Little brothers try to spy on me when changing?

I’ve caught my little brothers trying to spy on me when I’m changing or in the shower and I don’t wanna tell my mom cus it’s not that srs to me but I just wanna know whyyy they would wanna see that cus I’m their sis?
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  • 1. Most houses have locks on interior doors. If you lock the bathroom door before you begin to undress and it remains locked until you are out of the shower and covered with a robe, then how can they spy on you? When you are in your bedroom hanging clothes, why is your bedroom door not locked?

    2. When boys reach puberty, they have an overwhelming desire to see a naked female and you are the most accessible to them. Since you are giving them opportunities to spy, they are taking advantage of this. I am not excusing their behavior with this explanation, but merely trying to explain what prompts their behavior.

    3. If you do not deal with this now, their behavior will probably get worse. Tell them that you are aware of what they are doing and that you will tell your parents if it ever happens again.

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  • May be they are too little and they think of you as their mom too and don't see anything wrong in it. But if they are in teens, pre teens they might need some help. Talk to your mom.

    In many cultures elder sister is considered as a mother too and elder sisters take care of their younger ones as their mother. So this could mean nothing or this could be serious. Talk to you mom.

    • Yes! I feel like I’m their second mom

    • Wonderful. but if they r teen or pre teen they might need some counselling. if in teens they need to understand about family, relations and the boundaries. for ex, a toddler would touch any woman's boobs as he thinks that's a food storage balloon. but if its 12 yr old, its wrong and the child needs to be explained about boundaries and other things. may be some kind of doctor i think.

  • Curiosity, and Opportunity -- that's all. Just cause you're their sis, doesn't mean they don't want to see. I have 4 brothers, trust me.

    • Oh my god 😂 how did u deal with them

    • Chased them away, not a big deal.

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  • What age are they?
    Young boys can be quite sexually curious like what do things look like.
    It is a bit weird that it's you they look at rather than google something

    • They’re 10 and 12 it’s funny but still weird and I don't know what to do

    • Lock or close doors whilst you are changing / showering. I think they're at the age where it's funny to look at but still I wouldn't let it continue

    • true but how do I make it not continue other than confronting them

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  • They are curious. Who else can they look at to learn what females look like nude? You need to lock doors to ensure your privacy.

  • all brothers do this, they just want to see a naked girl

    • But isn’t that wrong

    • i think it's just part of growing up, they try to see you naked, you try not to let them

    • That's correct, especially if they've never seen 1 naked, even their own sister

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  • Your still there first example of the female body, and they are getting curious.

    Yes your their sis but you do have all the parts they biologically want to see.

    That's a tought spot to be in.

    Try to find a way to tell them its inappropriate to look at you like that but there is nothing wrong with their interest in women. Dont shame them.

  • Cause you are female and they want to see your naked body, cause they are boys.

    Have a good little chit chat with the boys and tell them to stop or you will tell. Then it is on them... and do tell if they don't stop... do it!

  • Lock and shut the doors when changing and showering if it bothers you.

    Otherwise they may be curious and going through puberty. Should honestly tell your parents about it so they can give them a crash course in sex education.

  • Depends on age. If they are younger than roughly 7 (give or take) then they cannot yet comprehend that it is wrong. If they are older then it is an issue. Either way I would still tell your parents and let them handle it. At younger ages, boys tend to be more curious about girls than girls are about boys.

  • It is serious, you should tell your mom. That kind of behaviour needs to be stopped immediately

  • I might have been just as hormonal as any young man as a young teen but I could never have even considered spying on my big sister naked, I don't care how attractive everyone else thought she was. Bleh. And, she would've probably broken my arm had she caught me. A hyperbole of course, but you never know xD

  • porn, puberty forcing him to do these.

  • Tell your Mom or your Dad needs to have talk with them?

  • It's normal for boys to be curious. I'd tell him to stop it or you're going to tell your mom.

  • You're a naked girl. Who cares about relation?

  • It is something common i would say
    Its just to do with their hormones coz they are kind of peeking and they wouldn't have a better option or say other option except watching u

  • Boys are curious at a young age especially growing up around someone that doesn't have the same body as they do.
    I grew up with 4 sisters and i am the only male in the family but i never bothered to peek at all, never occured to me to even try

  • When I was younger my friends were crazy about my sister bought aggravate me so much because I never thought like that. There was some weird moments going through puberty talk about normal for boys

  • He is not getting a girl. You should set him up with someone to help his needs.


  • They’re just probably curious to see what a naked girl looks like.

  • How old is he?
    Many brothers in early teens do so. Just curiosity.

  • Because they're boys. 🤣

    Tell them to piss up a tree, lol.

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