Is there a way to tighten your pussy?

I think I'm kind of loose. Or my boyfriend is very small. I don't know. I barely feel his dick. I don't know what to do.
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  • First of all sweetheart let me tell you something and this is from a male point of view that knows about how to please a woman. First of all you don't get an orgasm from your vagina, you achieve an orgasm from your clitoris stimulation. One of the ways that you can strengthen your vagina muscles is stop having all those big dicks going in you because that is what will weaken your muscles. And if you have a lot of babies that will also weaken your muscles. Start doing some leg stretches and tighten the muscles around the vagina by squeezing them practice squeezing the muscles of the vagina. Because it's not the size of a person's dick that should get you off, it should be the stimulation that the person gives you from their dick knowing how to use it that will bring you to an orgasm. And practice squeezing your boyfriend dick with your vagina muscles and one other thing that I found out from a woman that causes the vagina hole to tighten up is take some warm water with a soapy rag and clean up inside the vagina hole area and that would tighten the hole.

    • He is my first and I have never had children. It's also not about my own pleasure but I'd like to give him more pleasure, I always hear guys tall about tight pussies and mine is'nt really. I can squeeze but I can't hold it for 20 minutes.

    • Well first of all you shouldn't be trying to hold your muscles for 20 minutes anyway that is not what sex is about the exercise of sex oh God I'm going to give you a book lecture. I'm going to try to make this short and sweet sex consist of rubbing and grinding you have a clitoris he has a penis your clitoris is covered by layers of skin the object of that is to expose that skin to give you the sensitivity that a man feels on his penis head. And it should be about both of your pleasure not just his a woman deserves to be pleased as well so as a man so don't deprive yourself of your pleasure period and it is not the tightness of the woman's vagina that gives the man pleasure it's the sensitivity of the penis head that gives him pleasure so what you should practice is stimulating the penis head you can do that by slowly grinding you can get on top of him you can lay beside him but your main focus is the penis head. Don't believe the height about men that say a tight pussy is the world because it isn't take it from me I'm a grown man and I have slept with many women and I felt many different vaginas I prefer a woman that is experienced and knowing how to please me and herself than a woman who has a type vagina that's going to make me work harder and it's going to cause her more pain that is not what I am looking for in sex. So if your boyfriend says he wants a tighter vagina tell him to kick rocks and leave me your email and I'll show you what real sex is all about because in the end we both will be smiling I'm feeling great about what we've just accomplished.

    • Thank you, your comments made me feel a little better.

  • Try keegel excercises. During sex you can cross your ankles (if your in a position that allows for it) which should tighten things up.

    Also try different positions (you only have nerves that allow for sexual pleasure going about three inches into your vagina so the likelyhood that he is "too small" is slim. Chances are you just need more foreplay, different angles (preferably ones that cause him to hit the anterior side (front) of the vaginal canal (so doggy style where he is above you so his penis hits downward into the front of your vaginal canal, or putting a pillow under your butt/lower back to elevate it (him leaning back a bit if need be) etc.) and better communication with him as it pertains to sex (and its possible you are one of many women who do not get as much out of vaginal sex which means he and you should focus more on your clitoris in tandem with vaginal intercourse to help get you "there").

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  • My guess is your boyfriend is really very small. (Sorry)!!!
    Kegel Exercises!!!
    Lots & lots of Kegel Exercises!!!
    That will tighten up you pussy muscles till you can open a pickle jar with it. ... LOL!!!
    They even have sextoys to help us do that now.
    Check out Kegel Balls on Amazon!!
    Some even have vibrators in them that are remote controlled!!!
    While your at it, you might as well get yourself a lifelike 9 inch or bigger dildo too.
    And, And, And... a Hitachi Magic Wand Vibrator!!!
    Cause the reality is, only YOU are responsible for your own orgasms. So don't rely on others to always get you off. Take charge of your orgasms and get what you need to give yourself the most explosive, leg shaking, mind-blowing orgasms on demand and practice, practice, practice masturbating until you can give yourself the most explosive, leg shaking, mind-blowing orgasms on demand that will make you pass out.

    • Practice masturbating? 🤔 What is there to practice?

    • @ColHathi The More You Do It The Better You Get At It!!! And there are many different masturbation techniques to experiment with so it's not always the same ol' same ol'

    • No need to practice cause that magic wand is indeed magic...

  • Im sorry I giggled at this question. I have the opppsite problem. Im too tight and it can be very frustrating. I will never forget how I missed out on banging a guy I was really into because he could not for the life of me slip into me. I remember one of my exes rammed himself in me one time trying to get it in and I caught a really bad cramp... Its not fun because your either hurting and messing yourself up, stimulating them too much and they cum faster or they just can't fit into you at all but then again it depends on how loose you are and how tight you want to get. My suggestion is doing kegel and pelvic floor exercises. Might not make it overall tighter but your grip will definitely be much tighter the more you do it.

    • You know I really feel sorry for a lot of women because they're being taught by guys that don't know nothing about pleasure and consideration of their partner. A woman's vagina muscle that is really tight, is an opportunity for a man to be more sensitive and gentle. You must and I repeat, use lubrication and never let a man ram himself into you. You are a human being and that is a delicate muscle that men must respect and treat like a gentle flower. Just because a man has a big penis doesn't make him a better lover and that's something that all women need to realize. The man that knows how to use his equipment and treat his partner with respect and gentleness is a better lover. so you really didn't miss out on an opportunity to bang that guy you saved yourself some trouble in the long run. I hope in your times of experience that you meet a man that will respect your vagina like a delicate flower and care for it with sensitivity and stop looking for a man who has a big penis because a big penis is not going to satisfy you in all reality. The only thing a big penis is going to do is stretch your muscles and make your vagina vulva hang down like a set of nuts and that can be really disgusting looking and you'll really need some squats to get those muscles back tight. A man that knows how to focus on a woman's clitoris with his penis in my opinion is the best lover you can find and only a few of us out here that actually knows how to do that so hopefully one day you're run into one of us and he will show you what real love making is all about and blow your mind. You've never had an orgasm until you feel a full body vagina convulsion orgasm.

    • It's hard to believe a troll question can get so many responses yet intelligent questions or ones not about sex get hardly any.

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  • Do kegels. Also when he's inside you. He might be able to feel you flexing.

  • Kegel balls supposedly work.

  • Someone's been eating their cookies again.

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  • I would imagine one would know if their partner had a small penis. You could always put a drawstring around your vagina.

  • Loser is actually kind of nice in my opinion. Too tight can cause it to become sore and not as comfortable for either him or her during intercourse. The obsession society has with “tightness” is way too overplayed. There is nothing better feeling than the gentle wet and warm hug of the vagina around the penis. I’ll take moderate to lose over super tight.

  • Lemon juice to pucker it up. :-)

    • Seriosly though, Kegel exercises.

  • I’ve heard Kegels work! I’m super small and really tight and I don’t ever think I’ll lose that but if I ever do, I think I’ll try them. They seem like a good idea anyway

    • Yup right like a clamp.

  • Kegel? I think?

    Exercises I think those apply to both sexes, for us guys it's like "flexing" our penis WITHOUT clenching our butthole, kind of tricky. I'm not sure what it would feel like for a woman.

    Do you think your boyfriend is small? Have you told him hints how to hit the right spots?
    Maybe he dosent know where your g spot is?
    Have you tried different positions? I here missionary is suppose to be good for clitourus stimulation.

  • If you have a big pussy, the only way I know is to have your doctor take in a few centimeters to tighten up the vagina. Of course if you are normal and your boyfriend has a thin weiner, then the problem is not you.
    You can try a douche with something that will temporarily tighten you up. Look it up on the Internet.

  • You can do kegels to increase the strength of the pelvic floor. But he's probably just small. The only things that weaken vaginal muscle is childbirth and aging. People don't understand that the vagina is a muscle so sex is exercise for it, it doesn't make it loose.

  • Kegel exercises.

  • Maybe use more lube?

    Yes there are creams and pills which can tighten the vaginal wall and pelvic floor. But perhaps speak to your doctor first.

  • I have heard of those keagal balls.

  • google kegel exercise

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  • Try different positions to see if it makes a difference, if you haven't already, especially doggy style. In missionary try closing your legs to create a tighter fit. Cowgirl may help him get deeper. If different positions don't help consider getting a penis extension for him from a sex shop or online.

  • Well, how big is it? Let’s address that first before figuring out if you need to put extra work in somewhere. Also, try anal?

  • Some women can't take certain lengths. It all comes down to experience

  • Look up something called kegel exercises.

  • keegle exercises is closest you will get

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