I feel like I can concentrate more when talking to a woman with small breasts. Am I the only guy that feels the same way?

[MCheetah]

If a woman has small breasts, or not-large breasts, like a C cup or less, then I feel like I can respect them more and just see them as an equal or just another human being. Where as, if I talk to a woman with large breasts (or a large-sized butt), then I feel like I'm sexually aroused by them, and sex is on my mind, and I can't just focus on what they're saying without the idea that I want to sleep with them in the back of my mind, distracting me. In other words, anytime I see a girl with big breasts, a big booty, etc, part of me is always going to be distracted by sex, making it harder for me to focus on them and what they're saying or take them fully serious. Am I the only one who feels like this?

I posted this in Reddit in the past and was implied to be the worst person alive, with one telling me to "eat sh*t and die" and being "a lowlife piece of sh*t." But it's not my fault I'm heterosexual and like and can appreciate a great female body from time to time. I can't "cut off" being attracted to women and go into Asexual Mode.

I know this site isn't full of immature, self-righteous SJW Progressive dipsh*ts like Reddit is packed to the brim of, so I can get a more normal response here. Is this "a bad thing"?

[thegirlfromthething]

Yeah, that’s a bad thing. It’s not wrong to be attracted to women or get distracted around attractive women but you’re taking it too far. Being attractive doesn’t make them less worthy of respect, less of a human being, or less than your equal. There’s a difference between being attracted to a woman and seeing her as inferior to someone else, and that’s what the people on Reddit were mad about. It is shameful to let your sex drive convince you that anyone is inferior as a human being.
I’ve talked to very attractive guys before and I was distracted by their looks and my attraction to them. But I took them seriously and have never seen any of them as less respectable, less of a person, or less than my equal just because they’re hot.

[MCheetah]

I'm not saying they're less worthy of respect or inferior in anyway. I'm saying I'm less distracted by them if I don't find them attractive or appealing.

[thegirlfromthething]

“If a woman has small breasts, or not-large breasts, like a C cup or less, then I feel like I can respect them more and just see them as an equal or just another human being” So what did you mean by that?

[MCheetah]

That came out wrong, I admit. I meant, there wouldn't be anything distracting me from just listening to them or what they have to say. Like when I speak to men, I'm not wondering if they're single or if they're up for a date that weekend while they're talking. With someone with an attractive body, my attention is split in half, and half of me can't concentrate on what they're saying. Which means, I'm not fully engaged with them.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao 😂 i believe it. Even when i wear graphic tees that cover my breasts fully, its a fitted tee so they still stare 🤣

[Lliam]

I'm not aware of having that problem. I think I just see women as people who happen to be female. Yes, they have female bodies, and female bodies are wonderful. Granted, some women are cuter than others. Thoughts might cross my mind about she looks like unclothed or what it would be like to slam her, but I still treat her like a person.
The only thing I will say is, if she has big boobs, and especially if they are charmingly displayed in some way like with cleavage, I have trouble keeping my eyes from flicking to them.

[MCheetah]

"The only thing I will say is, if she has big boobs, and especially if they are charmingly displayed in some way like with cleavage, I have trouble keeping my eyes from flicking to them." This is what I mean. The more attractive they or their bodies are, the harder it is to 100% fully concentrate on them. Because that attraction is still there.

[Stoner710]

No boobs are distracting so it’s hard not to stare, smaller boobs aren’t as eye catching so there not as hard to ignore

[Alya_pillowprincess]

That is interesting..

[Whtevernever]

That you still act like a 13 year old boy when it comes to women, yes that's a "bad thing" damn dude.