Why women would like to have sex with rockstar?

[Anonymous]

so i have found that video online and it made me think , i know not every woman it's like the one in the video , but anyway lots of women would like to have sex with a celebrity/rockstar , but why is that? i mean if they find a sexy guy probably they would not care to have sex with him but if they found out that it's a celebrity then they go crazy and want to have sex , why is that? what do you think? can you explain me more about that?

[slatyb]

They are powerful men -- wealthy and they had the motivation to work on their skill to get to that point. People aren't born rock stars. They pick up an instrument and practice and practice and practice to develop their talent. Of course women are attracted to them. Men are also attracted to performers. I constantly crush on actresses and singers. Not just the ones who make it big but also the ones that just perform locally.

[AccidentalCompliance]

You know that's Nirvana and they have a song called Rape Me? She's asking for them to play the song, not necessarily asking for him to do that to her...

[ChefPapiChulo]

its the way she said it.

[ChefPapiChulo]

more often than not, how we say things reflects more than what we actually say.

[AccidentalCompliance]

@ChefPapiChulo So if they said "what song do you want us to play?" and i screamed Lithium, is it because I want some lithium?

[ChefPapiChulo]

See the English is a really complex language, and your comparison just doesn’t have the same effect or carryover than what’s heard in the video.

[ChefPapiChulo]

But if you said it in the same way she said it, people would assume really like lithium. So to answer your question, yes people would most likely assume that

[AccidentalCompliance]

@ChefPapiChulo No they'd assume I really like the song Lithium... also chances are the girl in the video thought it would be funny for a girl to shout Rape Me so she said it particularly loud. Also this was in 1994 at MTV unplugged, two years after the 1992 MTV awards where Nirvana started to play Rape Me when they weren't supposed to and almost made MTV have to cut away from their performance so it was also a joke within the band/fans to play Rape Me at MTV events. her shouting Rape Me as a song request really isn't as deep as you think it is

[ChefPapiChulo]

honestly you can interrupt it how you want. Its a short clip video, and the request seems a little odd. I'm sure the women who said that didn't have sex with Kurt and went on to live a very happy life.

[Asker]

@accidentalcompliance @chefpapichulo actually i didn't know that nirvada made a song called rape me , anyway let's forget the video , some girls do that anyway why you guys think that happens?

[ChefPapiChulo]

attention. women need it more than anything.

[AccidentalCompliance]

Because why not? Bragging rights. Same way I'd have sex with famous people just so I could say I have. Plus if you have sex with them and they like you then they can basically pay for your lifestyle, all you have to do is stay with them, have sex with them and they take care of you. That's why bands have groupies

[Asker]

thank you guys!

[Berethor]

Money? also women known for their herd mentality, while men tend to be more logical.

[Asker]

do you have some sources that confirm that? or it's just a feeling? is there some study that confirms/show that?

[Berethor]

A feeling, and it would be hard to find a modern study about it, because it's not a PC kind of study.

[BenBo1]

Bro you gotta be joking right? That is such a backwards mindset and has literally no proof. The real reason it'd be hard to find a modern study about it, is because it's a baseless claim. It'd be impossible to find evidence for a statement so blatantly wrong. HUMANS are susceptible to herd mentality, not just women. Case in point, you saying that. You only say that because you've heard other people saying it, and it makes you feel smart and special, one of the prime reasons people fall for herd mentality. if you want an article that focuses on a story of MEN following herd mentality, and things going badly for it search up a website called investopedia and an article called herd instinct. See, I have proof, not just a feeling.

[Kaneki05]

well you would want to have sex with a women rockstar right?
Or other women who are famous?
just the same thing really.

[genericname85]

because humans have a strong tendencies to spread their genes with the genetically best mate. in order to find the best mate, women look for the most successfull men. rockstars are the most successfull.

[Asker]

then why men don't act the same? if a men sees a pretty woman probably he would like have sex with her and dosen't care if she has succes , but women don't do the same , if a men is sexy for a woman , is not sure that she would like to have sex with him

[genericname85]

men do act exactly like that, however the criteria with which men determine women as "high value" does not so much have to do with her socioeconomic status. for women, socioeconomic status and a bunch of other things rank way higher in importance than "being visually sexy". for men this metric is among the most important. that's the difference. and "wanting someone" and "going over to them and tell them that you want them" are 2 entirely different sories. inhibitions and insecurities play into this. but men overall act pretty much the same when they see some sexy celeb as women. men are the gatekeepers of love, women are the gatekeepers of sex. that's how you can think about it.

[Asker]

thank you for explaining!

[genericname85]

thanks for listening :)

[In_Trance]

Bragging rights

[xxxBabyEmiixxx]

The woman in the crowd was talking to Kurt about their song Rape Me. She didn't mean it in a sexual context. Nevertheless some people want to have sex with famous men because they're famous, have money, or are just genuinely attracted to them. So basically the same reasons a woman would have sex with any man correlate to their attraction to that celebrity.