably) 10 years of dating you would have found one partner with the compatibility required to get you the big O.

[JackSmy]

So you know what you love, and how you like to feel? That is good, for when you meet the guy you think you love!! Show him how you love that, and if he has any sense, and is a good one, he will pay attention, and give you your AMAZING JOY!
If not, maybe not a good 'catch'. . .

[normalice]

My guess is you haven't been attracted to anyone who has earned your trust, and vice versa.

[JPrez]

Just need the right guy who knows what he’s doing and you’ll get one.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Totally fine. I know girls like you.

[I-have-a-biscuit]

Gaay

[ColHathi]

I think that's super sad :/ Not that you're sad ofc, but it's sad that a guy hasn't been able to make you cum.

[chriscdi]

im guessing these guys never gave you head?

[meeso13]

I had a friend/coworker come to me and say that she never had a vaginal orgasm without some kind of external assistance. She invited me over one day, anyway during the ACT I thought I was going to lose it too soon I happen to look down at her face and she was making a face like she was in shock apparently I was able to do something for her that no one else was able to do in the past

[havingfun101]

Most women are sexually dysfunctional.

[mistixs]

Except studies show women almost always orgasm during sexual relations with other women. If women can orgasm just fine with other women, this would indicate that it's the male partners that are the problem.

[mistixs]

So just because you can't make women cum doesn't make women are sexually dysfunctional. The problem might not be the women. Just saying

[havingfun101]

@mistixs
Women rely on hand stimulation on average so not orgasming during heterosexual, penis to vagina intercourse is a problem virtually exclusive to women. That which doesn't accommodate its natural function is dysfunctional.
Marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows, although women lose 90% of their eggs by age thirty. Hmmmm...🤔
Although lesbians are much more attracted to females, most women who say they are straight were aroused by videos of both naked men and naked women... unlike male participants.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26501187/

[Pejtu]

Stop masturbating urself
My ex had the same experience with her ex boyfriend
But when i got together with her I said stop touching that pussy for like 5,6 days
She did listen and she did cum 3 times while i fucked her doggy

[Wise4myage]

The man you have sex with or future men you date need to know this. Its not uncommon, but don't remain silent.

[Steve-ram]

I guess you have to teach him and tell him what makes you exactly cum

[jasco]

Some people just can't and that's fine. As long as your happy in the long wrong

[Twalli]

Tell a man how to pleasure you

[legion6969]

A man, s never made me come either?

[In_Trance]

you haven't connected with the right guy

[Guardian45]

Trying do it with both women and men. Explore a bit. Find out who YOU are & DO YOU!

[Valnac]

I would stick two fingers inside you and play, Here kitty kitty.
While licking and sucking your swollen clit.