It's the fear of pain that'll make you tense up and make it hurt. If you're not relaxed and comfortable, you're probably going to have a bad time. Rather than making somebody more scared, I prefer to give advice.
So relax, take some deep breaths, use plenty of lube, and try it out with fingers and a toy so you can get used to it. It'll feel really weird at first, but that'll pass. When trying it for real, do some warmup with fingers or toys first, and then get him nice and hard, have him enter very slowly, and then stop, and don't move for a good 30 seconds so you can get used to it and relax your muscles. After that, he can gradually start speeding up. If you do it right and take your time and relax, it can feel really amazing, but if you don't, it can be super painful.
I think the best way to go about it is to tell her that may be very uncomfortable or that it might hurt, but it doesn't have to. It's important that she knows that she needs to actually be in charge. Most guys think they get it, but they often don't and don't realize. It's up to her to communicate what works when and how for her, not him.
Ultimately there are lots of things that will go into just how uncomfortable it will be, but she should know that it doesn't have to be and it's ok for her to take thenlead at first.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Might be a bit wrong. If you say it hurts, they'll expect it to hurt making their mind think it hurts. If you dont, they have no idea and might not feel it because they didn't expect it to. by the way are you really 19, you look so young!
i was always scared about mine hurting and it went right in. my sister said hers didn't hurt either
She probably knows it will hurt just not how much. I would tell her what it was like for you and be honest. It’s def something to prepare for
Definitely tell her how it was for you. I think she'd really appreciate if you were 100% honest about it.
I think it's good to warn her. Cause it will hurt. Tell her to use lots of lube on her anus and to bite the pillow and let the guy fuck it until she gets numb and likes it
Just mention to her that it hurts then let her experience it herself
to be honest it's painful as hell.
if it goes wrong you will even face difficulty walking for days.
i've never tried it with anyone
Yes I would. Cause it's true, it hurts.
You should warn her that it might hurt if Not done properly with care and in the right way.. She should know what to expect, but don't tell her in a way that frightens her.. Tell her to educate her on how to minimize discomfort and maximize her pleasure.. Give her good tips, tell her about what and how you felt during your first time its better than to tell her that she is gonna feel certain things.. And it shouldn't hurt if you do it with a good understanding patient partner who respects your limits and listens to you and your body
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