Guys, would you have sex with a virgin or non virgin?
- Each holds its allure... MUCH to be said in favor of guilt-free enthusiastic experience, however...
EVERY male secretly harbors the fantasy (sadly, few the skills) to be her FIRST (easy) and her Life's BEST (far more demanding! ).
"Do you REMEMBER when? and would yah like to do it again?" -so the song goes.
As a legally-ordained Neopagan Clergy this is addressed in OUR equivalent to the Christian's first Holy Communion... the 'trick' lies in getting the Virgin to lay aside all inhibitions and simply BE their honestly-responding animal Self. A kitten doesn't agonize over whether its response to being fondled is 'moral' or 'sinful'... if it feels GOOD, it pur-r-r-rs appreciatively and enthusiastically insistently seeks out MORE!
As Rod Stewart crooned: "The first cut is the deepest..."0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- Tough one. I've done both a couple of times and there is no doubt that an experienced woman is far more capable of receiving and giving pleasure than a woman with no experience but I have been asked twice, asked in a way that seemeds as if a great deal of thought went into the selection process and it felt kike something of an honor to doing that. There is something rewarding about the gentleness it takes, the re-assurancxe that assuages fears. Knowing wht she is likely to feel as far as pain or pleasure and being able to prepare her for it that is different and I don't know if I can express it an0|00|0Is this still revelant?
That was a premature post anyway I was just reiterating the warm sensation oif trust that seems like an honor when asked by a younger girl. Not that I would ever do something anyway but if you are asked there is no way I will ever do anything to amplify my pleasure at that persons' expense. I've been asked by younger girls and told them either wait until they are legal but I don't suggest they find someone else. I have a number of vibrators and I'll give her a new one to take home and suggest she uses it in the privacy of her bedroom so she she can break her hymen in a clean, well- lit comfortable place rather than with someone else who is inexperienced in someplace like a car. I'll still tell her what to expect and suggest she use the vibe to explore her body and discover what she likes at different levels of arousal. I think that helps her and boyfriend in long run. That used to be very difficult but as 40 gets larger, the temptation has seemed to be a lot easier to handle
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- if we are taking about a SO... i would not mind if she was a Virgin.
but if we are talking about just a sexual partner... defiantly would not want a Virgin.
“not that there is anything wrong with either one... it just matters what stage in life people are at”0|00|0 - I'll answer your question with a weird answer BOTH
I have had the honor of being the first for two girls and it was special. I went slow and gave them an orgasm with my tongue first.
I also like it when she has some experience so we can try different positions and have some naked fun.0|00|0 - A non virgin. One of us needs not to be awkward. Plus more experience more better at sex so tbh i don't get why anyone would want a virgin. Which is probably why virgins stay virgins when it comes to virgin guys but then for some reason men have backwards logic and think a virgin is gonna be more experienced and better at it.0|00|0
- Well first would it be sex if it was actually not regular sex? And I would only do the Virgin thing in the world where no one is hurt which is not possible. So I guess technically I would we was the non-virgin so that no one is hurt and I'm not punished0|00|0
- Non virgin. In my last relationship I had to deal with an insecure virgin girlfriend. She never felt secure with me, and I couldn't do more, it was LD. What I am saying is that we never actually had a satisfying sexual life, online. Both were miserable. In other words I want a woman who is capable of expressing her sexual desire. Unfortunately, I suspect is not something a virgin woman can complie.0|00|0
- Well is the non virgin gonna take a gentile leading role and show me what to do?
Right now of want a patient teacher or a virgin cause I'm a virgin.
I'd feel pretty comfortable with another virgin so I geuss I'd prefer a virgin rn0|00|0 - For better sex, non virgin.
I took one girl's virginity when I was new to sex. She was #4 for me. I wasn't patient. I was eager to cum. I was a jerk. I wasted what could have been a wonderful moment for her. I still feel like an ass.0|00|0 - I'm a virgin myself. But I'd much rather have sex with a virgin than a girl that's had multiple guys or just has been around.
A virgin means we can both learn off each other, which would be a fun experience1|00|0 - Since the only virgins left on this Earth are probably all under 14 years of age, I guess I'll go with "non-virgin" thanks! :)0|00|0
- Anonymous2 moVirgin namely because no serious STI risk off the bat, and it feels great to be a woman's first and taking it.
If looking for better sex or more sexual acts, then non-virgin0|00|0 - As a virgin myself fucking another virgin takes away any pressure to perform well because they don't know what the hell they are doing either0|00|0
- Either one, but I would definitely prefer virgin. I’m still virgin myself, and love the idea of experiencing something like that for the first time together.0|00|0
- It depends on A lot of things so either one until I new more about each other0|00|0
- if no other information is provided, i'll go with the non virgin, cause they typically know what they like so stuff is more enjoyable for both.0|00|0
- Non virgin. I have to be really careful not to hurt virgins and there's usually a mess. I don't mind being gentle, but I get very nervous that I'm going to hurt a woman that's never had sex before.0|00|0
- I wanna have sex with the right person it doesn't matter to me if the girl is a non virgin or a virgin but if she happens to be a virgin then I want our time together to be special0|00|0
- Anonymous2 moNon virgin, since i losing your virginity is a big deal and if am not in a long term relationship with a girl it just doesn't seem right.0|00|0
- If i had to choose it would be non-virgin. Im not picky though.0|00|0
- Non-virgin, why would I want a virgin, I want a woman that knows what she wants and maybe teach me some things.0|00|0
- I don't care. I am glad my girlfriend was a virgin when we had sex, but I wasn't expecting it, nor did I care that much.0|00|0
- Non virgin of course. I prefer experienced girls more. But also i don't say no to virgins. Sometimes they can be fun too.0|00|0
- I mean non virgins have experience but losing our virginity together would be something to be remembered0|00|0
- The virgin , just because I know I was her first and not getting sloppy seconds lol0|00|0
- i preffer a non-virgin but am not opposed to being her 1st.0|00|0
- I have enough problems with non-virgins in finding partners who are genital-compatible and I can't imagine that gets easier with virgins.0|00|0
- I have no preference on that , if I like her then I like her already, Virgin or not I would treat her just the same and be gentle0|00|0
- Anonymous2 moOMG!! Use the search and read! This question has been aske 10,000 times!0|00|0
- Virgin because of what I have been through in the past that is a very sore subject.0|00|0
- Virgin have always wanted to take a woman's virginity.0|00|0
- Non virgin. I have no interest in initiating an innocent young girl. I prefer a woman who knows how to use her hungry pussy.0|10|0
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