I've been watching ONLY doggystyle porn during "playtime" to train myself to be aroused by it. Will it work?

[Apope16]

I am a heterosexual male. My favorite position is missionary. Missionary is pretty much the only position I can orgasm to.

Whenever I am with a woman during sex and we start doing doggystyle, I start to go flaccid and lose my erection. The same is true of blow jobs.

Why is this the case?

Because women enjoy doggystyle so much I have started masturbating to doggystyle porn. I hope that by having orgasms on my own to doggystyle porn I might enjoy it in real life. I just want to really satisfy any partner that I am with. I have had a number of partners who liked doggy style.

I believe part of it is because I am 8 inches and in the past that has been a problem during doggy style. but at the same time after starting slow they beg for a larger size in that position. But on a personal note I prefer intimacy and that is why I favor missionary.

[PrudentGuy]

Before I share my Opinion, I like to say: its perfectly OK not to have doggy style sex.

Next, I like to mention, a sex session takes about 15 minutes foreplay + about 5 more penetrative.

Hence if you cannot penetrate her doggy style, that does not mean you cannot give her an orgasm (during foreplay) in doggy style.

With my personal experience, I think there are many ways to make her cum in doggy style, thus satisfying her sexually, and help you avoid porn.

Examples:

1) sensual massage with her lying flat on her stomach.

This means you can see, touch and spank her butt as you massage her.

Rubbing her butt, anus and thighs with coconut oil is VERY sensual, for both.

2) when she is wet, she can assume doggy style and you may then see her anus, vagina and feel her clitoris.

Using a toy or your fingers to play with her clit, vagina and anus will make her extremely horny and high.

No porn is needed. Just your creativity and observation how each moves of yours arouses her, making her more wet, even orgasms.

3) dare to lick?
Ya, cunnilingous and rimming.

No porn needed. Eating her doggystyle allows you to see her anus closed up and smell it for pheromones. Who knows you may get hard in this process.

4) enjoy spanking? Try it. Could be a new bedroom activity you both enjoy.

Finally, when she is screaming for a penetration, flip her over for Missionary or get her to go on top of you.

Ya, mixed it up. Try it. Great session with doggy style foreplay.

[Hannajenky]

This

[Gedaria]

Only porn does it for me is lesbian.
Normal stuff just turns me off.
So I can understand your reasoning...

[zollo]

Hmm that's bizarre and interesting. Why do you think you start to go flaccid with anything but missionary? Is there not enough stimulation or is it visually not enough? Odd question but it might be useful, what position do you usually cum in while masturbating?

[Apope16]

I always masturbate in bed on my back. I enjoy girl on top. But I primarily orgasm in missionary. There are many reasons why i probably can't orgasm in doggy style. I think one reason is I am a boob guy not a butt guy. So I get very aroused seeing a woman's breasts during sex. Not so much her butt. I think also in the past I have had to pause during doggy position because I am 8 inches long. So there have been times where in such a deep position I have hurt ladies briefly. So in that position I can only go very slow. whereas in missionary the way the angle is I can pound away and the deepness is more comfortable. But I think psychologically I am conditioned to be very afraid of hurting a girl now.

[zollo]

Maybe instead of the normal doggy style where it's like an "L" shape (I can't add pictures to a reply sorry) try it where you're more at an angle leaning over her more. It should still grind on her good spots but still allow for a more shallow penetration. It's hard to explain without pictures.

[Gwenhwyfar]

No. You like what you like. I like variety personally.

[Anonymous]

i've never seen a guy get soft from doggy style, if anything it makes them harder and crazier

[Anonymous]

I wanna help you

[Apope16]

Thanks. I appreciate it. It is funny. I should do a mytake on that response. Whenever I tell women about a sexual vulnerability women offer to help me. then we actually do have sex in real life. Women are like sexually competitive. its hilarious and flattering.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think it will work but it’s worth a try, I can get hard to any position so I don’t know what that is like but I do like missionary too and I really like bjs so who knows