Is important to masturbate yourself at least once in life?

I know it sounds pretty weird, specially from a grown up woman. Yeah, I am a Miss Prudish, but my sexual life hasn't been very exciting like the average, but there has been a time in my life where I got inmersed in romantic hentai and excited me but I didn't need to go to masturbate myself. The porn, well that's not for me because I don't get excited like with hentai.

I got two emotional relationships and some kind of one night stand in life, but I only got maximun to finger penetration, and with the one night stand, my body felt good, but the dude was very rude and seemed to want to dominate. The two relationships didn't reached there, but I wanted to reach more with them, unfortunately, things didn't work out, they didn't want something deeper, and I felt that they were scared from me.

I have been single for five years, and I am somehow a virgin (I only reached to finger penetration and oral sex), I don't feel the need to satisfy sexual needs, but my therapist told me that I need to pay attention to that part of myself, how?, he told me that I need to learn how to masturbate myself and seeing it not a sin. And he told me that because I told him that I am worried about my sex organs health, that I got a cyst detected and my period hasn't come yet after more than a month. (and I haven't had sex so..)

I am not pretty sure about it, because I don't feel that I need it in life right now, what do you think?
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  • No, but it important if you been single for five years, also you already let a guy to masturbate you, so what is the big deal if you do it yourself? it should be easier if anything.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You should masturbate often. If you're embarrassed to use your fingers, try a vibrator. If you have a cyst and issues with your period, you should see your doctor.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Why do you see masturbation as sinful but not being fingered by a guy or having oral sex? Shouldn't it be the other way around?

    • I didn't want the fingering with that guy, but he forced his way, he stopped when I shouted, not sure if I scared him, because he stopped. The oral sex was easier specially because I did it for the first time with a guy I wanted to go all the way with, but we stopped, it is very difficult to explain. Consciously I don't see it as a sin, but in some way I am scared to do it because I am afraid of losing something or that I won't see things like before, that there will be no way back in something. Also, I am seeing it right now as a distraction of my duties. Maybe not a sin, but I may still think about love and sex still as one, that I can't do it unless I meet the right person to do it.

  • I think everyone should know how to maturbate to get to know their own body

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  • I think masturbation would be helpful. You deserve some great orgasms also!!!
    It is a good way to get in tune with your body. As you know all young guys masturbate frequently even if they are having sex.. but they will never admit it.

  • Yes, It's okay to masturbate and do whatever you need, one night I was so horny my cock rubbing up against my shorts, I went into the bathroom and masturbated it was mind-blowing but it helped relieve my horniest

  • If you don't feel temptation or a desire to do it then good for you. I wouldn't do it unless you want to. If it's a sin then I've sinned a lot.

  • Definitely! Everyone should try it

  • Masturbating does make the vagina strong. You can masturbate and let it come out. If you like it then you can do it again. Just have fun.

  • I found once tried there is always a second time...

  • I think once you do, you are going to wish you did earlier.

  • I genuinely think masturbation is essential to learn about how you're body reacts sexually and to find what you enjoy. Have fun, experiment and learn to love yourself.

  • It’s a normal healthy thing to do. Nothing to be ashamed of or worried about.

  • Go for it

  • Not important but many times it's a necessity

  • You usually don't miss something if you have never experienced it, but once you have that experience, you may become a frequent masturbator. I think it is a sin only if you use it to deprive a partner of sex within a marriage.

  • If you don't want to, it's not a "must". But I do agree that you shouldn't see it as a sin. And it does feel good. It's not going to hurt you in any way.

  • i do it several times a day so...

    • Me too lol

  • No its not actually. If you had partner all the time