Why do virgins who are devout about staying one until marriage wear sexy lingerie / undies or get their coochie shaved? To me that doesn't make sense. You have pubic hair for a reason -to act as a filter to keep stuff out of your vagina, just as nose and ear hair help filter stuff from getting into your throat/lungs or your ear canal ( ear wax is the 2nd defense line). So it's not to keep cleaner. So what's the deal?
Im not devout In my case, my mom told me when I started getting pubes to shave it for "hygenic purposes,. She even showed me how to shave. Mom always bought me thongs and gstrings from when I was around 16 (virgin) but they weren't Lace it was normal material. When I started having sex the underwear I bought for myself was see through lace and basically just covers my pussy lips.
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Is this still revelant?
mistixs | 2.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Influencer
2 mo
Probably to feel more confident, but I think it's relatively uncommon. The idea women all wear sexy undergarments under everyday clothes is just a male fantasy.
Valnac | 10.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Yoda
2 mo
That’s an excellent question. Doesn’t seem to make sense. I do have to disagree about one teeny tinny idea though. I like when gils shave 🪒 their pussy mound. when I go down on a girl, I don’t want a mouthful of fuzz. Every girl I ask why she shaves, they always say it’s for the extra sensitivity.
If it makes them feel sexy even if they are virgins, why not? There could be other reasons such as they like to wear skimpy bikinis without their bush showing, or they could be having oral sex and prefer to give their partner good access without a mouthful of hair.
Maybe it is so they can feel sexy, to themselves. In my mind, women wear all this sexy underwear so they can feel sexy, and no one will know... lacy bras, french cut panties with lace, thongs, etc. Or should they wear plane bras and granny panties?
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GingerGuy | 8.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Master
2 mo
I didn't know they did lol. But in reading some responses, I think it's just that they still like to feel sexy. And if they are modeling for someone (usually they aren't I assume for most?), then they like the attention, even though don't want sex. Women like to tease, which some guys like and some don't.
Some people just prefer the feeling of their genitals without hair. That's unrelated to being a virgin or not.
And with sexy underwear, some girls feel more pretty when wearing nice lingerie. People don't always wear lingerie for others, it can also be to give themselves a good feeling.
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DocT1977 | 229 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Xper 6
2 mo
I can only come to one conclusion. If they're doing all these other things you mentioned, they are lying about their virginity. I can't see any other reason for it.
TruthBringer | 269 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Xper 6
2 mo
A virgin wearing sexy lingerie. Well, many lie about their virginity so perhaps these females are not virgins afterall. And if they happen to be, I believe they do it to fantasize and feel sexy wearing this infront of their future man (the man of their dreams lmfao). Other than that, I know virgins do groom their private parts when wearing bikinis, which is totally normal.
Virgins or not they can wear whatever they want and shave or wax to for themselves to feel good and sexy. Not everything should be done only for men or not virgin to do that. 💗
Oh come on, how many girls shave their armpits or legs during the winter. Or is feeling good and sexy seasonal? Why would a virgin want to feel sexy if it may lead to sex and the end of her virginity? If no one is going to see your sexy underwear then why wear them? To a guy a girl wearing bib overalls could look sexy.
I am not virgin but I wax my body every month and I wear sexy lingerie under my clothes all the time even if i am not planning for having sex with my boyfriend. It makes me feel good about myself and body also sexy and desired.
Oh please! Lingerie is not known to be exactly comfortable as they are not meant to be worn for long. If you wear them under your clothes all the time you must have a limited mobility desk job or are getting bunched up / wedgies all day long. Also not the best when you are on your period.
You have your opinion and I have mine. It’s okay to have different likes and dislikes too. Any girl can do and wear whatever she wants as long as she is happy and not bothering others with it. Have a nice day
It's just the reality of doing it I question. I'm finding it hard to believe anyone who works a real job would be doing this. Sounds more like something some guy would say because they don't know how wearing lingerie all day would feel. I know I wouldn't do it.
@me080mo The concept of feeling sexy stems to feeling desired by the opposite sex. This is a very biological thing for us humans. To say that one wears lingerie for themselves in order to feel sexy is one thing, but to deny that this feeling of sexiness is fundamentally about being sexy for the opposite gender is delusional. It's pretty much the same for when women say they wear makeup for themselves and not for others. Which we all know is complete bullshit. So I totally understand why @daniela1982 is questioning girls/women wearing 'sexy' stuff that are supposed to entertain men. Unless a woman gets off from seeing herself wearing these thigns in the mirror.
normalice | 6.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Master
2 mo
I think they get some vague sense of sexual satisfaction by being desired.
@Gedaria meh it's not my kink, but not a turn off either. Men in lingerie is cool for men because it rebels against gender roles. I've never tried it but I wouldn't be against it if the oppertunity arose. I do have every intention of going to a Halloween party in full Frank N Furter lingerie, make up, and wig at some point in my life though
They are catching up. Seems girls are reaching puberty earlier and earlier. Must be all those damn hormones and preservatives in our foods.
Anonymous
2 mo
Because it feels more comfortable and it feels nicer.
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Opinion Owner
2 mo
I’m a virgin and I shave every single time I shower because that’s just what I like. What I do with my body is for my own comfort and not to feel ‘sexy’. It’s weird to me that you’re so triggered by what girls choose to do with their pubic hair
It must be a recent social enigma because when I was in high school no girls shaved their pubes. Now it must be the "in" thing or else you aren't accepted by the "shave your puss" clique or guys who today want clean cut girls when they themselves look like Sasquatch down under. *rolls eyes* You are right about one thing. Unless you shave at least every three days you will be itching like you got ants in your pants. If you want your twat to look like a baby's then every day as you do.
Opinion Owner
2 mo
I do it for me and no it doesn’t itch or hurt at all it’s literally way more comfortable, I don’t get why you’re so worked up over what someone chooses to do with their pubic hair. Weird behaviour 💀💀💀😂
Because it seems like everyone else on this site ( by the sheer number of questions asked pertaining to the subject) seems to be concerned if people are shaved or not, so I thought it would be interesting to throw my hat into the ring.
Opinion Owner
1 mo
Never seen anyone else so concerned about it but you do you ig
OK, why would a virgin want to feel sexy when that feeling will lead to sex sooner or later? Isn't wearing that sexy stuff a precursor to sex and losing your virginity? If not then a lot of women are wasting their money buying lingerie to turn on a man. I don't know many women that wear that kind of stuff at work.
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