Mom is Drug Addicted, How can I stop her from hurting me?

[Giang17]

This happened almost two years ago when I was 15 years old then and I used to live with My Mom and her boyfriend, But Mom's boyfriend was not a good Guy, he used to sell & take drugs and he made My Mom addicted of the drugs too, Mom spent her all savings on drugs and her boyfriend started taking advantage of her situation, Once When Mom didn't have money and she tried to borrow Money and drugs from him, he put a condition in front her, He asked Mom to fuck my butthole by a strap-on in front him and his friends, At first Mom refused but after some days she told me about this, I got very shocked and upset hearing this from Mom, but she said that she needs Money to meet the house expenses and there is no other way to borrow money ( she had already sold valuable Assets), she forced me by saying it is just for One time,
I was 15 years old and I had to agree, then he bought a strap-on for Mom and she fucked my butthole in front him and his friends and they made a video of this too to sell it, I felt horrible pain in my butthole and I felt too much insulted and humiliated but I had to tolerate it, after this he gave Money and drugs to Mom and Since then it has happened 4-5 times, it hurt my butthole badly, But Still Sometimes Mom do it to get drugs and Money from him because she can't live without drugs, He and his friends are involved in drugs business and they also sell these sort of videos to make more Money, Sometimes I feel extreme Pain there and it can damage my butthole seriously, What shall I do to stop Mom?
I am also scared of Mom's boyfriend and his friends.

[Citizenkirk]

My stepfather was a child protective service worker for a number of decades and I learned a lot about the hazards of getting thrown into a system that is understaffed and overworked, in which the legislation does not cover all the basis on keeping kids in hazardous home situations safe, but in your situation it might be your best option, or to talk to school counselor or to contact the Department of Child Protective Services to see if you can get some kind of assistance or intervention on your behalf. Being in state run guardianship is not an ideal situation for anyone, and it's unfair that someone your age has to make that kind of decision for their own safety, but you should definitely consider that as as an option if you feel afraid in your own home. If your mother's drug dependence has gotten to that point where you feel fear for your own safety, then that is not a safe environment for you to be in. If you have any friends or family members or maybe someone among your School faculty who you trust, and to keep an open mind and give you some good advice, you might consider asking them what they think of the situation, if for no other reason, than to help you put the situation into perspective. I know that being so is close to the situation as you are, in it's hard to be objective about it. Again, I'm really sorry that you're in this situation. It's not a good situation for anyone to have to be in, and it's not fair for someone so young to have to make that kind of choice for themselves. But your safety is the first priority here, so try and keep that in mind and good luck.

[Giang17]

Yes Now I think My Mom has become very much addicted of drugs, she start craving, yelling and shouting if she don't get drugs just for 1-2 days, earlier she was quite moderate but in last 2 years situation got worse for her so I am worried she can do anything, she has already hurt me 5-6 times to get drugs from them, every time she says that it would be last time but again she do this if she don't have money, Also every next time those Guys give much bigger strap-on to Mom and it hurts inside my butthole like it might cause injuries or permanent damages inside there, When she crave for drugs she don't care about My pain and discomfort.

[Citizenkirk]

Your mother may not be in a position right now to acknowledge that she needs help and that you need to be in a safer place than where you are now but perhaps if you can get help for her then she will eventually see that she does need help. Admitting that she has a problem is probably not going to be easy for her so you might have to be patient with her if she hasn't already exhausted your patients.

[Giang17]

she needs to be in good hospital for treatment but here where I live she might either go to jail or she might get killed because those guys don't care.

[lokeshdh000]

I am getting your condition. Listen to me, I know what you are going through, and I am an adult, and you should seriously follow what I am saying now-
Take this all from me as Your brother, and Do even you don't want to. Go to the police and complain about your mom's boyfriend and his friends. Tell everything right about what they did to you. They hurt you and humiliated you enough, and now it's their turn. They are going to jail for a long time.
Go to the police station and ask them to write complain. And make sure to say that to the police that you are not safe at home. You have to say every truth about drugs also. Tell that your mother is a drug addict too. They will provide her with medical help and a rehabilation center. And you will be delighted after five years; otherwise, you are gwiller this pain in your life. You are still very young. Don't fear anything. Go to the police and refuse to go home too. And tell them what they have been doing to you. What they did is called Child Molesting.

If you don't know where about of police station. Call the emergency number when no one is hearing you, take the phone and hide it and got to bathroom and lock yourself and call emergency number. If you are in USA it's 911, in uk the number is 999. Just google emergency numberr of your country. If anyone can help you is Police. Trust them and you will respect the police for your life time.
I am telling again, you might get frightened but police is only who can help you. Otherwise, they will kill your mom if she kept suffering like this. And this applies to you too.

[Tinkytiny3]

isn't there anywhere else u can move to get away from this situation? Or anyone u can confide in to help u out... Or maybe go to the authorities.. u need to get out of this toxic situation because it could get a lot worse for you... Keep in mind that someone won't change till theyre ready.. let your mom know ure there for for her but please dont put your well being at stake.

[Giang17]

I am totally dependent on Mom and her friends and Mom has become totally drug addicted, I have asked Mom to quit drugs and stop using my body to get drugs and money, Every time she says that it would be last time ! Now those Guys give Mom a bigger strap-on than to last time and it hurts me terrible, sometimes even it bled from my butthole but still Mom prefer drugs over my pain and discomfort and Seems Now she might sell the house too !

[Tinkytiny3]

I suggest u go to the police or child services.. or if u go to school principal.. anyone who can get u the help u need cause i dnt see her changing jus because u ask.. she maybe needs therapy and professional help to help her drug addiction.. you can't do this alone get help.

[Saturnxox]

Where are you from?
I'm 18 as well and I can get a loan so I can rent a house for myself.

[Saturnxox]

Or maybe call the police or something? Maybe they can help you and give you advise on what the best move is for you.

[Saturnxox]

Or maybe move in with a friend first? My brother left the house for a few months because he had a big fight with our parents and he lived with a friend for a few months before moving on to a house of his own.

[Giang17]

I am financially dependent on them ( I mean on Mom and his friends ), also I am 17 years old and I still need money to survive, They have trapped Mom into this and it's very difficult now, almost in every 3-4 Months when Mom don't have money to buy drugs then she agree to fuck my butt and they make video to sell it on high price, sometimes she was high when she did it and it hurt and injured inside my butthole but Mom didn't care for my pain, it has been happened almost 5 times in last 2 years and Now seems Mom can't quit taking Drugs !

[Saturnxox]

Call the police or child protection services please. They can help you further. They can help you find a save place. What she does is clearly child abuse.

[Saturnxox]

It is maybe hard but these people belong is jail.

[lokeshdh000]

I said him him the same, All of them belong to jail. And with drug and child molesting they are never gonna get of of the jail. Your mom will contact Rehabilitation and she will get okay in few months. And A mother should protect his child from such abuses by giving her life and your mother doesn't seems like mother. Police is your best bet. You can also call child protection services and do all that in shadows by hiding from even your mother. She is addicted and can't think what is right for her !

[lokeshdh000]

Don't forget that's the worst can happen with you and it will go all better from there if you complain to police. If you are worried about surviving (A place to live and food to survive). police will help you with all that, you are not legally adult. So they will provide you all that. Also, you can start working after few years and live your life independently like everyone else

[Giang17]

@lokeshdh000 Those Guys might kill her or me because they are dangerous and killing someone is not a big deal for them, My Mom is not only one they have trapped many people and some have already been homeless and lives in shelter home !

[lokeshdh000]

Go to police and tell them, they will kill you if you go home. You and your mother will get 24 hour police protection too. And how they are supposed to kill anyone if they are going to life sentence ( Jail till they die ) . You are scared but always do right thing even the chances are smallest and this time you have all the chances. Believe in God and call emergency no. If you will open YouTube. , you will see kids complaining about domestic violence. And you are a grown boy. Have some faith in God. Hold some bravery and can police. You don't have to pick the guns and fight the world war. Take the fucking phone and put the evils behind the jail for their life. That's your call. And if you worried about getting killed they get this. You are going to die in few months and no one will remember you and they will find some other family to destroy. You have your future, your mothers and your families future right into your hand and It's your call, you do it or not. But your and your mothers life is in your hand right now. Call police and don't even tell your mother about it. If you save your and your mothers life today you will be a hero and go through headlines of news or you will be a dead body in few months

[Knighted2170]

First I would check your laws in your state.

This may seem extremely hard but go to the police. Yes, I know it's your mom but you can't force her into a drug rehabilitation center. A judge can court order it, or send her to jail where it will be difficult to get the drugs.

It sucks to do this to your mom. But it's the only way you can prevent her from hurting you, and possibly save her life in the long run.

My best for you.

[TheorionMage]

Get social services involved, there's nothing you can do for you Mom til she wants to be 'clean' but... for you 'revenge is sweet' TRUST me, as a former criminal profiler in international human trafficking... you want to speak to your county's States Attorney.
Mom's boyfriend won't be seeing daylight for a LONG time, especially if they find those videos and he TOO will know the joys of a cellmate who'll be delighted to 'push in his stool'.

Prisoners generally DON'T like child abusers and after his incarceration as someone's bitch, his ass will be farting whispers~

[Wedimir]

this issue can only be resolved by contacting those who can really help. State guardianship agencies, the police, and so on. But the most important thing is a strong no and don't agree to what you don't like

[TonyV]

Dude, it's not a easy thing to call cops on your mom, but I think that's the right thing to do.
Or move away from her and her boyfriend.

No one should have to go through that of they dont want too.

[Giang17]

@tonyv I didn't want to call cops on my mom but now she has become fully drug addicted and she can't live without drugs for just 1-2 days, if she don't have money then she becomes ready to wear a strap-on and she butt fucks me, it cause me extreme pain but she don't care and those Guys make 2-3 videos to sell it, I told my mom many times that how badly it hurts to me, she every time promise me that it would be last time but she don't keep her promise, also now those guys give much bigger strap-on to mom and it's very difficult to tolerate the pain and it might tear my butthole seriously or it might cause serious injuries there, but my mom thinks I can tolerate the pain for 12-15 minutes and I am just making excuses and overreacting.

[AndyOh]

Grab mom and load what you can into the car and head someplace else, like another state. That is the only way you will get out of this mess. If mom won't go, then go yourself. Look for a job in different cities. Save some money, like a couple hundred or more. And plan a time when no one will notice you are gone for a couple days.

Or, get a dildo and get used to getting fucked in the ass.

[Giang17]

I wanted to run away but I didn't have money to survive, those Guys had trapped Mom into drug addiction and they are using and abusing me too, Mom's situation getting worse every time she says that this is the last time but when she don't get drugs and she don't have money to buy it then she becomes agree to butt fuck me, those Guys make video to sell, they keep on eye on us and it is not easy to run away.

[AndyOh]

If you can write on here, then you can look up some support and help. As women, you should be able to find support. Look up Alcoholics Anonymous or the local LGBT center. You can get help. Yes, your mom is going to go into rehab. It helps. Again, get out or get a dildo.

[Giang17]

@andyoh I did't get why you ask me to try to get help in local LGBT center? I am not into this but they force Mom to wear strap-on and butt fuck me to get drugs, I think it has already cause me some injury there and I can't take strap-on or dildo again and again.

[AndyOh]

I like the strap-on, but that is me. I said the LGBT center because they have resources and can help you. Plus telling them your story will not surprise anyone there... half that staff probably have a strap-on at home.

[Giang17]

@andyoh okay I didn't know about LGBT center, I don't like strap-on too, Do you think My Mom is raping me?

[Celtero]

The police should be able to help sort things out, no?

Seems like a darker and more dangerous situation than you realize.

The grim reality is your mom loves drugs more than you and you need to get away from her and never see her again.

[Giang17]

I am also worried and scared of Mom, 3 years ago she was not so much addicted but slowly slowly she has become highly addicted, she sold her all the jwelery and other valuable stuff to buy drugs, and then when she don't have money for drugs, she becomes ready to buttfuck me and they make videos to sell it on high prices, I also don't have money and I am dependent on Mom too, but seems like she will sell our house soon because her condition is getting worse and then we will have to live like homeless or in Shabby slums like beggars.

[Celtero]

It's hard to acknowledge but she chose her boyfriend and his drugs over you. Do your best to get out of there and become independent.

[sabwafair]

Tell your Mom last time she did that to you , you Bled really bad and you will need to go to the Hospital because everytime she does this the bleeding gets worst. and when you Shit it bleeds.

If you go to the Hospital questions are asked and DSS is called and they all know that !

Raise the Stakes of them getting Caught if the keep doing this to you!

Unfortunately they will find someone else but it will save you're Ass. Be well

[Giang17]

@sabwafair Two years ago situation was not this much bad, Mom used to take drugs in less quantity but with time she started taking more and more and became very addicted, Now if she don't have money to buy drugs then she becomes ready to butt fuck me, Every time She swear and says to me that this is the last time ! but she do it again to get drugs, it really hurts inside my butthole because those Guys every time gives Mom different strap-on to wear, because of it's big size and shape it cause me horrible pain, sometimes I really bled too but because of craving for drugs Mom don't care for My pain and sufferings, it take me 3-4 days to get healed and relieve from pain. however I never went for hospital for the treatment but I am scared I might need to go someday if I got injured seriously.

[sabwafair]

Agree with her this might be the last time because your keep Bleeding more and more. When everyone is there to watch ask them worried ( will you call the Ambulance if I start Bleeding bad. ) You can scare them with out revenge

[OmNomaly]

Me personally, I would go live with a friend and report that to the police.
Family or not. If they cared enough about you they would NEVER put you in a situation like that.
I have disowned family before for shit, but nothing THIS crazy.

[Yaaten]

You need to find someone who has the right connections who can help both you and your mother (counsellor? police?), because the situation you are in right now is dangerous and unacceptable. Your mother needs help with her addiction, and those thugs need to be in prison. I don't know if there is someone else here who perhaps can help you better than I can, who can give you better advice, but who knows? Sorry I couldn't offer better advice. It's a tricky situation you've outlined here. The boyfriend and his "friends" sound like real monsters.

[jebu5y]

Take police help!
I see no other ways instead.

[Paulwalt]

wow this is crazy ! the best option is to fuck em all and call police and gather some proof that they are the bad person. dont be scare because of u keep quit all the time than u will fall into deep shit.

[Giang17]

Gathering proof is difficult because they won't let me, and I don't want to call the police because of my mom, she is already drug addicted, I want my mom to quit drug and stay away from those Guys, Also it hurts me badly when she butt fuck me but because high dose of drug she don't realise my pain, they sell these video on very high price and they making money by drugs and videos both.

[SunnySri]

Brother I think you should file a complaint about the guy and send your mother to addiction groups where she can work this out.

[Giang17]

I thought but I could not decide, however my mom hurt me 5-6 times but still I don't want to send her in jail because she feels craving for drugs and when she don't have money to buy drugs then they guys force her to butt fuck me and they make videos to sell.

[SunnySri]

Don't send her jail brother, send her to a rehabilitation center. Send the guys to the jail.

[SunnySri]

Your mother is not in the right frame of mind she needs your help, you should send her to a rehab.

[honestB12]

You need to get out and get away because they will use you and your mom until they feel you are used up. at that point they will kill you and your mom. this is coming from the view of a military police officer that specialized in human trafficking and cartel sting operations. Immediately seek Jesus in everything that you do. You must report this to authorities. But only under the agreement of wit/pro you will save yourself your mother and probably a lot of other young children.

[Giang17]

@honestb12 I know in the last they might kill us because those Guys are dangerous and even they can sell body parts after killing, I too want to get out but I am financially dependent on Mom, My Mom is raping me for getting drugs from them but I know she is being forced by those Guys, Also those Guys want to make more money from the videos so they every Next time they give a much bigger strap-on to Mom to wear it, So when she butt fuck me it hurts me more badly and it can damage my butthole seriously or some permanent injuries, So I am worried about my well being but I am scared of them too because if they got to know then they would not hesitate to kill us.

[genericname85]

fuck dude that sucks... the only solution i see is try to become independend and get out of there. i know you probably still love your mom, which makes that especially difficult. but at this point, you should take care of your own life. you're 18, so you can legally do that. it's rough but the circumstances force you to "grow up" faster than the other people around you.
if i was you, i would look out for official institutions that can help in your situation. i'm sure you will find some lokal thing if you google it.

[dudeinohio]

Call police. You were human trafficked to produce child porn. You are an adult now and can refuse.

[dejenero]

Your 18 now, can't you leave or go to other camily members because that situation is fucked up idc how tight money is
You don't do that to ur child

[JessieBellll]

Just call cops on her and her boyfriend. Explain everything.

[AlexDeLarge]

This is some seriously scary shit you and your mom are victims in. Is there no way the authorities can help you?

[Giang17]

My Mom is becoming like Insane, She has started taking high dose of drugs and those Guys are dangerous and have trapped us, I wanted to run away but they might kill Mom and also I didn't have Money to survive, when Mom also don't have money to buy drugs then they force her to wear the strap-on and fuck my butt and they ask her do it for 2-3 videos and then they give her drugs and some money on credit, they also want her to sell the house to them on a cheap prices.

[AlexDeLarge]

But why can't you call the cops?

[Giang17]

because I am scared of them and I don't have proof against them, also if I run away after telling to cops then they might kill Mom, also those Guys have some nexus with corrupt authority peoples, My major issue is that I don't have money to do get out of this situation.

[AlexDeLarge]

I really don't know then. I wish I had an answer for you

[twotone54]

Move out go start your own life

[knight2468]

It’s difficult situation but the best way I see find another place for u if that possible

[Giang17]

I too want to live other place but I am still financially dependent on Mom and she has become very addicted and can't live without drugs, also those Guys give different and bigger strap-on to her every next time which cause me horrible pain and it can cause me permanent injuries too.

[knight2468]

I mean seek government help to find shelter for u. Thing may get worse