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I caught my girlfriend looking at a picture of my brother during sex , any advice?

(I posted this before and it was late so I was seeing if I could get more answers if I posted it during the day) Okay so i know this story is ****** up but just try to bare with me please. Okay so me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years and recently I have gotten into the cuckold fantasy, I told her about it but she wasn’t interested at all so I backed off. Well fast forward I start showing her porn while we have sex cause she admitted to being turned on by one I played so it really spiced up our sex life. also recently I caught her having a whole fake Instagram account and she said that it was just to stalk me , well I believed her because I trust her but I saw she liked a lot of my brothers pictures , she said she only did it to not look like a fake account and to see what I was doing. One day We were having sex and instead of putting porn I played a new song me and my brother made and on the cover it’s a picture of my brother and I swear I caught her looking over the blanket at the phone and then putting her head on my shoulder to imagine him. It felt weird tbh... 2 minutes later she orgasms hard. She also doesn’t like his girlfriend which is weird too. Does my girlfriend like my brother? And should I be worried? Me and my girlfriend are 18 and my brother is 20 we are both skinny with some muscle but he has more of a build I’m tall and skinny I honestly felt like she expected it to be porn when she looked at the phone but saw my brother and got really turned on from what I could tell. I know I’m a idiot show mercy for me I just need some advice should I worry about this?
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  • Wow. I can see why you're upset and kind of sad/worried. You're not "an idiot."

    Honestly... yeah maybe.
    But you can't really do anything about it.
    Your brother is older, better build, more mature. It's a pretty typical and natural scenario. And this is not some movie character she's into, so I understand how it really hurts.
    I normally say to people that you have to try and rise above jealousy and although these things are very human, they can also sometimes be petty. But not in your case. This is your own flesh and blood and your girl.
    If I were you, I would not go snooping around her brain on this one. You're likely to feel more hurt. She should try and deny it, but then you'll probably see through that. And then where will you be? Just feeling awkward.
    So it would be understandable for you to try and keep them a part a little. And not to bring up his name at all. Hopefully she follows suit and accepts that, or better yet, recognizes that it's not cool and she needs to chill about him.
    It is what it is, I'm afraid. Maybe in time she'll get over him (and not get under him. That could cause a huge riff between you and both of them.) For now, just remember she is with you. You have her.
    Although... getting a partner is much easier than keeping them. Keeping them, and keeping them happy, takes far more work.

    • Quick update: I tried the same thing today to make sure I wasn’t just imagining things and nope I caught her again and it literally only took her 30 seconds to cum. I finally called her out on it and she didn’t even wanna admit it or say what she did herself , she was speechless. I told her if she doesn’t give me a explanation why that I’m breaking up with her and she still stayed quiet and just said that I don’t understand so j just broke up with her and left her for good , right choice? I know I seem harsh but just the fact I sacrificed so much for this girl and our sex life was great but she just picked up a weird kink and it just breaks my heart cause this is the girl I love and I just knew I couldn’t live with it

    • Well, suit yourself. But I think you may have overreacted. 4 years, and she’s just looking at your brother. I know it hurts. Try your best to be a little objective though, k. You’re teenagers. She’s looking at guy who’s probably more mature, maybe both physically and emotionally, but I’m speaking physically. You see him as your brother, your equal, probably. But maybe she doesn’t. You are two separate people and she’s reacting to something hormonal or chemical, telling her body that this other guy looks strong, like he has good genes, more muscle or something. I’m not trying to disparage you, I’m trying to encourage you to step outside of yourself a bit here. Fidelity indefinitely is a difficult thing to achieve. But she didn’t cheat on you. There are worse things, worse situations. Relationships are not easy. Take some deep breaths and see how you feel about this a bit later. Depending on how the person reacts, what they have to say, some things can be forgiven. And moved past. This could be one of them.

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  • It seems like you are assuming with a lot of jealousy here. Talk to her about this.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Dude, you are assuming a whole lot here. Do you like it when your girlfriend assumes she knows how you feel, how you think? Fuck no. TALK TO HER about it. IN PERSON, not by stupid text.
    I noticed something else that you just blew right by: she made a fake a account to check up on you? Wtf is that? She doesn't trust you if she did that.. I couldn't be with a woman who didn't trust me...

    • Your absolutely right , ima ask her in person & I know I cheated one time the first week we talked and she never trusted me again even after 4 years she says she does but obviously she doesn’t

    • Well then why are you wasting your time?

    • Because she’s the only woman I ever had a serious relationship, we met each other freshmen year and made a lot of memories, it’s hard giving that up sometimes

  • Sadly it's life. But would she be happy with him. She is still with you, so you must have something going for you.
    But if you want to find out why not chat to her. You never know you could work something out...

    • Quick update: I tried the same thing today to make sure I wasn’t just imagining things and nope I caught her again and it literally only took her 30 seconds to cum. I finally called her out on it and she didn’t even wanna admit it or say what she did herself , she was speechless. I told her if she doesn’t give me a explanation why that I’m breaking up with her and she still stayed quiet and just said that I don’t understand so j just broke up with her and left her for good , right choice?

    • We been together for 4 years so I know I seem harsh but dam it hurts me really bad how much I tried for this woman just for her to do that. And just seeing her do that , in her head she wasn’t fucking me at all. It just hurts bad

    • It seems so but it's hard when this happens...

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  • Yes. Talk to her about it. Maybe you should break up and she should see your brother.

  • So both of you bang her or let him bang her


    Or just let it die


    But don't play the what if

  • Let him have her

  • Be happy with her as long as she's with you.

  • Ya saw this before and same answer. She is fantasizing about your brother.

    • Quick update: I tried the same thing today to make sure I wasn’t just imagining things and nope I caught her again and it literally only took her 30 seconds to cum. I called her out on it and she didn’t even wanna admit it or say what she did herself , she was speechless. I told her if she doesn’t give me a explanation why that I’m breaking up with her and she still stayed quiet and just said that I don’t understand so j just broke up with her and left her for good , right choice?

  • Well even if she is attracted to him, nothing will happen because you are brothers. Bros before ho’s right?

    • Absolutely, I’m just wondering if I should let this girl go , we been together for 4 years and I love her

    • I wouldn’t, I’ve learned that the first one is usually the best one and you have been together a long time already, eventually you will have your own place together and not have to worry about her being near your brother

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