Thank you for your answer, hun. Can you write to me in PM?
Well, it is really difficult now. I can see myself giving a BJ to a man and giving my butt to him, but not kissing and cuddling. For women.. I always think that I wanted to have a wife and kids, I think I still do, but I dont feel desire for sex with a woman at all now.. Its complicated..
I think maybe you a threesome relationship. You need to have a boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time. Have a true 3some life. Move in with a girl and guy and see which one you spend more with and see who emotionally connect with
I think that might help you decide what gender you like. It could even be both
Well that sounds nice, but I doubt it can happen. I think I will be more bond emotionally with the girl, but in my fantasies right now for a sex with a girl and a man, I see myself with the girl, I mean together to try and please the man. In a way she to teach me how to do that and that, you get what I wanted to say, I hope.
See you need to meet people like me. That would understand that thinking
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Hehe, nice comment and you are right, but I am still confused, but I need to label myself, to know what I am exactly, because I am stuck with this and I can't get over it..
See your other question..I responded with something there that might help
I like more girls than guys, but in a way I envy you (girls) and I want to be like you. I like dicks and maybe some muscular and strong guys, so you can say that other guys turn me. I dont desire kissing a guy, but let say if he fondles my butt and kisses me, maybe then I will like it.
Sounds like you are bisexual.
Thank you for the asnwer. And I have, but I dont like gay porn, also I dont like lesbian porn. I like to watch straight porn, but I imagine myself in the place of the girls.. :(
Ah I see. Seriously it may have been that while watching it something in you wished to have sex with the guy in gay porn but it’s kind of integrated in you because of those emotions. Maybe you should try to develop sexual urges to girls, in a healthy way and tell yourself that by nature you should not be attracted to men and stop having any fantasies with men?
I dont know, its really confusing and complicated. I followed you from my other account, but I can't write you, so if you want, can you PM, I would love to chat, but if you want of course. Also, we are neighboors, because I am from Bulgaria.
Well, in terms of sex, yes..
But relationship wise you want a girl? Why?I think to me you are gay, but seem to have an issue with that.
I dont know why. I mean I can't see myself in loving relationship with a man.., to kiss him, hug him, to be romantic with him..
Hmm.. okay. Honestly, if you're really wanting a label, say bisexual and focus on being happy.
Well, ok. But its true that I crave and desire sex with men, but I have like some mental block and I can't seem to overcome my fears and finally do it. Maybe its because I dont want to be gay and I think I will forget about women completely if I do it with a man. Its difficult.
To be fair, so what if you are? So what if you then don't want women? Not the end of the word.
Okay, and sorry for the invite. Block me, if you want. :( Thank you for your advice.
But I am confused and I dont want to be confused anymore.. :(
Do you need to defining yourself?
Well I feel like I need to, I want to..
Why do you feline you need to define yourself?
because I am stuck with this and I can't get over it..
"Why do you feline you need to define yourself?"This sounds like something I might read on a Grumpy Cat meme.
Yeah, but I can't seem to be able to find the answer. :(
Well dicks turn me on, also female clothes, panties..
Maybe you're pansexual. Look into it.
Say something else..
if you ask something else