WHY did I have 2 sexual dreams about 2 different family members in one week?

It's really grossing me and bothering me.
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  • It’s nothing bad. Sometimes it’s just information you’ve taken in and maybe it’s about things you think about often or care about. It’s like that for me at least. For instance this guy I’m having a thing with told me about his parents getting back together and then that same day I went on for a drive with a friend and we spoke about sexual things we like and don’t like. That night I had a dream about this guys parents and all the sexual things I didn’t like...
    So there really is no other way to put it other than saying maybe it’s just thoughts mashed together.

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  • It's nothing to worry about
    (how many people said that)
    It really is it anything to worry about you're not in love with your cousins or the family member you're not even lust with them either most likely you saw a picture of James Spader or something and he made your horny just before you went to sleep and your subconscious reached and grabbed a picture of Joe blow over here and John Deere over there and substituted them for James Spader nobody could tell you why I haven't it just did so now you have to forget about it I know there's no delete button up there but the more you try to forget about it the more you're going to think about it so just occupy your mind with reading a book watching a good old movie write a letter you'll never send to your homework anything how about writing some more short stories that seems to take your mind off of everything but James Spader since he is the center of Your world I really hope that you work things out Fifi you deserve it

  • it’s ok. We all have weird dreams when we sleep. There is a difference between dreaming of something, thinking of something, and actually wanting to act on it. Before civilization grew humans lived in small tribes and the only way to reproduce was with people we were somewhat related to. This of course, lead to a lower quality of life and a lot of unhealthy defects but as society expanded and we stopped living in small groups, this form or reproduction ended and we became better for it. Don’t beat yourself up for having weird thoughts. Sometimes we have random thoughts about violence and such as well but we don’t act on it. It’s better just to acknowledge ok, I had that dream, but it’s not real and it doesn’t reflect what I really want, it’s just my mind sorting through information while I sleep, anyways time to get on with my day.

    • But just know these dreams as weird as they are, are normal. It’s better just to move on and not to beat yourself up over it, after all these dreams don’t reflect what you really want as you said you are grossed out by it.

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  • I think you’ve been scarred by what he did to you. I know a fam member who was traumatized by dreams for a while but its only cause they watched the Flowers in the Attic series on lifetime and it fcked them up in the head for a while

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  • Don't worry about it. You're just being horny, and dreams don't carry that much meaning

  • You just need James Spader to start answering your phone calls and you'll be good!

    • If only!! :)

  • That is odd. Could be as simple as because you are more familiar with family members than others, but usually sexual interest is not aimed at family members. Have you seen them nude and developed more curiosity about them?

    • Nope, ew not at all

  • This for sure is subliminal. You are channeling some kind of feelings for your family. I'm not sure exactly what they are but what do you feel about the family members you dreamed about? What do you think of when you think of them? 🤔

  • Oh dear 😭😭😭 it means you are transforming into a wereskunk😭

  • I don’t know but that is troubling. You wanna talk about it?

    • No it's to gross for me lol I don't wanna think about it

    • Very good idea

  • Your dreams are typically your mind processing information from the day. So it is likely that you just happened to have a dream about them while also having a sexual dream.

  • It's something like a teen growing up, I would have a wet dream and never no sex dreams about anyone but one wet dream, this friend of the family ( old enough to be my mother ) was holding this garden hose it was supposed to be my cock and I ended having a wet dream, also every wet dream I've ever had, I ended up waking up and needing to masturbate I woke up so horny

    • I believe sex dreams are from our Hormones and our hormone levels

  • Cause it's bothering you

  • Weird things happen in dreams. Try to think of other things or these dreams may recur.

  • Because they are dreams and don't make any sense.

  • oh wow you must be sexually starved I guess.

    • yeah NO.

  • Hormone changes. Mixed thoughts during REM that crossed. Totally normal. Proof? You being grossed out. It happens. You're fine. All good.

  • I'm not a psychologist, but maybe you just wanna be closer with them? I dunno

  • i can see that for a while i thought my brother was hott

  • Hmmmm, something in your subconscious. The sexual part may signify something else, you may not want to focus on that part.

  • Brains are silly things and will take random bits of information and hormones and mix them together to make a dream lol dreams don't mean anything don't worry about it

  • Dreams are sometimes entirely random. I've had similar experiences, and I'd consider myself to be someone who is particular sexual in-tune with myself. I know what I want and in my dreams I have done things I do NOT want. So don't beat yourself up about it. If it truly grosses you out, the best thing to do is to try to preoccupy your mind with other things, and with time, you'll forget about your dream for the most part.

  • Sex dreams about family members are symbolic. They are not about sex with family members. Yes they are disturbing but they aren't usually about sex so don't worry too much unless it happens during waking hours

  • Just let it go... ignore the dreams

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