Why doesn’t he last long anymore?

[Anonymous]

The first time we had sex he lasted for quite a bit. Now he cums really quickly. He says it’s because I feel amazing and his dick has a mind of its own but wouldn’t it be in reverse. He would last longer the more we do have sex, right? I tried topping him because it seems my ass causes him to get too excited but turns out topping makes him cum quick as well

[bowenw]

Many guys will cum quickly if they haven't had sex for many days. Many guys aren't like porn stars that can go for an hour without cumming. If you're really making him horny that could also hasten things. Some positions can do it too. For example if you're especially tight that may lead to a quick release. If that's the case, try different positions where you're more open such as missionary with your legs spread as wide as possible. If that doesn't help, try some lube so there's less friction. Ask him to try a cock ring to see if it helps him last longer. If you can tell that he's getting close to cumming, take a break for a minute to let him settle down. Also consider doing things to make yourself cum sooner so there is less pressure on him, such as masturbating during intercourse.

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

That sounds like it’s something mental on his part (no pun intended). It’s possible that you do just feel that good to him and he can’t hold it.

[Asker]

Should I be worried lol

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

Nah, do you guys do foreplay and can he cum multiple times?

[Asker]

We do foreplay but it’s very much one and done for him

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

I’m sorry ☹️ to hear that. How long does it take him to be ready again? Does he use his fingers and tongue on you while he recharges?

[Asker]

He can’t get back up lol it takes him a long time

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

Even if you breathe softly into his ear, nibble on his ear, and bite his spots? What if you put his member in between your cheeks and teased him? Something had to have changed mentally if he was fine before. Did something happen at work or did his diet change? Just eating to help here.

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

*trying

[Asker]

Nah he’s been the same... I grind on him so he knows I want it but that’s not different from the first time. Blind folding him made him lose his boner but it’s because he said it was tired. He still didn’t last when he was able to get it up. When I topped him he made me stop multiple times because he could feel himself about to cum

[Asker]

Ya I appreciate it because I want to know if it’s something I can do, or if it’s because he’s not interested in sex anymore or if it’s just his ducks fault

[Asker]

Dick’s^

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

It doesn’t seem like you can do anything, honestly. This is all on him. I don’t like doctors personally because I like to do everything natural, but he may have to consult with a medical professional about this.

[Asker]

Prolly, I don’t know if he already has or hasn’t. I just don’t get how the first time he did well now he can’t stop himself from cumming

[Asker]

Random but he gets mad at me when ever I suggest getting an Uber. Or he’s on my case about not eating enough he’ll stop eating just to tell me to eat more lol

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

You could just feel so warm, tight and wet for him that the premature ejaculate spews out. Most women take that as a compliment but on the other hand, it’s sucks because of a male’s particular refraction period. It could leave a female unsatisfied for several minutes or longer. Why does he get mad if you catch an Uber?

[Asker]

He did say I felt really good at times so we had to pause a bunch of times. So that makes sense. And he just goes on a rant about me saving money, but he’ll leave his friends to walk home just to drive me back to his place and then drop me off at my place instead of me just taking an Uber so his friend doesn’t walk in the cold, you can see how he gets ticked off when the mention of an Uber leaves me mouth lol

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

Dang, yeah that’s crazy about the Uber.

[Asker]

I don’t know if it’s Chivalrous act he’s trying to do or what but I don't know lol

[summiter]

Try a few things. First have him get you off orally before sex. That way you get a great orgasm out of the deal. How often are you two having sex? Can you increase the frequency.. it might help? Also try giving him a handjob first. That way round two should slow him down a little. Have you tried going for round 2 or 3 to see if that slows him down?

[Asker]

I cut things off with him sexually because he’s very intimate when it comes to sex. He would gaze into my eyes while doing it and then he’ll cuddle and kiss my head while telling me how much he appreciates me etc so without hearing his actual feelings I didn’t want to become too invested.

[summiter]

Did you cut him off permanently? It must have been a bummer for him. Now he has to get use to masturbating daily instead.

[Asker]

I cut the benefits off so we are just friends now

[Bhavin2184]

Try Doing multiple session..

[Asker]

He can’t

[Bhavin2184]

Why does he have any sexual problem? Guys can actually do multiple session Please take him to doctor.. you can use sex toys or tongue/fingering to enjoy sex I guess..

[Asker]

Like I said his dick has a mind of its own. But yes we do foreplay and do all that other stuff still comes quick when it cums to penetration

[Whtevernever]

How quick is quick?

[Asker]

Less than 10 min only the first time we had sex did he pass that time

[Whtevernever]

Average time for men is 7-11 minutes. Did you know that? Seems he needs to up his foreplay game.

[Asker]

We do foreplay doesn’t help that once he gets inside me he’s already ready to nut. What people are assuming is that the sex isn’t good. It’s amazing but very short lived

[Whtevernever]

If it's less than five minutes he's premature. There are a lot of things you can do. They sell condoms with numbing gel, psychologically he can train his brain. I have the opposite problem, Calle delayed ejaculation but the causes are similar.

[Valnac]

It’s a little pill called Viagra.

[Yellovv]

Because everything start with imagination..

[Asker]

Wym?

[Yellovv]

When guys imagine something too much that is makes guys cum easily..

[Asker]

Isn’t that bad for me if he’s off imagining things

[Yellovv]

But if you don't have orgasm from it, that is pointless, I allways try to make girls orgasm first..

[Asker]

He tries to. That’s why we do foreplay

[Yellovv]

İf you receive good oral sex that is makes you orgasm easily, I am sucking clitoris so long before having sex.

[Asker]

I won’t let him go down on me. He’s only a loud to finger me. We are friends with benefits so I put some boundaries on some of the things we can do. He’s already super intimate

[Yellovv]

Do you have sex with him or not?

[Asker]

Where did I say that I don’t have sex with him? lol I just don’t let him go down on me lol

[Yellovv]

You have sex but you don't let hım suck your pussy!! interesting..

[Asker]

I don’t feel comfortable enough to let him

[Yellovv]

Before having sex, that sweet pussy need to get nice lick, otherwise that is no sex..

[Dominant666]

You must be real sexy

[Asker]

I wish that was it lol

[Anonymous]

Je is too horny around you now 👍

[Anonymous]

take a break no sex for a while

he needs to recharge

[Asker]

We have sexual maybe 3 times is month lol

[Asker]

I meant a^

[Opinion Owner]

TELL HIM TO STOP MASTURBATING

[Anonymous]

Was it just that one time, the first time you had sex? My guess is maybe he masturbated first, and that's why he lasted? A lot of guys do this. But you're right, it should improve as time goes on and the more comfortable you get with each other and you're having regular sex (maybe not doing it often enough?). Do you go for round 2? You should. Also suggest (if you can) just spending time together naked (non sexual). Like watch a movie together naked or something. Getting him more comfortable just being naked around you. But yeah if he goes quick, why not just get that over with and go for round 2? lol He can go down on you for example while he recoups.

[Opinion Owner]

You can also practice the start and stop technique with him. Google it if you don't know what it is. But it takes communication and practice.

[Asker]

We basically have sex 3 times a month. We both are comfortable being naked around eachother. But I don’t like him going down on me he’s a very affectionate partner already but I’ll look up the start and stop technique with him