If a guy doesn’t want to take an std test for me, does that mean he has an std?

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  • If he's not hiding anything, why would taking the test be a big deal? And you offered to pay for it as well? Yeah, he's hiding something. If he wants sex with you bad enough and he's clean, he shouldn't be bothered by a simple STD test.

    Even if he's not hiding anything, the fact he refuses to take it, would still bother me. I bet he would be concerned if you refused to take a STD test! Nope, don't do it girl- tell him if he wants to be with you bad enough, take the test.

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  • no it just means that either he is scared of the result, or doesn't need one cos he knows he hasn't done anything to get an std, or he's already had one and it came back clear

  • No, it means he isn't willing to do something perfectly reasonable in order to have sex with you. That SHOULD be a dealbreaker for you

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  • It could mean that he is offended that you would ask him, or he could be creating an excuse to not have sex with you.

  • If he wants sex with you he should take the test. Tell him no test means no sex. He will have to get use to jerking off more often.

  • Maybe.

  • Most likely. What are they hiding?

    The only other reason would be the expense, if there is one.

  • Not necessarily it could also mean he's lazy or egoentric , it's not a great sign either way.

  • yeah, he has one.

  • Yeah probably

  • dump him. can't be trusted

  • its more likely he just feels very uncomfortable with it being a demand of sorts. maybe a slightly higher possibility he has an std or is unsure.

  • Or it means you don’t trust what he says

    • yes because I don't know him that well. i even offered to pay for the test.

    • I think you’re in the right on that one

  • But just tell him no test no sex...

  • imho he's nervous he might have picked up something, and is placing his own lust over your safety,,,

  • He could be afraid to get the test.

  • Probably does!

  • 😂 😂 😂 but it is just a rash. 😂 😂 😂

  • it means he is shy to undergo such test.

  • He might just be uncomfortable going. I wouldn't make any assumptions though. Maybe offer to go with him and get one as well? Or ask him why.

  • Nope. It simply means he doesn't want sex with you.. simple.