If a girl doesn't like the taste of cum, are other ways of satisfying the partner?

So I'm at the very start if my sexual journey with my first boyfriend and he is an amazing guy. He gives me all the time I need to explore things and doesn't rush about bj's which is a gift.

Eventually I felt comfortable in giving him a bj. The first time I gave him head was very weird for me though. I didn't expect it to taste so weird. It wasn't awful though but I realised I could not stick it in my mojth for too long because I would throw up at some point.

I thought it's because it's all new for me and I have time to figure things out. The next few times haven't been better though, he once came in my mouth and I could not swallow it and I ended up almost throwing up.

I know giving a handjob can be an option but it's become boring for me, I like giving bj's but the taste is just a huge boundry for me and I'm asking myself if there's other options on how to satisfy him in the foreplay.

I am not 100% sure but my boyfriend could be the problem too since he doesn't have a varied diet but yes, I could talk with him about this but otherwise it's probably a me-problem.
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  • If you're not into swallowing, just let the cum dribble onto your chin or boobs afterwards in a sexy way, or inconspicuously drool it out onto your hand and his shaft if you're on top. This is how many porn stars deal with it.
    If you want to work on swallowing, tell him you want to take it slow. If he's a good guy he will understand and be thankful he has someone like you, and will understand if it turns out you don't like it. Start by tasting some of his precum or squeeze out and lick off the last drop of cum left in his dick after having sex. Then move up to a little more volume such as licking some off your fingers after a hand job. If you're still okay with it, let him shoot a small amount into your mouth to see if you can handle it before moving onto more. If you do, instead of letting him fully cum into your mouth before swallowing, swallow a few times as he's cumming. Be open with him and tell that this is new to you, that you want to please him, and appreciate his patience and understanding. Don't rush it.
    If you find the taste objectionable, try using mouthwash beforehand as it can dull the taste buds. Also ask him to experiment on the making it more palatable by altering his diet. A lot of things can affect flavor and viscosity. More fruit in the diet and especially pineapple juice may help along with lots of water, which can supposedly lower the viscosity. The big offenders that reportedly give semen a musky, bitter smell and taste include: garlic, onions, broccoli, cabbage, leafy greens, asparagus, meat, and dairy products. Items that may help make the flavor of semen more tolerable include: celery, parsley, wheat grass, cinnamon, nutmeg, pineapple, papaya, and oranges. Alcohol, tobacco, coffee, and other substances like drugs are thought to negatively affect the flavor. Tell him you want to experiment to see what works and what doesn't. I'm sure he will be interested in participating.

    • Thanks for this very imformitive answer. Out of your answer, communication is key that's how it always will be.

    • Absolutely!

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  • Yes but ask him to start eating pineapple everyday. Reportedly it improves the taste... I wouldn’t know. But I’ve been told from reliable sources. You can do the bj. No law says you have to swallow or even finish in mouth. It is normally etiquette to inform your partner beforehand anyway.

    as far as pleasure. Sure there are. Be open honest. Only do what you’re comfortable with but don’t be selfish or boring. Each should want to please the other without being uncomfortable in the process.

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  • You can absolutely try feeding him a strawberry diet. Now I don't precisely know myself but it is my understanding that the member itself shouldn't taste a whole lot of anything when hygenic. I don't want to question if your dude showers but maybe try it freshly after a shower once.

    As for other ways. Sure. There's plenty. Just depends on what you two are willing to do and into. Without some sort of additonal props the choices shrink of course.

  • Pineapple juice makes it taste better.
    Outside of bj you can just have other forms of sex. Either anal of vaginal, but I'm sure he understands your problem. There is a chance after a while you get used to the taste

  • You can satisfy your boyfriend with your pussy, your mouth is not made for that so it's okay.

  • Use thin flavour condom for oral sex or don't swallow it ask your partner not to cum in mouth or else you will bite the PP

  • There are lotions for that. Actually, I'm sure your own fridge has some tasty items..

  • My girlfriend doesn't like getting cum in her mouth so she finishes me off on her tits

  • There is no requirement for a girl to do so with me. I'll always respect her comfort level.

  • His diet is the reason, I know mine has no taste so every guy is different , maybe suck on a cough drop first before doing it and you won’t taste it