Is there a way to be better in bed? What makes sex good to you?

[Anonymous]

[bowenw]

Being adventurous and a willingness to try new things, saying what she likes, and asking what he likes. The primary thing is always communication. If you're looking for specific ideas try some toys and games from a sex shop, try role playing, sex games, or watching porn for inspiration. Think about having sex in different locations such as in the shower, kitchen, garage, outdoors, watching TV, in a vehicle, etc. Try tying him up and having your way with him and vice versa. If you have a bush, shave it or trim it. Shave his pubes if doesn't already. If you usually have intercourse, try a titty fuck, or giving him a hand job or blowjob. Try flavored BJ gel. Swallow his cum if you don't usually provided you're both okay with it. Challenge him to eat you to orgasm. Try some flavored products like "Pussy Licker" or some whipped cream around your vagina. Hold your pussy open for him so he has good access to your clit with his tongue. Try a different position besides you on your back such as cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, or sitting on his face. If you usually have sex in the dark, try with the lights on. Play a game like cards where the loser has to do whatever the winner wants sexually.

[PrudentGuy]

I always compare sex to food because there are so many similarities.

This time, I'll again use food to illustrate the "limit" (mathematical term) to "good sex".

What's mean is, just like food, sex will reach a level where its "satisfying enough" despite repeated engagement.

Eg. We eat pizza, we eat spaghetti, we eat steak.

Most of the time, these good taste "ok" (good enough) and we don't really leap with joy and shout "wow! So tasty!"

No, but those meals that we ate 90% of the time are "ok" yet satisfy a desire.

Same with "good sex".

So "good" it feels, that if we have it regularly its "normal" and satisfies a desire.

Like food, 90% of the time we fuck and then are satisfied but will not leap and yell "oh honey! What a fuck of my life!"

No.

Get my point? Instead of keep trying to he different, why not seek to find session that noth truly satisfy, and then like eating, keep enjoying the "good enough" sessions.

I think this will lift the notion of "performance" and automatically improves sex for both.

[Mollynotgemma]

A connection with someone... sex is only bad when you don’t fancy or get the connection... but when you get that ‘thing’ sex with that person is amazing!
A girl says that the guy she had sex with last night was not good is not because he is bad in bed... it’s that they are not sexually compatible! Sex is often just done in a way they think it should be done! What they’ve seen on tv... but sex when it’s instinctive and pure is sexy as hell

[Reivel]

this is like driving just having more practice will make you better in bed hahahaba

[loveslongnails]

Yes... pay WAY more attention to your partner than yourself.

[TheFlak38]

have anal.

[In_Trance]

practice

[Valnac]

When my girl is into it as much as i am.

[Anonymous]

Tease him... don't let him cum