Girls, need help to find out if I am gay?

[SirWilliam]

Please, can someone help me to find out if I am gay or not, how I am supposed to know and be sure. I am sorry if I am bothering you, but I really want to find out if I am gay or not..

[Butterflyy88]

You would have to figure that out yourself, only you would know.
I guess some questions you could ask yourself are
-"do I find them attractive?"
-"do I find the opposite gender attractive?"
-"do you see yourself being in a relationship with them, or being intimate with them?"

It's normal to question your own sexuality, many people do it. Just take your time trying to figure it out.

[SirWilliam]

Thank you for your answer, hun. Can you write to me in PM?

[Just_someone23]

Well that something only you have to figure out.

Can you see yourself. Giving a man BJ, kissing, cuddling and be emotionally support his needs

The same can be said for you when it comes to women

The 3rd choice is. Can you see yourself with both

[SirWilliam]

Well, it is really difficult now. I can see myself giving a BJ to a man and giving my butt to him, but not kissing and cuddling. For women.. I always think that I wanted to have a wife and kids, I think I still do, but I dont feel desire for sex with a woman at all now.. Its complicated..

[Just_someone23]

I think maybe you a threesome relationship. You need to have a boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time. Have a true 3some life. Move in with a girl and guy and see which one you spend more with and see who emotionally connect with

[Just_someone23]

I think that might help you decide what gender you like. It could even be both

[SirWilliam]

Well that sounds nice, but I doubt it can happen. I think I will be more bond emotionally with the girl, but in my fantasies right now for a sex with a girl and a man, I see myself with the girl, I mean together to try and please the man. In a way she to teach me how to do that and that, you get what I wanted to say, I hope.

[Just_someone23]

See you need to meet people like me. That would understand that thinking

[LittleTurtleDuck]

No I won't be sending you nudes
No I won't have sex with you
No I can't help you like that

All I can tell you is that you are gay (homosexual) if you are attracted to other men sexually. Are you? Then you are gay. Are you not? You are not gay.
Do you like men and women sexually? You are Bisexual.

That's it, no need to be confused, and if you are not sure, no need to label yourself anyway.

[SirWilliam]

Hehe, nice comment and you are right, but I am still confused, but I need to label myself, to know what I am exactly, because I am stuck with this and I can't get over it..

[LittleTurtleDuck]

See your other question.. I responded with something there that might help

[cherryblossomXD]

You see what turns you on, then you will know

[SirWilliam]

Well dicks turn me on, also female clothes, panties..

[cherryblossomXD]

Maybe you're pansexual. Look into it.

[DizzyDesii]

If you’ve ever wanted to get sexual with a guy in any way (kiss/touch/sex/etc) then you’re likely gay.

[ThatQuietLass]

I mean, it's sort of easy to know.
Are you attracted to men sexually and not women?

[SirWilliam]

Well, in terms of sex, yes..

[ThatQuietLass]

But relationship wise you want a girl? Why? I think to me you are gay, but seem to have an issue with that.

[SirWilliam]

I dont know why. I mean I can't see myself in loving relationship with a man.., to kiss him, hug him, to be romantic with him..

[ThatQuietLass]

Hmm.. okay. Honestly, if you're really wanting a label, say bisexual and focus on being happy.

[SirWilliam]

Well, ok. But its true that I crave and desire sex with men, but I have like some mental block and I can't seem to overcome my fears and finally do it. Maybe its because I dont want to be gay and I think I will forget about women completely if I do it with a man. Its difficult.

[ThatQuietLass]

To be fair, so what if you are? So what if you then don't want women? Not the end of the word.

[SirWilliam]

Okay, and sorry for the invite. Block me, if you want. :( Thank you for your advice.

[Zhisad]

www.allthetests.com/.../Gay-Test

[Shorty763]

Just ask yourself do you like guys more than girls. Does other guys turn you on. Also just because you asking means you are unsure.
And also ask yourself would you kiss a guy.

[SirWilliam]

I like more girls than guys, but in a way I envy you (girls) and I want to be like you. I like dicks and maybe some muscular and strong guys, so you can say that other guys turn me. I dont desire kissing a guy, but let say if he fondles my butt and kisses me, maybe then I will like it.

[Shorty763]

Sounds like you are bisexual.

[hellohruu]

Have you watched gay pornography? It may have influenced your preference

[SirWilliam]

Thank you for the asnwer. And I have, but I dont like gay porn, also I dont like lesbian porn. I like to watch straight porn, but I imagine myself in the place of the girls.. :(

[hellohruu]

Ah I see. Seriously it may have been that while watching it something in you wished to have sex with the guy in gay porn but it’s kind of integrated in you because of those emotions. Maybe you should try to develop sexual urges to girls, in a healthy way and tell yourself that by nature you should not be attracted to men and stop having any fantasies with men?

[SirWilliam]

I dont know, its really confusing and complicated. I followed you from my other account, but I can't write you, so if you want, can you PM, I would love to chat, but if you want of course. Also, we are neighboors, because I am from Bulgaria.

[JosyJosy]

fuck a guy already

[SirWilliam]

Say something else..

[JosyJosy]

if you ask something else

[AmourHoney]

Only you will have the answer to that.

[SirWilliam]

Yeah, but I can't seem to be able to find the answer. :(

[KatherineJ]

Only you can figure that out.