Can you use a dildo without being gay?

[Anonymous]

I don’t like guys , never been with one
only women

I just think basically having something in my butt would feel good lol
that’s where the G spot is right?
Just kinda curious..

I was curious when I was little & I tried putting a marker up there..
I went too far & it hurt.

So I’ve been scared... but I feel like if I wasn’t scared I could be hitting a G spot or something

Again not attracted to guys but is that even possible? Or am I just hella confused

[PhilEvans]

There's nothing gay about using toys on your ass.

Think about it in reverse. Can a lesbian woman use a dildo? Of course she can, she's still got all the same nerve endings in her vagina that a straight woman does, and the dildo is just a tool to stimulate those for pleasure, no men involved.

Straight men have all the same nerves in their ass and prostrate that gay men do. Using a dildo or a plug is just a way to stimulate those without having a guy be involved. You can play by yourself, with a woman using the toy, or even be pegged by a woman wearing a strap-on. It's just masturbation or sex between a man and woman.

[Soteris]

Go for it. Nothing about having or enjoying putting things in your butt makes you gay. Being gay as a man means you are sexually attracted to men, not that you like anal. That said your ass is sensitive and different from a vagina so make sure you are careful, practice good hygiene and use lube. It can stretch and take quite a rough treatment but only if you work your way there, probably over many days if not weeks.

Guys also dont really have a G-spot but we have a prostate (at the base of our penis) which can be stimulated for a similar result. There are also toys that are specifically designed for this.

[AndyOh]

Sure you can use a dildo and not be gay.
It is good that you want to explore your butt. Knowing your body is good.
I would suggest getting a good lube.
Also, if you feel any discomfort, stop and feel what is going on, maybe wrong angle or an adjustment.
Use towels or better yet, puppy pads.
Have fun.

[Gavilar1]

Hella confused reading this , my opinion would be aslong as the dildo isn't penis shaped then go ahead

[Inexpensivefurniture]

If you aren't attracted to men, nothing you do will make you gay. If you wanna experiment with anal stuff on yourself go for it.

[humanearth]

Sure you can, you dont have to be gay to like anal sex. A lot of women like it and most of them are not gay

Hell I like it and I havs a

[humanearth]

Wife that likes doing it to me

[bowenw]

Some guys will deny they have feelings there, and think even talking about it will turn them gay. They will likely never get over it. Others who understand, know it won't make them gay. If you want to try it get a toy intended for that purpose so you don't cause any injuries.

[SavageGirl101]

Nah your gay dude

[MysteriousDarkness]

@savagegirl101 How is a guy gay if he uses a dildo by himself or with a woman but not another guy?

[SavageGirl101]

Figure that out yourself

[Dayman343]

Yes you can. I wish I'd been doing it earlier in my life, it's such a good feeling. I use a vibrating prostate massager

[Abear_1999]

Yes you can use a dildo and not be gay. Toys don't define our sexuality.

[In_Trance]

yea... nothing gay about a dildo up your ass

[AFellowWeeb]

ONLY IF U SAY NO HOMO

[Anonymous]

Only if you are a woman.

[Anonymous]

I use prostate toys and dildos and am not gay.

[Anonymous]

Been doing that for years.. you will never cum harder.

[Anonymous]

O yes sure.

[Anonymous]

First of all, only FEMALES have a "G" spot, and it's in their vagina's not their rectum.
Second, sticking anything up your anus because you think it's going to feel good, is the kind of thinking that should require mental health services