We’ve been together a couple of months and started having sex recently. She insists she has to “shave clean for me” down there. But it’s like she can’t put two and two together. She thinks I require her to shave when in reality, I like her to look like an adult if I’m having sex with her. I think her past relationships drilled it into her head that she has to be hairless. She’s about 8 years younger than I am so maybe that plays into it too? What can I do or say to help her understand this?