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My girl and I had a great sex life. She now wants to be saved and no sex until marriage. Am I wrong because I don’t want to stick around?

Is it fair to ask someone to completely give up sex because you chose to?
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  • It's good to have open communication and talk about things before making decisions that could affect both parties. with that being said have you talked to her about it? Being saved is a big game changer when people take that step it means making the decision to live a Christ like life. a lot of the things she once was okay with she most likely won't be anymore. Sex out side of marriage Obviously is one of them. if your mind went right to leaving then that's not a good sign. It sounds like you need to do some searching for yourself. Really think about why you're with her and if you see a future with her like marriage. Being involved with someone you need to have respect for their decisions. Have a talk with her a genuine one. Not about how you need sex but how this affects you and how you feel about it then listen to her side of things. Even better become a Christian. Lol Saving yourself goes a lot deeper than just abstaining from sex, you should look into it. Good luck with everything.

    • Great advice. We have had a conversation and I explained that I didn’t think that it was fair that this decision was made without a conversation with me prior. Not just in it for the sex but if she wakes up one day and decided that this is what she wants and I’m not on the same page should I still be in her life? If I am not walking the same path should I be here?

    • Thank you. Lol 🙂 You do have a right to question those things and it doesn't make you a bad person that you do. Some times the decisions we make do lead to others withdrawing from our lives. If you care about her and marriage isn't ruled out I think you should stick it out. No sex isn't a bad thing. Now if you don't plan on marrying her and you think no sex would lead you to cheat then it might be best to call things off to prevent any other issues. Maybe give it a month or two by the end of those months if you are still questioning things and no longer feel like your relationship is worth continuing then leave.

Most Helpful Guys

  • She was saved? Sorry there's no do overs in life. Make the decision best for you. She chose that it doesn't mean you have to and it doesn't make you a bad person if you don't follow her into a life of christ

    • Thanks. Then I’m not crazy...

    • No you're not crazy

  • Well, I think that's not fair. But what about oral? Would she agree to that?

    • Nope

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • How far away is your marriage?

  • When is the wedding?

    • Lol.

    • There is your answer

  • Yes, and yes, in my opinion.

  • She wants to practice celebacy now?

    • Exactly

    • Cool Let her turn into a nun

  • Are you engaged yet? Is she the real deal? I would be honest with her

    • I have been it she still thinks we should be together

  • Did you propose?

    • Nope. Been together a little over a year. Don’t want to get married to get sex. Feels like I’m being forced to make a choice

  • You are free to leave or negotiate anal sex or oral sex

    • Tried that already. She wasn’t going for it.

    • Damn IT !!

    • THATS WHAT I SAID!!!

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