Why are girls always contradicting themselves?

[john23232323]

When they are asked about penis size they say "i would rather have a guy with great personality with a small one than an asshole with a big one". With that they are implying that a big one is better since he has to be an asshole for them to choose the big one. And also they are talking about personality on a subject that has nothing to do with personality. A bigger dildo feels different than a small dildo. Dildos don't have personalities. It's the same with penises. They feel a certain way because of their size, it has nothing to do with personality. Mentioning personality just means that they have to compensate with their great personality. They say it all the time even for other things. They say height doesn't matter IF he has a great personality, meaning he has to compensate, they would like a bald guy IF he's a nice guy and so on. They are just avoiding the question instead of answering. Yes you would choose a nice guy with a small one over an asshole with a big one, but guys with big dicks can also be nice, and then you would prefer him over the smaller guy, meaning size matters. Or if you were with a nice guy with a small one you would still wish he was bigger. No one wants to hear this personality talk when they're asking about penis size, height, muscles, eye color, hair and everything else. Why don't you just stick to the subject?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

I believe most women believe that bigger dicks are better than small dicks regardless. However, women aren't implying that bigger is better by preferring a nice guy with a little dick over an asshole with a big dick. Instead, they are implying that they much rather be loved and treated well by the man they're in a relationship with rather than date a man likely to disrespect them simply because he has a big dick. When in a relationship, personality is definitely relevant to the subject, but dildos are not. Women don't date dildos, as they are objects utilized for sexual pleasure and oftentimes self-stimulation. Women have complete control over the dildo. However, dicks are attached to men who, unlike dildos, have personalities. Thus, men could either be loving or disrespectful towards the women he's using his dick on depending on his personality. Therefore, women that want to be treated well by her man are likely to ensure he has a great personality, making it relevant. Wise women prioritize being treated well in a relationship over a huge dick. Not every woman shares the exact same preferences though. Women exist that don't care too much for height or hair. I've seen plenty of short men and bald men in relationships. Simply because a man is short and/or bald doesn't mean he can't have the sex appeal needed to attract women.

If the man enters a relationship with a woman that doesn't care about height or hair, then a short and/or bald man isn't required to compensate for anything. Of course women exist that will choose the nice guy with a big dick over the nice guy with a little dick, just as men would choose the good woman with big perky titties and tight pussy over the good woman with small or saggy titties and loose pussy. In other words, if people have a chance to select the best option that they prefer, they would choose it. However, what's actually considered the "best option" varies depending on the person. With that, the possibility exists that a specific woman's "best option" could be to choose a gentleman without caring too much about his penis size. The only time women truly wish that their men have bigger dicks is when they're bad in bed. The possibility definitely exists that a woman could be satisfied by a little dick if they have sex in specific positions that allow the dick to penetrate with more depth and a tighter squeeze against the walls. The main reason people bring personality into discussion when answering penis size preference questions is because some women actually value personality over penis size.

[john23232323]

I know that they value personality over penis size. Most girls like that. But if i, for example, ask what is the ideal penis size, most of the girls say that it doesn't matter IF the guy has a good personality. And that is not correlated with ideal penis size. Ideal penis size is ONLY ideal penis size, just what feels best for them and they find attractive, so the personality subject is a whole other subject. I obviously don't think that girls would dump a guy with a small dick. The point is that his size still wouldn't be ideal and that is the question we want to know when we ask about size. Same as for height and baldness. The fact that there are girls that are with bald guys doesn't mean that they prefer the bald look over the guys with lots of hair. So these questions are often answered by girls by changing the focus of the subject. If a girl asked me on whether i like tight or loose pussy, i obviously like tight pussy. I might still be with a girl with a loose pussy, but her personality doesn't affect my preference.

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

@john23232323: Have you ever considered the possibility that women exist that don't have an ideal penis size preference? If a girl doesn't have an ideal size preference, then obviously personality is likely to matter more than penis size.

[john23232323]

@tiffany_taylor_made every girl has an ideal penis size because there is a size that fits best for her. it doesn't have to mean it's a PREFERENCE to her, but that is what she would find the best.

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

@john23232323: That's just simply not true. You have girls that don't care about penis size at all. Hell, you even have girls that aren't even into penises. You have girls that prefer oral pleasure over vaginal penetration as well.

[john23232323]

@tiffany_taylor_made they don't even have to be into penises. It's a fact that some penis sizes feel better for the girl than others because they fit her vagina better. She doesn't have to have a preference and even if she doesn't care about penis sizes there would still be a penis that would be a perfect size for her. That's just human anatomy.

[thatchick1010]

Everybody hears that bigger is better that's why girls will phrase their answers that way. It doesn't mean bigger really is the best.
It all depends on the guys technique
The girl really just wants to emphasise that she doesn't care but his personality should rock

[john23232323]

No it doesn't depend on the guy's technique because the guy's technique has nothing to do with how big the girl's vagina is. I didn't say that 'the bigger the better'. I know that it can be too big, but he can also not use his whole penis so it wouldn't be too much, and also bigger is better up to a certain point where it's too much and for some girls average is best because bigger hurts and for some above average is best and for some even bigger. But saying that it doesn't matter definitely isn't true because a right fit will ALWAYS be better with a guy that can use it right.

[thatchick1010]

It doesn't matter how "big" the vagina is, the g spot is actually right near the vaginaal opening. If you insert your fingers and make a come here motion with your palm facing up, you've found it. If the guy can hit that it's cool. The rest literally doesn't matter

[john23232323]

@thatchick1010 it's like saying that a guy that can orgasm through rubbing his penis with his pants wouldn't even want to have penetration sex with a girl because since he can orgasm it's completely the same. If it only takes a finger to orgasm then why do most of the girls have dildos? A bigger one feels more full in the vagina and that is a feeling the small one can't create. It doesn't matter if the g spot is only 2 inches because if the penis is thin it can't stimulate it and it's also not long enough to create strokes to stimulate it, it would just barely touch it whereas a big one can make long strokes and stimulate it all the time and if it's thick the pressure would be even more intense.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. Girls aren't avoiding answering the question. By that answer, they are saying, "A guy is a package deal. You can't just get a big dick without getting the rest of who he is, and the rest of the package is important, too. A big dick is not so important that it overcomes a guy being a jerk." So they are saying that ALL OTHER THINGS BEING EQUAL, they may prefer a larger dick to a smaller dick, but all other things are rarely equal.

2. You also haven't specified what you mean by big dick. A girl might prefer a 7" to a 4" dick, but she may be happy with any guy who is at least 5 1/2". She might be terrified of having sex with a guy who has an 8" monster; she may feel that would be too much and potential painful to try to accommodate.

3. Yes, there are SOME size queens but that is a small percentage of all women. Most women will tell you that a guy's experience, knowledge, and attitude about sex is more important than penis size for their sexual pleasure. A woman's arousal usually centers around their nipples, clitoris, and G-spot (which is 1" to 3" inside the vagina.) All of those are accessible to a guy who has 4 1/2" or more. Whether he knows what to do is more important than the size of his probe.

Your question seems to have an angry undercurrent. Is this an issue causing problems in your life?

[john23232323]

I agree with some of this but when we ask does size matter we don't think that the girl would break up with the guy if his penis is small. The question is whether it makes a difference in sex and it obviously does and personality has nothing to do with it. She might stay with you but would you be as happy if she was disappointed by your size?

[OlderAndWiser]

If we have sex and she is having orgasms, then I know I satisfy her and. . . that is the goal, isn't it?

[john23232323]

It's not JUST that. The orgasm isn't the only purpose of sex. I can also orgasm with rubbing through my pants for example, but it won't be as pleasurable as penetration sex orgasm. She might still want that feeling of fulness that a big dick gives her.

[OlderAndWiser]

"On average, the vaginal canal is three to six inches long." www.healthline.com/.../how-deep-is-a-vagina#length

[john23232323]

@olderandwiser those aren't correct. Most girls are about 6-8 inches but can take more if needed.

[OlderAndWiser]

The most commonly used measurements regarding the size of vaginas come from Masters and Johnson’s work from the 1960s. They looked at 100 women who had never been pregnant and found that vagina lengths, unstimulated, range from 2.75 inches to about 3¼ inches. When a woman is aroused, it increased to 4.25 inches to 4.75 inches. https://www.webmd.com/women/features/vagina-size

Everybody is unique, but on average, vaginal canals are around 3.77 inches (9.6 centimeters) deep.
flo.health/.../how-deep-is-vagina-the-average-depth-of-vagina

The vagina is a tube about 8cm (3in) long, which leads from the cervix (the neck of the womb) down to the vulva, where it opens between the legs.
www.nhs.uk/.../

Due to variation in every female’s anatomy, body-built, age, and other factors, there is no particular size of a vagina. But, an average vagina is 3-4 inches.
www.pristyncare.com/.../

The length and shape of the vagina varies between women with an average length of 6.3 cm (2.5 in) (Barnhart et al., 2006).
www.sciencedirect.com/.../vagina

[john23232323]

@olderandwiser then why all the guys that are 6 inches long say they can't hit the end of the vagina with most women? And why do girls say they can take 6 inches without it hitting their cervix or the end of the vagina? Statistics like that cannot be that accurate because how much the vagina elongates when aroused is based on how aroused the girl gets and how relaxed she is then. How relaxed do you think the girls are their vaginas are measured by scientists they aren't even close with? Those statistics definitely aren't true and some other studies say that the vagina expands about 2 to 3 times more during arousal, which according to your statistics would be about 6 to 9 inches.

[OlderAndWiser]

What I read said that the vagina is very elastic and can elongate to accommodate a longer penis, but it doesn't automatically double in size. These are multiple sources, most of them medical sources and not just popular magazines.

[john23232323]

@olderandwiser the vagina expands when the girl gets aroused. It's the same as guys getting erection. Everywhere i've read it says that they expand at least double the size.

[OlderAndWiser]

I could not find any medical source that says it automatically expands or it simple expands to accommodate whatever is going inside but, regardless, neither the nipples, clitoris, nor G-spot are at the deep end of the vagina. The most remote is no more than 3" inside.

[OlderAndWiser]

I actually think that the size queens get off on monster dicks because of the psychological component of the experience and not the physical sensation per se, but I don't know that to be a fact. And I don't think girls could validly answer that question. It seems to me to be similar to guys being unattracted to girls with smaller boobs. Boobs have no connection to what makes PIV sex feel good but it matters to those guys.

[john23232323]

@olderandwiser most girls like the feeling of a big penis. Same as us guys like a tight pussy over a loose one. The average vagina isn't 5 inches deep and that's why most girls prefer at least 6 inches, because that's how they will feel filled up and the penis would also make longer strokes and won't slip out.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you know what you are doing, an average size unit will do the job quite nicely!

[john23232323]

@olderandwiser yes, but not a small one. And also depends on the girl. For some average would be perfect and for some it would be meh.

[OlderAndWiser]

Agree. And for some, average would be great and large would be "rather not."

[TheFlak38]

They contradict themselves because they're stupid and to force you indirectly to become a smart man and see through their fog of lies.

[john23232323]

at least someone is still aware of this. Most guys just repeatedly answer "girls don't care about your size, bigger feels the same as small" which is totally not true

[LastQueenOfScotland]

Have no clue what you're saying😂

[john23232323]

that's your problem

[LastQueenOfScotland]

Just tryna help you out bud

[john23232323]

@lastqueenofscotland ok sorry then. I just thought you were trying to be a smart ass

[LastQueenOfScotland]

Nah bud

[john23232323]

@lastqueenofscotland well i explained everything about the post

[LastQueenOfScotland]

Wondering about size matters then no. In terms of feel then yeah it feels different but you can get the same amount of pleasure from a little dildo as you can a gigantor one

[john23232323]

@lastqueenofscotland no you can't lmaooo... It's like saying a loose pussy is just as good as a tight one

[LastQueenOfScotland]

Sorry I completely forgot you had a vagina

[thatchick1010]

You really can 100 %. It just depends on if you hit the sweet spot or not lol

[john23232323]

@thatchick1010 but the feeling still isn't the same. For us guys the most sensitive spot is just under the head of the penis and by your logic you should just touch that spot without touching the rest of the penis for the guy to be completely satisfied. That is completely bs. No one would like that. A tight vagina feels so much better than a loose one and even if we can orgasm with both the pleasure isn't the same.

[thatchick1010]

Oh well then

[LastQueenOfScotland]

Little bit of a reach there bud

[AndrewMG]

@john23232323 No offence mate but your answers sound like you are the Virgin representative of the Virgins house of Virgins who have been given a copy of American Pie for the first time..."the most sensitive spot is just under the head of the penis"-So your forehead then?

[john23232323]

@AndrewMG the penis doesn't have a forehead. The most sensitive zone is around the frenulum right under the glans.

[AndrewMG]

@john23232323 For f*ck sake surely you realised I was calling you a Dickhead rather than looking for an anatomy lesson, thanks for confirming my original thoughts though!

[john23232323]

@AndrewMG everything you said literally made no sense. I don't know what you're accusing me of. Obviously size matters. Everyone with common sense should know this.

[AndrewMG]

@john23232323 Goodnight weird.

[john23232323]

@AndrewMG i think we've found the small dick boy

[AndrewMG]

@john23232323 Maybe you have maybe you haven't but he's been laid more than you'll ever be, so sweet dreams Princess x

[john23232323]

@AndrewMG so? they probably laughed at your small dick after

[AndrewMG]

@john23232323 I mean that's your level of reply? No charisma, no humour, a basic understanding of the English language, no understanding of how sex works, and an obsession with small dicks. Remind me again why girls aren't knocking your door down for a bit of action?

[john23232323]

@AndrewMG it's ok small dick boy... you don't have to prove anything

[israelisevil]

girls get sore man

[Nayyr]

Didn't read

[fire4]

Women wants nice guy who is going to be nice and treat them right! and not be an ass hole Tell them that you love them and complimenting them on how beautiful they are and look in this can help make up for small dick size!! Lol

[john23232323]

But you're saying the exact same thing. "make up for small dick size". A bigger one would still feel better. And nice guys also have big dicks. Nice guy+big dick >>>> nice guy+small dick