How important is sex for you in a scale from 0 to 10?

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Be honest, DON'T LIE to impress anyone, and less me, who isn't interesed in any offer, I am here just for the curiosity.
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For me at the moment, being 20, I would say 8. I am not getting any right now but I won't be a whore about it, I'll keep it clean of course. Can't become slave of my desires, that's the worst mistake for a woman to make.
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  • Even uptight Christian moralists have to acknowledge their Lord's foremost instructions in Genesis...
    "be 'fruitful and multiply'... and 'have dominion of every living thing of the Earth'

    YOU have only TWO initial requirements; 'procreate' and then 'LEARN, and pass on down that 'learning' to future offspring (don't keep re-inventing the wheel)
    These are the 'root' motivations of homo sapiens.

    Later... in the gospel of Matthew, Christ says to his disciples in His sermon on the Mount,
    "From this day forth, there are but TWO commandments to the new and everlasting Covenant.
    Love the Father with a whole heart. And...
    DO NOTHING to your fellow man you would NOT want done unto you.

    In essence, Revere God your father and 'Don't fight, play nice' and Go fuck~ Carry on.
    Yes, me Lord! <3

Most Helpful Guy

  • The number decreases as you get older and are in a marriage or long term relationship. Intimacy takes on a different definition as you mature. Sex is just one piece of intimacy. Yes, sex is important. But so is sitting quietly in the living room, reading and enjoying a cup of coffee in silence with the one you love. It's with this that draws out your passion and desire with your spouse / partner. And that makes your sex BETTER as you get older.

    So to answer this from a 43 year old's perspective and married for 18 years, sex is a solid 5. I'd rather have hot hot sex with my wife less times than having poor sex more frequently.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Eh, 4...5 maybe?

    Yes, really. I haven't had sex in YEARS, so I don't really miss it. Even when I had it, it wasn't a necessity to me. It's nice- with the right person. But I'm more concerned with forming a connection with a guy that actually wants to be with me and isn't just after sex.

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  • It's probably a 7 or 8 for me.

  • Probably a 6. The actual connection you make and how you get along is the most important. The sex can't be terrible though or you'll never love the person

  • Sex is still very important to me but I have not had a partner for the past year and life has been difficult. It is probably an 8/10.

    • The more difficult and boring it gets the more you long for it.

    • I am far beyond ready to have a partner in my life. Not all of us stop living when we reach 60 or 65.

  • Probably around a 4. I haven't had it in a while and it doesn't really bother me. I'm more interested in finding someone I can connect with now.

  • Only about a 2 or so. I'm a short ugly overweight dark-skinned dude; I'm not getting sex in a LONG time, missus! Even when I was 18-22, it was still about the same. I WANT sex, but only from someone I love and care about. But that ain't happening, so... Yeah.

  • I am still young and when I was a teen ager and in college it was at a 10 almost all of the time. Now it is more like an 8-9. I am living with a wonderful girl and we have frequent sex. We both know each other still masturbates which is fine for both of us also.

  • 2 to 5. At my age I really don't much care. Sure I love it, but I would rather have a companion more then someone for sex. I wouldn't want sex like when I was young. 1 or 2x a week is more then plenty.

  • 10
    if you ain't puting out, i ain't dishing out, and i will dump your ass on the dam spot.
    anyone woman like that not worth it. unless your crippled, but then agin, even cripples love to do sex stuff.

  • Intimacy in relationship is important to me, and my partner not having some sort of issues with intimacy that may indicate a problem with our relationship is also important.
    But as long as their views seem healthy and sensible and in line with mine, I'm fine with most sex drives.
    As for sex outside of a committed relationship, I have zero interest in that.

    Not sure how to put it on a scale between 0 to 10, a 10 when it matters, 0 when it doesn't? 5 overall?

  • I would put sex at about 7 in the scheme of things.
    It is very important to me, and the cause of some breakups in the past.

  • 2/10.
    My fiancée disagrees, but she understands it's because I'm too sick for that stuff.

  • I would rate that at least 5. It really depends on when I last got any action.

  • 0 in terms of love.
    10 in terms of lust.

  • 10/10

  • Like a 8 out of 10

  • Hmm like a 2 or 3. I don't care about sex that much and honestly wouldn't care much if I never had it again. I like making my partner feel good, but I'd be fine with a relationship that didn't involve sex

    • Well, that's sad.

    • Maybe a little. It definitely narrows down my dating pool

  • 10. If there's no sex or bad sex it's called a friendship.

  • Obviously 10 coz my life is all about sex

  • When I was in my 20s it was an 11.
    Now it's at 7.

  • I'm not getting any anyway, so 0, lol.

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