What do you think about hook ups?

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One night stand or something like that.

Cupidfirstcousin · Accepted Answer

Honestly, I think hookups or one night stands as you call them can be a good thing. Because it gives you an opportunity to learn about what you like and what you don't like about sex. And as long as you keep it legal and clean and you both are consenting and you use protection and have boundaries I think you should do it. This way, you get it all out of you and you get a lesson. So when you finally do decide to settle down on what you like, you can be open with your partner about what makes you feel good and what doesn't when it comes to sex.

FruitAndBlueEyes · Accepted Answer

I think it’s fine for a little bit but eventually, you’ll get tired of not settling down and someone will catch feelings. There’ll be one time where contraceptives fail and that won’t be a pretty scene. There will come a scenario where a disease enters your body unknowingly. I’m not against them and I’m not bashing on the folks that have them regularly. All I’m saying is that there will be a day where it will be unfulfilling and there will be a point where you’ll regret it.

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

depends on what your willing to do and not do... with a hook up i'm fine with giving a blowjob or two and don't mind it... actually i love being on my knees for someone and find it exciting appealing and sexy... i do have a regular man for that with this pandemic... it does make me happy to do that and love the act and i'm fine with not receing back although he does on occassion but not everytime... strangely he likes me in a mini skirt and a blouse when i give him blowjobs and he likes me on my knees which suits me perfectly.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Completely against them.

I only sleep with guys I'm in a relationship with, after I know and trust them. There's no emotion or connection behind a hookups- which is fine for some of you, but the rest of us like forming a real connection with our partners before doing something so intimate.

virgin20 · Answer

Not my thing. Would do more damage for my mind than good

AmandaYVR · Answer

For the most part, meaningless.
They're a short thrill, a temporary dopamine hit. They don't fill or feed the soul, or broaden or change a life, they're just short-lived satisfaction.
I've never been interested.

laurieluvsit · Answer

I think it's OK as long as you know them and feel safe

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

I think it's an STD waiting to happen Or A regret later moment in life... Or a who's your baby daddy Russian roulette moment

JessicaVon · Answer

That never happens. They always come back for more.

Swe_Elin · Answer

It's OK, I think. I like it myself, but in general - why not?

Paolaa988 · Answer

Personally i can't do them. Especially being a virgin. I need to feel a genuine connection and strong trusting of that person before i let them in.

John_Galt · Answer

“All things in moderation”. Just be safe

TheorionMage · Answer

Between consenting adults, with appropriate safeguards for STD's and unintended conception;
"No harm / No foul' friends-with-benefits~

Rarely, do BOTH parties enter into a hook-up with the SAME expectations~
The One least emotionally-invested steers the hook-up.

Nottoxic · Answer

I mean, I'm impartial to it, I feel weird without an emotional connection if I'm honest. Feels quite primal, like a guilty pleasure kind of thing. Definitely prefer relationships.

fireheart105 · Answer

Was tempted to look for them but remembered 2 things. Dont want to accident get a girl pregnant (I have very very bad luck and yes I know condoms are a thing but bad luck always hits me hard) and second I'm not someone people want to hook up with

ohshee · Answer

It depends on the other person and how well she knows me even tho it might start out as a one night stand the reason I'm there with her is because I like her

lexiepotter · Answer

Not my thing. I understand two consenting adults are free to engage in sexual activities without strings attached but I just can't do it. I also will proceed more carefully if I find out that the guy I like has had several hookups

summiter · Answer

I have had a lot when I was in college. (yes I used a condom every time) It was fun to have sex with different girls and try different things. The orgasms were great by the way. Now I am engaged and do enjoy the intimacy of having sex with one that you love. WHat are your thoughts on this?

proNutro · Answer

A big no for me. I personally don’t sleep around and as my personal opinion, I find it to be disgusting.

BCA6010 · Answer

Not my thing, and definitely not into women who are.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Done them before, but not my thing in the long run. Prefer having friends with benefits/girlfriend more. More easier to monitor STI control and sex is more frequent with established partners.

likelyOK · Answer

It’s never been my thing and the men who are into them sound emotionally dead. I have had someone play me who afterward told me he was into them so it seems that you don’t have to be on the same page if a guy wants you bad enough he will go on dates first just to get there. I’m still blown away people regularly do them without condoms seriously one in six people have herpes that’s real talk. No thanks.

tae_ie · Answer

Not my thing.

Butterflyy88 · Answer

Not something I'm into personally.

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