When they are asked about penis size they say "i would rather have a guy with great personality with a small one than an asshole with a big one". With that they are implying that a big one is better since he has to be an asshole for them to choose the big one. And also they are talking about personality on a subject that has nothing to do with personality. A bigger dildo feels different than a small dildo. Dildos don't have personalities. It's the same with penises. They feel a certain way because of their size, it has nothing to do with personality. Mentioning personality just means that they have to compensate with their great personality. They say it all the time even for other things. They say height doesn't matter IF he has a great personality, meaning he has to compensate, they would like a bald guy IF he's a nice guy and so on. They are just avoiding the question instead of answering. Yes you would choose a nice guy with a small one over an asshole with a big one, but guys with big dicks can also be nice, and then you would prefer him over the smaller guy, meaning size matters. Or if you were with a nice guy with a small one you would still wish he was bigger. No one wants to hear this personality talk when they're asking about penis size, height, muscles, eye color, hair and everything else. Why don't you just stick to the subject?