I was told growing up that women wanted a nice respectful guy who was caring, hard working and honest, but that really doesn't seem to be the case. All that seems to matter now is if you have a six pack and/or a huge dick. Is that really all that matters? I know most guys do objectify women but not all of us are like that, even if more and more girls now objectify themselves by wearing close to nothing in public and even less on social media. So I guess my question to the ladies is what do you really look for and value in a guy in these days where everything on both sides is sex sells, sex sells, sex sells?